My girlfriend cussed out my roommate

[Bubba T]

I asked was I in the wrong for not pressing my roommate for yelling at her

The answer is no based on the story you presented.

The question people are asking now is why are you letting your girl get comfortable enough to be disrespectful not only to your mans, but to you, in your own house.

 

[BrothaZay]

The answer is no based on the story you presented.

The question people are asking now is why are you letting your girl get comfortable enough to be disrespectful not only to your mans, but to you, in your own house.

Yall saying that but the thing is I do checc her when she comes at me. It has even got physical before. I checked her when she tried to throw all his stuff out the hallway closet because she wanted to bring more of her stuff over from her mom's house.

It's just that it don't last long. She'll calm down for a few days but eventually her smart mouth ways come bacc.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

@BrothaZay is in denial.

I can’t wait for the next thread: “what does it mean when your girl sends your boy a text with “xxx” at the end?”

 

[Bubba T]

Yall saying that but the thing is I do checc her when she comes at me. It has even got physical before. I checked her when she tried to throw all his stuff out the hallway closet because she wanted to bring more of her stuff over from her mom's house.

It's just that it don't last long. She'll calm down for a few days but eventually her smart mouth ways come bacc.

You clearly aren’t doing enough, cause any person who commands respect would have people thinking three times before they pop off at the mouth.

How many brehs here can say their mama slapped the taste out their mouth and they’ll never say some dumb shyt to them again? Or fathers that will just look at them and they’ll shut the fukk up, cause they know they don’t want the smoke?


The point is that’s it’s all about respect. I’m not saying lay hands on the girl at all, but whatever you’re doing isn’t working because you aren’t getting any respect from her. And without respect you have nothing.

 

[☃ ೋ]

You sound p*ssy whipped. Like you know you wont be able to get any for a LONG time if you give her the ultimatum of cutting the bs out or bouncing.

Then again this is a brothazay thread, so all this shyt is probably

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

That reads chaotic.The puzzy must be fire.Hotter than the flames in hell.

Sounds like she's jumpoff status, but you made the mistake of making

her your main squeeze.No disrespect, but she don't sound like Ace Boon

material

 

[WesCrook]

Check your girl breh. She sounds like she likes to start shyt while knowing you're there to cape for her. That's disrespectful towards you because she views you as a shield and doesn't mind you getting hit. Creating potentially dangerous situations without a care in the world how it affects you. It goes beyond the respect you have for your roommate at this point. Regulate her ass (violence is illegal though). Aight peace!

The type who has an attitude towards the waitress.

"Would you like anything else?"

Her: "N'ALL, I'm fine *side eye*

 

[King Eros]

Let's do some MATH op...

Your gf lives in your crib rent free and is sitting on her ass all day.

She is repeatedly disrespectful to you AND to other people...to the point where you had to put hands on her. Probably multiple times.

And she's still popping off at the mouth as I type this.


Meanwhile you're posting about her on TheColi asking randoms for advice.

Then when the brehs give it to you straight you're in here making excuses for her.

Add that shyt up...

She's going to get you killed or locked up.



(some cats just gotta learn the hard way)

 

[BrehWyatt]

Regardless of the reasoning ... this entire situation is just unfortunate.

 

[3rdWorld]

They sound like a burgeoning couple in the making..
I can tell you now that's shes only here physically..

 

[Dameon Farrow]

didn't you buy a truck for your trucking business? What are you doing with a roommate?

Man BrothaZay stays pulling people in with the foolishness. I just sit back and watch. He got me a few weeks ago though with a political discussion. Gotta admit.

But of course TLR is not passing up an opportunity to tell someone what to do with a female. Because these dudes know any and everything about the opposite sex.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Breh I would straight up stop paying you if that was happening with me

 

[NasirJr]

Fam, why the fukk is your girl at your home when you are not there and you have a roommate?

Unless we have had rapport for 10 plus year ain’t nobody coming to my apartment when I’m not there except family and extremely close friends.

 

[BrothaZay]

Fam, why the fukk is your girl at your home when you are not there and you have a roommate?

Unless we have had rapport for 10 plus year ain’t nobody coming to my apartment when I’m not there except family and extremely close friends.

I explained it before the thread

My roommate left for a while. When he did my girl moved her stuff in. He ended up coming bacc

I didn't wanna tell her to go bacc to her mom's house so I just let her stay

 

[Roid Jones]

Defuse the situation in public, if she's in the wrong tell her in private

If she is not paying any bills in that place then she has no right to start tampering with shyt