My hiv+ uncle came home for the holidays

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The slumming around reminds me of my uncle from Richmond, who's in his mid 60s as well. Trying to save his house and going through a messy divorce , staying with my mom 75 miles away .

He's been there since February. His family has disowned him, only asking for him to pay for the house's mortgage he's trying to get from them in the first place. His soon to be ex wife, my aunt, has a restraining order on him till 2020.

What's the most fukked up about this is that my mom has been handling all the work with his legal issues because he's one of those old school dudes who was used to just working as the breadwinner while the wife and kids handled all of the bills :what: He's acting like he can't do anything without my mom, his sister.

It's infuriating to me because he was a piece of shyt to my mom and our family for YEARS and he's not making much effort HIMSELF to handle all of his problems , which have become her burden. For he has burned all of the bridges with our relatives in the Bay Area, where all of his problems lay.

I cut off my cousins (his daughters) for how they treated him. He was homeless for two weeks before my mom picked him up . She thought he was going to be staying for a "couple of weeks" :snoop:

Until all of his shyt my mom has to do for him is over and he's out of her house, :camby: Christmas and Thanksgiving. I don't want him involved with MY FAMILY traditions whatsoever.


Anyway, carry on . I had to vent for a second about this :francis:
 

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Breh only getting one cup, bowl, fork, and knife with his name on it at my house :scust:

In all seriousness, if you feel like he’s using you, then you gotta let him know and dead it before he tries to stay there after thanksgiving, or is looking for you to do this again during Christmas time
 

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Seems like many of you are on lsa
:Llama:
I can imagine your conversations there
:Hatedit:
Now this first thread is a classic modern love story. Boy meets girl, boy tells girl to meet him by the bathroom to get away from the boyfriend.. Boy successfully finger fukks girl.. Essentially about a young man who finds love in the company of a woman..
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This next thread is about two men whose love has transcended hate that surrounds them, and have come :Hatedit:together despite Society's fears and shame, as the younger more verile man takes care of the elderly one in need of love:Hatedit:

They eat together, they share wine together :Hatedit:
Cook together. :Hatedit:

The story has so much humanity, that it has you laughing through your tears at the funny parts ...I laughed and was slightly intrigued and wished they'd get into more detail about the scene on the couch, when the elderly one had his pants down and was holding his vulnerability in his hands :Hatedit:

He was probably lonely and fell asleep waiting for the story tellers return. There's nothing I tell you better than waking up to a warm hug from your fellow man while your pants are down and your penis in your hand :Hatedit:
You are do exposed and vulnerable yet no harm has come to you. I know I fall asleep that way when watching certain romantic films like fast and furious when the tension is so high between that Rock :Hatedit: And the boy tyrese ( he's so sensitive) that I just need to release it :Hatedit: and I wake up to the strong masculine touch of Trevor shaking me awake telling me I got drunk and I'm in the wrong apartment again


I wonder where the uncle wiped off after he was done. Either way this story gets

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Seems like many of you are on lsa
:Llama:
I can imagine your conversations there
:Hatedit:
Now this first thread is a classic modern love story. Boy meets girl, boy tells girl to meet him by the bathroom to get away from the boyfriend.. Boy successfully finger fukks girl.. Essentially about a young man who finds love in the company of a woman..
giphy.gif



This next thread is about two men whose love has transcended hate that surrounds them, and have come :Hatedit:together despite Society's fears and shame, as the younger more verile man takes care of the elderly one in need of love:Hatedit:

They eat together, they share wine together :Hatedit:
Cook together. :Hatedit:

The story has so much humanity, that it has you laughing through your tears at the funny parts ...I laughed and was slightly intrigued and wished they'd get into more detail about the scene on the couch, when the elderly one had his pants down and was holding his vulnerability in his hands :Hatedit:

He was probably lonely and fell asleep waiting for the story tellers return. There's nothing I tell you better than waking up to a warm hug from your fellow man while your pants are down and your penis in your hand :Hatedit:
You are do exposed and vulnerable yet no harm has come to you. I know I fall asleep that way when watching certain romantic films like fast and furious when the tension is so high between that Rock :Hatedit: And the boy tyrese ( he's so sensitive) that I just need to release it :Hatedit: and I wake up to the strong masculine touch of Trevor shaking me awake telling me I got drunk and I'm in the wrong apartment again


I wonder where the uncle wiped off after he was done. Either way this story gets

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OP this shyt reads like a horror story.

But for real, you got a good heart. I think if your unc knew better his situation would be better. I don't see anything wrong with you helping him (although I don't have the family dynamic where I would be giving an uncle weed and alcohol.) I do think you should let him know that while you are extending him hospitality, he needs to be respectful of your space and wash his hands and sleep in the room you designated for him.
 

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It's been 10+ years since he's come home to visit.
He keeps up with me more than any other family member because I don't judge him for coming out the closet, being hiv+, and his overall 'living for the city' lifestyle that he's chosen.
Not sure how he managed a roundtrip ticket, but he's here with no money. He's in his early 60s. He is leaning on me to provide him lodging, food, ent, car svc, wine AND is confused as to why i haven't been comin thru with the weed.
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Ninja really?
I'm self-employed, and my work season has slowed. bills are paid, but i'm struggling. when he showed up i had no extra.

Plus i'm not feeling his hygiene habits. I have yet to see dude wash his hands after using the bathroom. you hiv+ and not washing your hands? then had the nerve to tell my mom he only washes his hands in public settings.
First night he visited, I came home to find him sprawled out on my couch sleeping on his side with his pj pants pulled down to expose his bare ass, and d*ck in his hand. :tired_face: I assume this is how he sleeps with his partner and it's just 'natural' to do. He has a whole guest room though.
I luv my Unc and am happy to help out, but I am literally counting down the days until he goes home.
Do u mind asking him the avg penis size for African Americans compared to whites:jbhmm:
 
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