My girl said hitting raw = Marriage

[dabestkeptsecret]

My girl said i'm the only one she let it raw, which means that she's expecting marriage one day. I didn't put much thought when she said this because it was during smashing session, but now i'm thinking does that even make sense !

Wait is she saying that you're the only one to hit it raw ever, or the only one hitting it raw now
just an observation breh

 

[Silkk]

Way it should be...honestly, folks shouldn't be going raw UNLESS you married but that's another convo for another day...




Personally think we'd be much better off if folks played it that way. Family structure would be totally different plus mindsets and foolishness wouldn't be as bad

I 100% agree.....




But that shyt feel way too good, so if im in any kind of relationship them shyts is doneso

 

[DaPresident]

It's impossible to say no when given the opportunity breh, once you go raw you can't go back

nothing is "impossible" youngbreh, you just haven't found a way to do "it" (whatever the "impossible" thing is)



Find some discipline and control. I've had vagina almost thrown at me, but sometimes not everything is FOR YOU...


Be bigger than your temptation...think with your brain and not your dikk. (no offense to you, this is in general) Once "little man" starts making the decisions, you'll find yourself in a whole heap of trouble. That's what manhood is about, not always picking the "low hanging fruit" or the "easy way" but having the discipline and control to make the RIGHT DECISION.

Hell, I been raw several times. But now, I look at the cost-benefit for my life and even tho I have the opportunity to go raw (which I certainly do), I just choose not to, because I'd rather not have to have the problem of having kids before I'm ready financially, mentally, emotionally, etc(I'm 32). Yeah it feels good, but something that "feels good" for 15-20 min shouldn't cost me a lifetime...

 

[Poitier]

I won't hit the p*ssy if i need a helmet

 

[Won Won]

except in the female mind....if the dude wears a condom to them its not really sex....

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

I think I've met maybe ONE girl in my entire life who actually asked & made sure I put on a condom before sex. And these weren't ghetto hoodrats either. Most girls WILL let a dude they like smash raw & just trust that he's safe. Point being: Never assume you're the only one she's let smash raw, because odds are there were many before you & there will be many after you.

 

[DrBanneker]

If you are still in school with a future ahead of you...I will be honest: you are a damn fool for hitting it raw and believing/trusting her on birth control. I know brothers who got caught like that and are 35 and their kid's high school graduation. Distorted their whole life.

You are about to be trapped if she senses you are going to bounce...and don't give her a STD

 

[newworldafro]

Think about the ones that have had
........multiple husbands.
.....

 

[dc007]

Hell, I been raw several times. But now, I look at the cost-benefit for my life and even tho I have the opportunity to go raw (which I certainly do), I just choose not to, because I'd rather not have to have the problem of having kids before I'm ready financially, mentally, emotionally, etc(I'm 32). Yeah it feels good, but something that "feels good" for 15-20 min shouldn't cost me a lifetime...

The brehs in this thread never heard of pulling out?

That shyt gotta be as effective as condoms. Over 10 years strong in the game using it with not even a pregancy scare.

You just better pull out in time

 

[Londilon]

congrats to your future child support checks and angry texts from your soon to be ex gf.

 

[Londilon]

it only has to make sense to her

sex=sex

except in the female mind....if the dude wears a condom to them its not really sex....

ive been told this

bird logic

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

You in the process of being trapped
Get out now

breh the process has already started

nikka better find a lawyer and alibi for time when this chick was being nutted in raw