OP donāt fukk under any circumstances. Sheās your MARRIED BOSS. Thereās too much potential for fukkery in that situation. Be flattered, know you still got the ājuiceā but donāt act.
Thereās levels to this shyt tho and basic nikkas on both sides are either gonna just say fukk her or donāt fukk her but thereās a third option. You can use her attraction for your personal benefit. Get the hours you want, get the training you want, get the promotion you want by fukking with her but not fukking her.
Iām speaking on this shyt from personal experience. We had a new Department Manager a couple of years back. A sexy older Romanian PAWG who talked like the Baroness from GI Joe

She threw mad hints and whenever weād meet in either of our offices the air would become thick with tension. Since she liked me, she wanted to spend time with me. I made sure that time would benefit my career by getting training and insider knowledge that I wouldnāt normally have access to.
3 years later, sheās moved on to another company and Iāve been able to freak that time, training, and good word of mouth I got out of her into 2 promotions

A lot of times, NOT fukking a woman when theyāre down is actually more powerful than fukking them and more beneficial in the long term if youāre not thinking with your dikk.