My Girl Told Me Her Ex Had a Bigger dikk Then Me .

[4North1Side2]

What does it matter? Doesn't mean it's better. My ex had a big one and I hate having sex with him. My favorite guy ever was probably around 7. He moved to Japan. *sad face*

True story.

Just last week a friend of mine's guy friend came in to town and she told me she was dreading having sex because she felt he was way too big. I laughed to myself cuz I remembered feeling the same way about an ex of mine.

Guys are so obsessed with penis size.

Making a woman cum is related to penis size anyway.

Sex is a huge component of a relationship, how do you women force yourselves thru bad sex? I've always found this interesting because men don't put up with bad sex for long but many women claim to have bad sex up to years within a relationship. Like what really goes thru y'all head during the act. Do the guys see your displeasure or are y'all faking it that well. Do the guys simply just don't give fukk how you feel selfishly.

 

[iamstr8fire]

All my exes have left me because I'm packing too much and sex is uncomfortable.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

It's disrespect. Period.

There's always going to be varying responses when there's an assault on a man's pride. I remember when one of my homeboys poured a 40 all over his girl when she joked about the nikka hitting high notes like Patti Labelle when he nutted right in front of us at a card game.

I clowned that nikka so hard afterwards that he had no choice but throw hands later that night. Ole gospel hymn humming ass nikka.

You let shyt slide to much and female thinks she can show out in public around ya friends and co workers.

You do what needs to be done.

 

[Turbulent]

What does it matter? Doesn't mean it's better. My ex had a big one and I hate having sex with him. My favorite guy ever was probably around 7. He moved to Japan. *sad face*

it's not that he has a bigger one that hurts. it's the fact she tried to use that to hurt him that hurts. i think a lot of times women don't realize why what they're saying is ether. even shyt outside of dikksize or whatever. what hurts us is figuring out the girl we feel we did so much for, the girl we simped on so bad, the girl we are so possessive about and attached to (which is all unhealthy behavior) is actively trying to kill our morale...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

slept with.... no

currently with... yes



see how quickly you glossed over my words... i don't give two fukks about some bytch i'm fukking... tell me all about that nikka who was a porn star who made you squirt across the room.. shyt i might not see you after tonight



but you are not gonna have me paying bills up in OUR house while you fantasize about that same story and another nikka... my girl now finds it hard to cum... she's never NOT cum with me.. she's told me she had bigger.. that don't bother me.. i've seen porn.. i'm not super nikka.. but when she thinks about the best, she thinking about her man... ain't no nikka in her inbox saying "yea remember..............." and having her open.. cause i'm at the top of the list


meanwhile i've been in plenty inboxes in my life, saying that "hey you remember..............." and got a woman cheating on her man to get another taste of that.. you don't ever want your woman remembering the time and it's about another nikka




ask MJ

It's a forum babe I gloss over everyone's post. To the 2nd and 3rd paragraph, you have some sort of fantasy going on in your head there buddy. But if that's what it takes to get you by, by all means. I'm actually getting a kick out of how much this shyt bothers you all.

So serious question when women tell you all about how "great" you are do we have to say it "You're the biggest/best"or if we hits you with "Your the biggest/best" does it matter? If the reply isn't believable enough is it grounds for terminations or are the words enough to satisfy the ego?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Can tell a lot of dudes in here are not from harlem

Just enjoy your time with the female and stop focussing on other men nothing lasts forever.....

Right. Drive yourself crazy about a dude that isn't thinking about you brehs.

 

[NoChillJones]

So you make her regret those words. Quite simple.

 

[TEH]

Tell her that your ex had bigger t*ts and ass?

and a tighter p*ssy

then bounce

she has no more respect for you

it's over

 

[Lady.Libra.]

You thinking from an objective point of view. shyt don't work like that with us, that ex who was causing you pain probably still confident in knowing he got what he got. Our dikk pretty much is a representation of our manhood, and a shot at that is pretty much the shot of the core. Can pretty much guarantee the relationship is about to run its course, like mentioned above, sex about to be mad awkward.

I'm not being shady...
1 - Why would a man be "confident" on the size of his penis vs. his skillset with his penis?
2 - Why would a man define his entire "manhood" around his genitals?

OP, your profile says you are a woman...so, buy a bigger strap-on.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Sex is a huge component of a relationship, how do you women force yourselves thru bad sex? I've always found this interesting because men don't put up with bad sex for long but many women claim to have bad sex up to years within a relationship. Like what really goes thru y'all head during the act. Do the guys see your displeasure or are y'all faking it that well. Do the guys simply just don't give fukk how you feel selfishly.

It's b/c women in relationships generally value 100 things before sex. If I were to write down the top 25 things I want in a man his sex game wouldn't even make the list. So if the sex isn't the best and everything else is good we can deal with it.

I can't speak on other situations but for me it didn't start off terrible. It was fine at first but a few things went wrong. First, he wanted to have sex like 5 times a day. That was fine (well it's not) but I am kinda a creep. I get off on "excitement". I don't want sex every day. I want the build up. The "best" man I ever been with had a similar preference. We would have sex once a week for hours and it was amazing. So the initial excitement of having a new partner went away faster than it normally would. So b/c I was so easily excitable before he figured he didn't have to put in as much "work". So when I didn't get excited as quickly he took it personal, got frustrated and impatient.

Second, we wasn't willing to put in the extra "work". Again he took it as a hit to his pride so he didn't want to do it. I communicated what I wanted a million times and just endured. He would usually do what I asked once then go back to the same bullshyt. On top of that he was huge so it just made it 100 times worse. It got to a point that I just hated having sex with him.

But I never pretended I liked it when I didn't. I am sure that added to the frustration. Women fake it a lot. That's why so man many think they are so amazing. Lol But I didn't. I am too old for that shyt. I am fairly easy to please. I just need 5 minutes of physical touching and I'm good.

Eventually we stopped having sex. I was tired of being ignored. We got into a huge argument about it and I told him I am not having sex unless I enjoy it. He got in his feelings and try to come at me with "well other women are okay with xyz and don't need xyz" which I guess is the equivalent to the the bigger dikk comment. shyt didn't phase me because I have never had another man take issue with foreplay. I told him he was lazy and the dikk was trash and I never wanted to have sex with him again. And I never did.

The end.

 

[Youseenmywork]

When are guys going to realize when you don't care about some of the dumb shyt they say ....women really don't know how to respond. Learn to be indifferent towards them. They only say thing of that nature cause women wanna see what that ego be about. These days I don't have an ego women can use against me.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

it's not that he has a bigger one that hurts. it's the fact she tried to use that to hurt him that hurts. i think a lot of times women don't realize why what they're saying is ether. even shyt outside of dikksize or whatever. what hurts us is figuring out the girl we feel we did so much for, the girl we simped on so bad, the girl we are so possessive about and attached to (which is all unhealthy behavior) is actively trying to kill our morale...

That I understand but didn't OP ask? I mean if you ask and she answers honestly I can't fault her. In my experience men can tend to be overly sensitive. There is nothing worse than a man that constantly needs to defend his man hood or can't take a joke. Life is too short to be walking on egg shells.

 

[Youseenmywork]

.....Another this is a man shouldnt weight himself next to his dikk size the way that a lot of women weight themselves next to there vaginas cause many women you meet that's all that have to offer. Men have to be so much more than a penis to GET women.

 

[Edub]

then bruh...that aint yo girl

 

[Youseenmywork]

it's not that he has a bigger one that hurts. it's the fact she tried to use that to hurt him that hurts. i think a lot of times women don't realize why what they're saying is ether. even shyt outside of dikksize or whatever. what hurts us is figuring out the girl we feel we did so much for, the girl we simped on so bad, the girl we are so possessive about and attached to (which is all unhealthy behavior) is actively trying to kill our morale...

Men have to stop with the ego shyt thoe. Women say dumb shyt to just test you or your manhood. Men gotta learn to be indifferent.