My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.

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Went through her phone, she has been talking to an old male friend who lives 100 miles awayfor the past two months, I dont know if they have a past together though. The breh just recently left his cheating baby mama (his got doubts the kid is his).

Maybe she planning to hook up with this breh, I don't know. She is out regardless, I'm helping her look for a room & hopefully she out of my place by the end of next week:camby:

She gonna be back by the Fall, don't let her do it...
 
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You cannot be in a relationship with a girl for 3 years.
You cannot live with a girl for 16 months.

And also expect her to be ok with that. Women want to be married. Have kids.

This was easy to see a mile off.

The girl is right to be confused…what are you doing OP? Marry her. Seed her up.

fukk y’all playing girl friend boy friend when y’all are man and woman living together?
 

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:mjcry:

Why week 3 so hard, I was goin hard for 2 weeks :russ:

Been grindin in the gym 4 straight weeks tho, finna go out tonight and get into fukkery to stay occupied :mjlit:

But my emotions go from



To



Every single day


fukk it you just gotta ride that emotional wave. time heals all. If you try to fight it too hard, you’re just delaying the inevitable. I remember I used to fukk a bytch, play 2k, then lay down in the same spot for 4hrs like :mjcry:
 

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She's going to repeat this same behavior. My brother meets chicks on social media, moves in, deprive they resources, and meet a new bytch in social media and will move in even if she's across the country hell relocate. Rinse, repeat.

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Take it from someone that had to learn the hard way....

The second she tells you she's "not sure", throw her back to the streets. :francis:

I second this!

my ex actually hit me with “my wants and needs aren’t being met”. My dumbass tried to step up and do more. Still wasn’t enough.

she got with some dude two weeks after I left, from IG that raps and flex for the gram all day.

couldn’t believe that I couldn’t read between the lines.
 

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I'm helping her look for a room, hopefully she out by end of next week.

She been talking to an old male friend a lot lately in the last 2 months
That nikka whispering sweet nothings in her ear.

Little do she know.. he gon eventually go back to his baby moms and she gon be left high and dry saying "nikkas ain't shyt" :russ:
 

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Why not sit down, with a therapist, and help her through her confusion? Why not invest in the relationship? I'm sure there is more to the story, but, from what little information you have provided, it seems as though you are giving up. Oh well. :francis:
 

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I was dealing with a chick that I didnt see it with, so I waited until she was in stable enough position, then I bounced. :manny:
yeah no doubt, you gotta move like that with all women to protect yourself learned that the hard way. when they feel like you were able to break things off too easily that's when they get on their bullshyt.
 

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We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave:camby:

You handled it the right way and this is how these situations should always been handled…Nip it in the bud early and let her be for the streets.
 
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