My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.

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That nikka grandmama getting finessed out the house by Tom. Whole family tree would be in shambles across the multiverse.

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This nikka used a bath stopper as a pocket watch?:russ:
 

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lol it’s really not them playing games. The answer is clear here. She no longer likes dude. And that’s ok. People lose interest. Which is why I think those who get married are playing a very dangerous game, especially if they have a lot to lose.

It becomes that when you don't clearly express what you feel. She knows that if genuinely doesn't know after 3 years its curtains, but it's not even that she doesn't have the nerve to say buddy ain't it or wants to see how much he'll do to make it work. That's why compromise is to be earned not given in a relationship. We can have reciprocity off rip, but dudes start making concessions days in only to end a damn near a whole new nikka in a few months AND the bytch don't even want them like that
 

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Your grandmother had better sense than to be “confused” by some random nikka in a zoot suit. Stop trying to compare modern woman to your fukking grandparents. They move entirely different.

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You right tho. There's billions of people on this planet. Anybody in a relationship that can't control their urges around someone who they deem attractive that's not their significant other doesn't need to be in a relationship. There's no "confusion", just somebody looking for a reason to justify their actions. Issues in a relationship can be ironed out if both sides commit to doing so. Don't believe the hype.

If she wanna move like she's single, then let her be single. Problem solved. :manny:

Sometimes you gotta take emotion out of the equation and use logic. Both OP's ex and dude making moves based on emotion. I can see where this can get messy and a waste of time so OP did right by separating himself.
 

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So you didn't bother to find out what she was actually feeling, where the feelings stemmed from, etc.?

What's the point of committing to and living with someone if you won't even bother to investigate the root of a problem?

Or, do you know she's cheating and just leaving that out?

Dawg if a woman is confused with what she wants with you after 3 years not only does she not like you, but if she actually being truthful, that's something only she can figure. It's one thing to have a disagreement or specific grievances in/about the relationship but to be unsure of the whole thing means it's @Big Boss status
 

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We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave:camby:
She met somebody else playboy and was conflicted about giving the box but you made that easier for her :russ:…cold world :wow:
 
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