My Mom Passed Away

[2CT]

no son should have to have the experience of performing CPR on his own mama in an unsuccessful effort to save her life

i’m truly sorry for your loss and that you had to go through that, i don’t know you or your mom personally but i know you a TSC breh and a standup guy for caretaking for her and doing all you could to save her in those last moments and i don’t have to know either of y’all personally to tell you it’s not your fault by any means and she’s eternally grateful to you for what you did

stay strong and try not to let this ruin your year although the healing process will be a long one

 

[Spence]

Take solace knowing she was loved and had you there for her last moments. Rip

 

[Splash]

I don't quite have the words for you fam but I'm sorry you had to go through that horrifying experience.
I know your mother was in pain for a long time but I hope you can remember the good times you've spent together since you've been looking after her.
I know she is so greatful to have a son like yourself and understand that to her, you could never fail her, you were with her until the very end.

Naturally, you will feel certain feelings of guilt but the body is extremly intricate and complex, I really don't see how you could have affected the outcome given the circumstances.
Probably too soon for you but if you need assistance financial or otherwise, just ask.
May your mother rest in eternal peace.

 

[jackswstd]

Condolences and prayers to you and your fam breh. It’s not your fault, nothing you could’ve done to change it and she wouldn’t want you carrying that burden around.

 

[Sauce Dab]

fukk man I’m so sorry. Easier said than done but keep your head up shyt ain’t easy to deal with. RIP

 

[mson]

I'm sorry bro.

 

[CROM]

My mom passed away on Monday after having a heart attack and I’m having a hard time dealing with it. One moment I’m talking to her, then I leave room so she could try to get some sleep since she was tired. A few minutes later I hear some weird gasping noise.

Once I realized she was out I called 911 and started attempting CPR but it didn’t work. Once EMS came they tried everything but couldn’t revive her. My dad was out on his way to a doctor’s appointment so I was home alone for those few helpless minutes.

Everyone is telling me that it’s not my fault but I just can’t help but feel like I failed her. Maybe I should’ve stayed in the room or called 911 first instead of checking on her.

She had a rare form of arthritis and her body was always in pain, it was so bad that she was basically home bound for the last decade. In that period, I pretty much became her unofficial caretaker and in the process she became my best friend.

In addition to that, I lost my grandmother right before the pandemic and my grandfather almost exactly a year ago, both on my father’s side.

I’m down bad guys, I couldn’t even write this post without starting to bawl so sorry for the grammar mistakes .

It hurt me to even read this. I lost my father in a similar way in 2017. It wasn’t your fault at all. If you’re like me at all, you’re probably pondering every “what if” scenario you can think of. Fact is, some things are out of our hands. You did what you could. I’m deeply sorry for your loss, and will pray for your and your dad’s strength through this. Stay strong, brother.

 

[EndDomination]

My mom passed away on Monday after having a heart attack and I’m having a hard time dealing with it. One moment I’m talking to her, then I leave room so she could try to get some sleep since she was tired. A few minutes later I hear some weird gasping noise.

Once I realized she was out I called 911 and started attempting CPR but it didn’t work. Once EMS came they tried everything but couldn’t revive her. My dad was out on his way to a doctor’s appointment so I was home alone for those few helpless minutes.

Everyone is telling me that it’s not my fault but I just can’t help but feel like I failed her. Maybe I should’ve stayed in the room or called 911 first instead of checking on her.

She had a rare form of arthritis and her body was always in pain, it was so bad that she was basically home bound for the last decade. In that period, I pretty much became her unofficial caretaker and in the process she became my best friend.

In addition to that, I lost my grandmother right before the pandemic and my grandfather almost exactly a year ago, both on my father’s side.

I’m down bad guys, I couldn’t even write this post without starting to bawl so sorry for the grammar mistakes .

So sorry to hear about this breh. My condolences.

 

[Da Jungles]

Sorry brother. RIP to Moms

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

Sorry for your loss

 

[Marco Zen]

My condolences bro

 

[Kenwins01]

Not your fault bruh. Take you’re time and mourn her. Nothing wrong with that but Keep your head up and proceed with life and live like you know she would want.

thoughts and prayers to you and your family

 

[JodyHiighroller]

Sorry to hear that OP.

May she Rest In Peace

 

[NSSVO]

Aye OP, you were on my heart! I can’t feel your pain, not even a little. I lost my biological mom who was forced to give me up at birth. The pain and agony I’ve been dealing with doesn’t make sense to me, but it’s what I’m fighting through. I said that to say, you will be great and be an excellent example of her strength and will. Be well my nikka

 

[Pacni99a12]

Sorry for you loss man.