My girl says she wants romance

[benjamin]

Wheww gems, I hear about a headache daily it seems. Im out of town while she got the directv poppin on the big thang and internet and cool a/c

If yall just dating, cut her loose.....it'll only get worse from here on out.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Real talk

Females get annoying as fukk with bullshyt like this.. I understand doing things romantic here and there but they be acting like they want a romance novel everyweek at a certain point...


Your chick is either watching too many chick flicks, romance books, or listening too much to the bullshyt her friends are feeding her.






And ladies, as a man, any guy who does shyt like that TOO much or TOO often is usually trying to hide something

I've said it before and I'll say it again, chick flicks are womens' equivalent for porn. Just as too much porn will give you an unrealistic view of sex that is impossible to replicate in the real world and will damage your actual sex life, those chick flicks really have girls thinking that adult relationships are supposed to be on some real life "Notebook" shyt

 

[bcrusaderw]

So you can want your girl to fucl you like a pornstar, but you can't be bothered to do romantic things for her?

 

[Groanman]

What does your girl do to make you happy?

 

[PlainSight]

nah, that's the type of stuff that happens in the beginning during the courting phase, not saying that a man should ever stop loving his woman and treating her right...if a woman is with a man over a year or two in time and hits you with the "I'm tired/got a headache" its not because she wants you to be romantic, it's because she's forgetting her role in the relationship and trying to get out of doing something she doesn't want to do which is please her man, it's pure selfishness.....If I was still dating, there is no way I would stay with a selfish woman..

Sometimes she ain't feeling the sex - and you need to do some scouting next time and find a woman who's happy with duty sex if you want her to "play her role". If that role has never been defined in the first place between you and the woman, then things will obviously change (they do change anyway).

Consider also that relationships are, like most things in the world, cyclical in nature. There will be times in the relationship where things get a bit comfortable, the spark dies down, the sex gets a bit stale. You switch it up, keep the variety. Courtship in my opinion is constant. I don't expect to keep fukking at the same rate throughout the entire relationship/marriage. Inevitably it will slow down. It's just up to us to find the woman who is more in sync with us (just the right amount of compatibility and friction).

I'm the type of person where if I'm in a relationship, I'm looking constantly for ways to make my woman continuously happy. It's a challenge to me, rather than a duty. I thrive on a good degree of friction. Dudes gotta clock if their woman thrives on comfort or friction.

I find it romantic when my boyfriend and I have fake arguments

Some people find it romantic when they have actual real arguments so they can go and have angry sex and bite each other.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I've said it before and I'll say it again, chick flicks are womens' equivalent for porn. Just as too much porn will give you an unrealistic view of sex that is impossible to replicate in the real world and will damage your actual sex life, those chick flicks really have girls thinking that adult relationships are supposed to be on some real life "Notebook" shyt

This is a good post, nikkas should dap this

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

yup, that's how it starts...next she'll be "i got a migraine" every night and then you already know....

A rule I have for my household...I'm out here working and paying these bills while you at home in the with the a.c blowing and hd channels poppin, I demand my dyck get wet twice a week, I don't even need it that much but TWICE a week I'm running through them guts..

Oh you got a migraine? Aight, when I leave for work you gets no tv & no central air (i can disable my ac)...I've had to do that only once before she got the point, I get sex when I please because it is my house and she's my wife.

When your wife does t want to have sex, why don't you have sex with your ex that's living you?

 

[hoodheronova]

yall gonna break up real soon b

 

[Ashley Banks]

yall are so disgusting. You want her to just roll over and let you use her to get your nut, whether she's interested or not but if she wants you to do something for her, it's a problem. smfh pigs.

 

[benjamin]

When your wife does t want to have sex, why don't you have sex with your ex that's living you?

If my wife ever stops doing her duty, that might happen which is why its in her best interest to please her husband that desires her.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Depends IMO - girls find different kinds of shyt romantic. I'm very inexperienced at relationships, but any dates I've been on, I've never done the whole super romantic, lovey dovey, roses and flowers deal. Sometimes the most romantic moments are found in the mundane. The variety of experiences that you both have should suffice.

Exactly... And I'm cool with that

But you get some females that expect you to do all this extra TV shyt and don't appreciate the lil things you do DAILY

And if a dude is doing this fake TV shyt, like I said, they're usually doing it to hide something.

I remember I took a 12 hour flight after training to meet my chick on Valentine's Day.. I didn't even have to leave but I just thought I was being a good dude by flying to see her on that day.

I flew in at like 9pm tired af, and she got mad because I didn't have any other plans that night when we had all weekend to do shyt.

I straight dipped and did my own thing and tossed her to the bushes shortly after

 

[prettyblackk]

make be yall just need to spice it up a bit do more excited this or shyt thats really spontaneous at any time cause i can say as a female its just a mood i get in when i just don't want too have sex at that moment or a few days i n a row and it turns into the lil attitude that males get when they not getting any.... you might just have to bring that freakness outta of her or better yet fukk and eat it outta of her....
and on the other hand she needs to step her game up a little cause its obvious that your not getting enough of what you want or need

 

[Bless't]

Exactly... And I'm cool with that

But you get some females that expect you to do all this extra TV shyt and don't appreciate the lil things you do DAILY

And if a dude is doing this fake TV shyt, like I said, they're usually doing it to hide something.

I remember I took a 12 hour flight after training to meet my chick on Valentine's Day.. I didn't even have to leave but I just thought I was being a good dude by flying to see her on that day.

I flew in at like 9pm tired af, and she got mad because I didn't have any other plans that night when we had all weekend to do shyt.

I straight dipped and did my own thing and tossed her to the bushes shortly after

Nothing worse than an ungrateful harlot. Cant see the forest for the trees.

That would have had me heated.

 

[PlainSight]

yall are so disgusting. You want her to just roll over and let you use her to get your nut, whether she's interested or not but if she wants you to do something for her, it's a problem. smfh pigs.

More likely it's that dudes do romantic shyt for the woman and then once in a relationship, expect reciprocation for every gesture via sex. It's misguided IMO, and probably fukks marriages up more than it already is.

If my wife ever stops doing her duty, that might happen which is why its in her best interest to please her husband that desires her.

Just hit her with that mind sex - don't even try to fukk her, just tease her a little, give her something to potentially look forward to. Foreplay starts outside the bedroom, I learned that one before I even started fukking.

Exactly... And I'm cool with that

But you get some females that expect you to do all this extra TV shyt and don't appreciate the lil things you do DAILY

And if a dude is doing this fake TV shyt, like I said, they're usually doing it to hide something.

I remember I took a 12 hour flight after training to meet my chick on Valentine's Day.. I didn't even have to leave but I just thought I was being a good dude by flying to see her on that day.

I flew in at like 9pm tired af, and she got mad because I didn't have any other plans that night when we had all weekend to do shyt.

I straight dipped and did my own thing and tossed her to the bushes shortly after

I hear that . Some people like to receive love in different ways. Like, I don't need to be fukked by a woman to receive love, but I need tactility and conversation. Some women might be different, and prefer for me to do things for her as her way of receiving love from me.

Some dudes just do that extra romantic shyt just because. They're soppy romantic guys . If it's not your steez, you just gotta find a woman who doesn't care about all of that.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nothing worse than an ungrateful harlot. Cant see the forest for the trees.

That would have had me heated.

It did... She was also trying to hold out on sex as well.


It was all good though. I ended hitting my female roommate and a few other females that was hitting me up during that time.

Females also wonder why dudes keep a roster.. For bullshyt like this