“My girlfriend of 5 years just got over cancer... She just asked for space and I haven’t heard from her in 6 weeks”

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People online be calling out men for leaving their sick wives....

They don't acknowledge stories like this :sas2:

Like others have said, he became more of a caretaker than bf. And his life revolved around hers. And some women out there just have less attraction to men like that :francis:
 
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LMAO

I KNEW IT WOULD
BE SOME INCEL REDDIT
FAN FICTION WHEN
I READ THE THREAD TITLE.

:devil:
:evil:

And ya goofy ass came running into this thread
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If she doesn’t want to be with him, then it’d be nice if she’d just say that instead of saying she needs “space.” That’s breaking up with someone without breaking up with someone because you’re too scared to say it.
Not everyone is going to live by your standards.

She spent 5 years using dude as a crutch knowing damn well she didn't want to be with him. There's not a shred of decency in that woman.
 

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I feel for the dude. That’s why I live for me and ONLY me cause a chick don’t give a fukk about you when she’s moved on. All the “I love you’s” “I can’t imagine a life without you” “You're the best I’ve had” turn into “you’re a great guy you’ll find someone” “I’m confused” when she gets the new guy lined up.

I ghost these hoes when I’m done wit em and remain apathetic.
 

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Women's dating practices are ruthless

In his mind hes being a good partner by dropping everything for her
In her mind hes pathetic loser with no options

Guarantee if he got with a hot healthy bytch she woulda come out of that cancer desperate to compete for him
Yea but even then if he had chosen her in the end she'd constantly remind him of his "disloyalty" and make him miserable :francis:
 

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No one should do it if they gone get caught. While i couldn't put myself in that dude shoes because of how life's going for me, I'm pretty sure I'd have a tsunami of malicious thoughts that i would feel were perfectly rational if i went through some shyt like that. You don't play with people's emotions
i feel ya breh. And those thoughts may sound crazy but its normal to feel a certain way after being subject to base treachery. But trust, the best get back is to move on and be happier than u ever were with her. That shyt is a fate worse than death, u killing her ego, leaving her body a literal empty husk. Bonus points if she can never find another one that holds up to u.

I had multiple chicks do me dirty and not a one has come out the better for it in life. Which is extra sad when u stop to think i aint no damn 6 figga six ft breh my damn self. But several of them hoes have openly made fools of themselves displaying how salty they were toward the current misses.

And if she ever get out of line she already know i wont hesitate to send her to castaway hoe island with the rest of them :ufdup:
 

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sounds super fake :beli: assuming this is real ...


probably has more to do with having cancer for 3 years in a new state and deal with lockdowns on top of that and now completely re-evaluating life, probably moved back to her parents home ...


Nah these type of situation happens everyday .people are fickle and shytty

I don’t know what I’d do in this situation tbh . I’ve been heart broken once and it was nothing as bad as this . Don’t think I could ever trust someone romantically ever again if something like this happened
 

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Ngl if I went through cancer and I wasn’t married I probably would want revaluate my life too, but I would at least have the common decency to let them know my mental state by singing some donell jones where “I wanna be”outside her window.
Sweeee umm doodle swee dum dee dee, I don't mean to hurt you baybayyy!!! :shaq:
 

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As someone whos recently sufferred a near death experience and has been hobbled. I can definitely understand the feeling of wanting space. As well as the desire to demonstrate power through some of those nurses who were eyeballing.


Part of this can be due to the person caring for you babying and dominating you. Probably with your best interest in mind unless they are like Kathy Bates in Misery(these types exist). Its important to check your ego,yet re-establish your a grown ass man/woman. Some natural nurterers have a hard time relenqueshing autonomy .Once they gain an opening to smother and coddle,that usually isnt there. But you should be grateful over any other feeling. So im not sure how you immediately leave like that:respect:
 
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