My girl's sister is making a big deal about us moving in together. ..

[Sad Bunny]

She's basically saying we should move into a place that's cheap so one of us could handle all of the bills if we were to lose our jobs.

We should wait another year.

My girl needs to live in her own spot and be Independent before moving straight in with me.

Now...her sister had never had a real relationship and is in her mid 30s and single.

She does have her shyt together as far as house, car etc....but I just can't take her advice seriously because I sense some animosity.

I understand she just wants to protect her sister but damn. She just curses us out and doesn't give constructive criticism.

Any advice from yall?

 

[martin payne]

there's only one logically thing for you to do:



fukk your gf's sister that'll teach her

 

[Sad Bunny]

there's only one logically thing for you to do:



fukk your gf's sister that'll teach her

Like literally fukk her? Lol

 

[Remote]

Why don't you act like a man and tell this bytch to mind her fukking business.

 

[JoeClyde55]

If you don't want to do it. Don't do it. You will regret the decision. You are right. You girl should live on her own. She has to feel some sort on independence. Then the two of you can decide whether or not to move in together.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Why don't you act like a man and tell this bytch to mind her fukking business.

She did it while I wasn't there.

That's what I would have said

Thanks for your advice but this is our choice

 

[Sad Bunny]

If you don't want to do it. Don't do it. You will regret the decision. You are right. You girl should live on her own. She has to feel some sort on independence. Then the two of you can decide whether or not to move in together.

Yeah but....my girl does pay bills etc...she basically paying for a one bedroom apartment now.

If we live together, she'll still be independent. Idk. I hate bring involved with family drama

I always had roommates since college graduation because it is cheaper and I like to network because I was moving to New areas.

I never lived alone either

 

[Kings County]

Any advice from yall?

 

[JoeClyde55]

Yeah but....my girl does pay bills etc...she basically paying for a one bedroom apartment now.

If we live together, she'll still be independent. Idk. I hate bring involved with family drama

Get a CDL license or an LPN degree from a community college. You will save yourself a lot of headaches if you pay your own way.

 

[innocentdevil]

Tell her to stfu and get a man

 

[Sad Bunny]

Get a CDL license or an LPN degree from a community college. You will save yourself a lot of headaches if you pay your own way.

Wtf? I already have a career. Lol.

I'm good in that department

 

[Sad Bunny]

Tell her to stfu and get a man

I really want to.

She thinks we should get a 1 bedroom apartment and pay 700 a month.

That's dawn near impossible nowadays. Lol.

 

[Theraflu]

Tell her to go and live a life of her own and stop living vicariously through her sister.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Tell her to stfu and get a man

And this the same person saying that she should stay at home and save up more.....and she is also tryna make her take a 1200 vacation this summer

@Theraflu

 

[Theraflu]

And this the same person saying that she should stay at home and save up more.....and she is also tryna make her take a 1200 vacation this summer

@Theraflu

What's their relationship like?

Where's your girls mum in all this?

Are they super close n was her sister used to calling the shots before you arrived ?