My homeboy who is engaged told me that the key to a successful marriage is a side lady

Gloxina

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Its not right,but its better than letting go of a good woman to be "single":scust:

Or worst of all breaking up your family because you decide your not ready for a relationship.

I righteously cheated to keep my family together,and for that I will not apoligize. Although I obviously wish I didnt have to do that.


But you cant just be cheating with no plans in sight to ever stop. You have to be working on controlling yourself. Changing your personality. Cutting people off who could tempt you. And not putting yourself in bad situations. Like going to clubs,or visiting female "friends"/exes. Or responded to messages from old flames.
Can you please define “righteous cheating” ?
 

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I think the key to a successful marriage is marrying someone that you don’t feel you need a side piece for.

Sure feelings can change over time. Some end up marrying people there they never should’ve in the first place.
 

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Can you please define “righteous cheating” ?


Not actively trying to cheat. Meaning your not getting numbers from new women. The devil is sending old relationships back into your life. Your hanging out with female friends and they attack you. With that full court press women do when they know you are happy with another woman. Attacks in backrooms or cars from female coworkers. When I thought we were just going to lunch:whoa:. But through it all you are learning. And not putting yourself in these same situations over and over again. It definitely has to be rare.


If your husband cheated one time in 30 years. He may have righteously cheated. If your husband cheats every other month,thats probably not the case.
 

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He is an extremely successful person. :yeshrug:

He also told me to deny, deny, deny anything if you get caught cheating. No matter if she catches you in the act of fornication.

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If your homeboy was smart he would have found a woman accepting of an open relationship. That would have saved the lies and scheming. It's only a matter of time you'll be brought up in his lies.
 
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