My Girl Told Me Her Ex Had a Bigger dikk Then Me .

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It's b/c women in relationships generally value 100 things before sex. If I were to write down the top 25 things I want in a man his sex game wouldn't even make the list. So if the sex isn't the best and everything else is good we can deal with it.

I can't speak on other situations but for me it didn't start off terrible. It was fine at first but a few things went wrong. First, he wanted to have sex like 5 times a day. That was fine (well it's not) but I am kinda a creep. I get off on "excitement". I don't want sex every day. I want the build up. The "best" man I ever been with had a similar preference. We would have sex once a week for hours and it was amazing. So the initial excitement of having a new partner went away faster than it normally would. So b/c I was so easily excitable before he figured he didn't have to put in as much "work". So when I didn't get excited as quickly he took it personal, got frustrated and impatient.

Second, we wasn't willing to put in the extra "work". Again he took it as a hit to his pride so he didn't want to do it. I communicated what I wanted a million times and just endured. He would usually do what I asked once then go back to the same bullshyt. On top of that he was huge so it just made it 100 times worse. It got to a point that I just hated having sex with him.

But I never pretended I liked it when I didn't. I am sure that added to the frustration. Women fake it a lot. That's why so man many think they are so amazing. Lol But I didn't. I am too old for that shyt. I am fairly easy to please. I just need 5 minutes of physical touching and I'm good.

Eventually we stopped having sex. I was tired of being ignored. We got into a huge argument about it and I told him I am not having sex unless I enjoy it. He got in his feelings and try to come at me with "well other women are okay with xyz and don't need xyz" which I guess is the equivalent to the the bigger dikk comment. shyt didn't phase me because I have never had another man take issue with foreplay. I told him he was lazy and the dikk was trash and I never wanted to have sex with him again. And I never did.

The end.
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never felt anyway about shyt like that. not just because i got a good size but a woman trying to hurt a nikka ego by talking about his dikk is not that bright in the first place

a real chic gon bypass the superficial and hurt you with some ether bout ya personality or lifestyle or some shyt like that. shyt that have you really rethinkin ya life :whew: talkin about dikk size is basic :mjlol:
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It's a forum babe I gloss over everyone's post. To the 2nd and 3rd paragraph, you have some sort of fantasy going on in your head there buddy.:russ: But if that's what it takes to get you by, by all means. I'm actually getting a kick out of how much this shyt bothers you all.

So serious question when women tell you all about how "great" you are do we have to say it "You're the biggest/best:shaq:"or if we hits you with "Your the biggest/best:troll:" does it matter? If the reply isn't believable enough is it grounds for terminations or are the words enough to satisfy the ego?
somebody has to be the best right? why is it some far fetched thought to think, out of all the women i've slept with, that 1-5 of them, i could be that best?

my girl told me before we ever fukked that she doesn't cum from sex... head.. but not sex... she cums with me.. she has no problem telling me i'm not the biggest, but i make her cum with penetration and no other man ever did


i don't usually ask these questions, like i told the OP, never ask.. i just know it from the flip side

situations i've ran into:

1. the girl you haven't fukked in years who hits you up reminiscing about your sex, while she has a man/husband

2. the girl who tells you her man a lame in bed/got a little dikk

3. the woman cheating on her man, purely for dikk, not emotional friendship

etc, etc, etc



you do not want to be that guy... that guy all confident in what you doing IN THE BEDROOM, meanwhile your girl talking shyt about you to her girls, having dreams about her exes dikk, cause you not fukking her right... y'all can act like sex isn't important to you.. and that be the first ones cheating, getting side dikk, fukking a nikka who makes them cum
 
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