my homie's wife got mad at him for posting a bowl of ramen noodles on facebook
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flusterose
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There a difference. First date may be our idea. After that why are we still expected to pay? we are in a relationship right? im reading @flusterose and she sayin she prefers eating out and her hubby pays everytime. i now see why her hubby is a cac..i aint payin everytime we go out. esp to a woman who saysat the thought of cooking for me ..
.But if we didnt ask u guys out? Would there eveb be relationships? Thats another thing men have to do. We basically create relationships. Ithe women who take control but usually u expect us to approach you! Why? Because were men.
Nope i didnt say I "prefer" eating out. He doesnt cook, i dont know how to cook American food and he doesnt like Nigerian food(which is what i can cook). So of course we eat out.
One time, I offered to pay and he was offended. My dad is the same way.... Sometimes my SO will joke around pass me the check and when I put my card, he removes it and replaces it with his.
I have dated A LOT and have always eaten out with all my exes(ALL races) none of them have a problem with it.
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How many women do you know that are happily married? How many men do u know that don't cheat? Woman shouldn't even worry about all that shyt, she should only think about it, if he's disrespectful and is blatant with his rendezvous. men r faithful only w certain women. The world is paternalistic, humans are a social animal and these are the guidelines we evolved over time. Women fight against them at their own detriment. You can expect a woman to do what she is expected to do. Women GO NUTS on sorry ass nikkas who are just sorry and don't do shyt... so it's ok for men to do the equivalent. And if the dikk doesn't end in orgasm... he can eat the pus, that will get u there and you'll be good.
your man gave u a fixed response. You see how I'm talking on here.. I've given that same response before. You do cook for him, it's ok to slip up sometimes,, because he knows u will get back on your shyt eventually.. if u weren't the southerbell he knows u are- he would place u in some shrubs.
i think every man should boost women up, so that if it doesn't work out, she's better off than when you met her, not worse. I'm actively looking for a southern chick right now...
SouthernBelle
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The world is paternalistic, humans are a social animal and these are the guidelines we evolved over time. Women fight against them at their own detriment. You can expect a woman to do what she is expected to do. Women GO NUTS on sorry ass nikkas who are just sorry and don't do shyt... so it's ok for men to do the equivalent. And if the dikk doesn't end in orgasm... he can eat the pus, that will get u there and you'll be good.
your man gave u a fixed response. You see how I'm talking on here.. I've given that same response before. You do cook for him, it's ok to slip up sometimes,, because he knows u will get back on your shyt eventually.. if u weren't the southerbell he knows u are- he would place u in some shrubs.
i think every man should boost women up, so that if it doesn't work out, she's better off than when you met her, not worse. I'm actively looking for a southern chick right now...
Personally know or know from a distance (i.e. Facebook, extended family)? I only know the ins and outs of a handful of marriages (and as far as happiness goes...it's 50/50 60/40). Everyone is "happy" on Facebook so I can't even call that.
Nope i didnt say I "prefer" eating out. He doesnt cook, i dont know how to cook American food and he doesnt like Nigerian food(which is what i can cook). So of course we eat out.
One time, I offered to pay and he was offended. My dad is the same way.... Sometimes my SO will joke around pass me the check and when I put my card, he removes it and replaces it with his.
I have dated A LOT and have always eaten out with all my exes(ALL races) none of them have a problem with it.
aint nobody gat time for dat. i dont even cook for myself let alone some dude.
This sounds alot different then " id cook but he doesnt like nigerian food"Nice try trying to clean it up though
Cant even get a struggle plate
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flusterose
dat dere chocolate
Nice try trying to clean it up though
i didnt feel like explaining but yeah he doesnt like Nigerian food so why would i cook?? either way, i still aint cooking point blank.
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lol, don't be upset. I just told the truth as I see it. Women either get married and get divorced.... or get married and get cheated on constantly. That's pretty much the harsh reality. I've cheat on everyone i was w, minus a few... those few weren't the sexiest, or tightest p, or nicest... They simply were the most upfront, honest, and realist.
And to your first point.. Not every nikka has the ability to do everything. Black women need to realize how it is out here for black men... most black men are ruin by their mothers and society right from the start and don't have the mental capacity to know how to be a real man. nikkas try--- so even if a dude can't do everything I might be able to do..... if he's trying that bytch better not make Roman Noodle for dinner more than 3 times a year.
I drive down the street I see I see 45 young bytches who are bad as fukk... It would be a good Idea for a women to treat her man right, regardless of other factors.
NTM, good woman encourage good men. And no... the stats aren't on yall side. Old heads get the Most p*ssy from what I see, and that's all nikkas really need in the end is that lil companionship. Older women don't get as much play. The black single mom stats don't look great to me. The single black woman stats don't look too great to me. And women's stock goes down with Every year and ever dikk. I girl doesn't have to be a hoe to rack up 30+ penises in her life,,, nikkas don't wanna wife that mid-age ran through bithc who is alone because "nikkas aint shyt" and she can't cook a meal after work.
anyway, what would u do 4 the bold??ur southernbell... how can u even argue these point? southern chicks shouldnt have the same mentality as a women in Detroit.
That's exactly what I'm trying to get at. Women love to act like everything should be fair right down the middle, but the fact is it's never going to be that way. We were born different, society can only do so much to correct that.
Once you hit 30 and past your prime without any wife skills the same dudes won't even be sweating you anymore. Dude is gonna use his age, wisdom, and career position to pull a girl with tighter skin about 8 years younger.
It's on the woman to secure a man who will commit to her before her eggs dry up. And if that sounds sexist, blame nature or God.
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SouthernBelle
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So I take it that you are handy?!
Not one to boast but what do you need fixed
I got to charge you tho
buckeye fever has done it again
Ashley Banks
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My girl (not my wife yet), altho she just turned 24 yrs old, work fulltime and in grad school manages to cook for me without hesitation. Sometimes she gets mad when I ask her to take a break or ask to cook but she shuns my offer and tells me to go back in the living room, gives me a kiss and tells me to relax cause she got this. ..im like
You don't expect her to cook for you all the time, you even suggest that you cook instead, that makes her want to do it even more. Just like when guys want to give girls everything because they don't ask for anything. It just seems like you're ungrateful when you expect people to do things for you.
O/p's friend is lame for posting it on FB tho. He should have just asked her to make him some food and if she said no go buy something.
