My girl of 3 years is confused about her feelings.

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Smart move. Any time a woman can't give you a straight answer its your cue to let her go. She's just trying to figure out how to tell you it ain't working out.

You're being kind by just cutting to the chase and wrapping things up. A lot of the time when they're talking like that they've scouted out another man and are trying to see if he's going to eventually ask her out.

I knew a woman who was more upset that the replacement wasn't feeling her than the fact that her relationship with her current dude of over 3 years is over. The rejection from the new man hurt more than the loss of the long term relationship :francis:
:lolbron:and when that goes bad and they come crawling back

:ufdup:but don't take em back
 

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yeah you doing the right thing OP

once I start talking to my old male friend aka @ikbm its over for you and ive gotten my lick back.
 

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Yep you ever hear those words, wrap it up, it’s pretty much done. Trying to work it out will just lead to your eventual further humiliation.

Each time, before I learnt my lesson. When a woman has said that to me. I went into overdrive trying to desperately ‘fix’ things.

But naw it was already decided, I just didn't know it yet. And she wanted to do it gently. Of course she’ll pop back up a few weeks later asking if you can try again.

But that round won’t last long either once a woman's attraction for you is fading or gone it will take a herculean effort to get it back.

Good on the OP for being decisive.
 
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This wonky ass relationship

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We been living together for 16 months, everything was good but she said she confused about her feelings. I told her it's over, she can pack her bags & leave:camby:

my G. :russ: :myman:

I avoided this thread cuz I thought it was gonna be a nikka crying for advice but you not one for games it seems…cut straight thru the bullshyt :yes:
 
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