My neighbor is making me uncomfortable

[Beck.er.]

Iam sensitive to noise myself but unless you are pumping out bass so loud it is rattling not only your windows but hers in which case I hope she burns you to death in your sleep

one thing I will hate someone eternally over

she really needs to work out ways of coping better.

This. Ambient sound/white noise machines. Play own music low to give your ears something to pinpoint on so everyone else becomes background buzz. Ear plugs. Sleep on interior walls.
Usually it's really specific sounds (voices with high tones and pitch that pierce into your brain like an ice pick) that get to people, burrow into their brains and tempt them to go postal.

 

[Big Daddy]

ask her if she would like to talk about it over....
Oysters, Salmon, Wine, and other various aphrodisiacs

I would need the aphrodisiacs just as much as she would , in order for her to turn me on breh and to her credit she probably is actually attractive, it's just that my experiences with her have been so horrible that she's just absolutely completely repulsive to me.

 

[QuavoFlow]

I'd need the aphrodisiacs just as much as she would in order for her to turn me on breh and to her credit she probably is actually attractive, it's just that my experiences with her have been so horrible that she's just absolutely completely repulsive to me.

Don't sleep on that hate sex

Its just built up tension and adrenaline

 

[twhatever]

nikka shut the fukk up.

Already banned

 

[Big Daddy]

Looks like she's looking for reasons to get mad. And/or doesn't have much going on for her, and thus is extra sensitive to noise. I'm kind of like that myself (VERY sensitive to noise) but I notice that's it worse when I'm in a "down" period activity-wise. If she's alone and/or at home often she'll be more sensitive to the noise and make a fuss out of it.

That's exactly what she's doing breh it's like she's seeking reasons to cause problems. Almost feel like I'm being slight bullied But you know I'm not letting that go down.
I've been strongly considering trolling her until she moves
How? Idk yet.

 

[NasirJr]

Tell her to throw hands on site if she has a problem or smash.

 

[Mowgli]

I live in an apartment and, yes, my neighbors can hear things in my apartment, and vice versa.

Big fukk!ng deal. It comes with living next to someone, especially in an apartment style setting.
I've had to deal with it before my damn self with hearing my Mexican neighbors having sex every night

Well last night I was smashing out my little 'mexican' chica, giving her a proper, royal thrashing because we were gone off some wine plus we missed the hell outta each other (she was out of town for a month)

We finished like around 3a and just sat up half-naked and chilling, smoking one last L before we ko'd, eating, doing our usual.

All of a sudden I hear a fukking knock at the door

I looked through the peep hole and saw who it was and brehs, when I tell you I could feel the blood literally rushing to my ears and to the top of my head from being so heated

It was the young sista who lives next to me. This chick has complained before about me being loud at night with women, but not to management or anything.

It was more like this: I came out to my car one day, she was outside with a friend of hers getting into her car. She saw me and immediately raised the volume of their conversation so that I could hear her say, "...and if I could got some damn sleep at night without ratchet ass neighbors banging on the wall like ppl aint gotta get up in the morning..".

Then it escalated to her coming over one Sunday as I'm watching football, and asking me to turn my TV down some. I literally looked at her like

I said, "sorry if it's disturbing you but I don't think I can turn it down much further and still enjoy the game.", or something to that effect.

She tried to get all snooty (and kept trying to see past me into my place for whatever reason) and 'politely' asked me if I "had any hearing problems "or something"."

I looked at her and said "huh? what? I can't hear you"..all while holding one ear with one hand as if to try to hear her better, and casually closing the door in her face with the other.

Needless to say, since then she's hated me. We don't fk with each other on any level, at all. No hi, no bye, no nothing.

So fast forward back to last night. I see it's just her and I opens the door and I'm like, "What? "

But before she could start talking I was like,"..you mad because we stopped? .... because you must've enjoyed listening all damn night enjoying the show since you waited til 15mins after we'd long stopped, to tell me that we were "disturbing" you."

She scrunched her eye brows angry-like in preparation of dropping f-bombs and such and I cut her off again by continuing,"I got enough in me if that's what you want. I'll take her for another round, if you'd like. "

She just let out this tired half-chuckle type sound and walked away looking up to the sky, with one hand in the air , shaking her head saying "lord I can't deal please dont let me catch a charge lawd."

My problem is two fold. Not only do I want to stop her from thinking she has any right to regulate how loud my sex gets, but, I also now feel like every time I have sex she's listening, and that sh!t is fukking awkward and uncomfortable.

She's young, should have a life of her own. But all she ever does is sit over there with her girlfriends and talk reality TV until they leave..then sits by the wall and listens to me have sex

Ask her if she wants to fukk.

 

[Sauce Dab]

Where do you live? Are you Mexican too?

 

[Big Daddy]

that honestly sounds like some arguing couple shyt

And that's what pisses me off.

It's like, how the hell are you such a disruption in my life that we got tension between us like we're a couple or some sh!t, I don't even really "know" her her existence shouldn't even be impacting my life like this.

 

[Konnan]

When you and your neighbor finally fukk it will be glorious

 

[Mowgli]

When you and your neighbor finally fukk it will be glorious

Shes probably fat. Dimes dont have time to go to jail because their neighbors are fukking.

 

[hypo666]

That's exactly what she's doing breh it's like she's seeking reasons to cause problems. Almost feel like I'm being slight bullied But you know I'm not letting that go down.
I've been strongly considering trolling her until she moves
How? Idk yet.

Don't, this is how one neighbor ends up in a box,the other in jail.You don't know who she is ,or who she might know.She is a woman, what if she convinces some simp to fukk with you? or if she calls the cops, their white knight instinct could kick in.

For one it's hard to know if she has anything to complain about without witnessing it. But say, she is the one at fault,she is mental or just likes fukking with people , you have two real options unless you can sort things out with her.Make a complaint or move.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

bro you better cool out before she scream some sexual harrasment charges against you or worse. Posters talking about sit down share coffee bullshyt, the bytch dont like you. both yall need to mind your own business and keep it peaceful before they throw you out on some violation shyt. If thats your only neighbor complaint youre lucky you dont know what anti-social beef is.

Ain't shyt gonna happen, they gonna look at her on some like she another ratchet and throw her complaints on the back burner

 

[The Oracle]

I live in an apartment and, yes, my neighbors can hear things in my apartment, and vice versa.

Big fukk!ng deal. It comes with living next to someone, especially in an apartment style setting.
I've had to deal with it before my damn self with hearing my Mexican neighbors having sex every night

Well last night I was smashing out my little 'mexican' chica, giving her a proper, royal thrashing because we were gone off some wine plus we missed the hell outta each other (she was out of town for a month)

We finished like around 3a and just sat up half-naked and chilling, smoking one last L before we ko'd, eating, doing our usual.

All of a sudden I hear a fukking knock at the door

I looked through the peep hole and saw who it was and brehs, when I tell you I could feel the blood literally rushing to my ears and to the top of my head from being so heated

It was the young sista who lives next to me. This chick has complained before about me being loud at night with women, but not to management or anything.

It was more like this: I came out to my car one day, she was outside with a friend of hers getting into her car. She saw me and immediately raised the volume of their conversation so that I could hear her say, "...and if I could got some damn sleep at night without ratchet ass neighbors banging on the wall like ppl aint gotta get up in the morning..".

Then it escalated to her coming over one Sunday as I'm watching football, and asking me to turn my TV down some. I literally looked at her like

I said, "sorry if it's disturbing you but I don't think I can turn it down much further and still enjoy the game.", or something to that effect.

She tried to get all snooty (and kept trying to see past me into my place for whatever reason) and 'politely' asked me if I "had any hearing problems "or something"."

I looked at her and said "huh? what? I can't hear you"..all while holding one ear with one hand as if to try to hear her better, and casually closing the door in her face with the other.

Needless to say, since then she's hated me. We don't fk with each other on any level, at all. No hi, no bye, no nothing.

So fast forward back to last night. I see it's just her and I opens the door and I'm like, "What? "

But before she could start talking I was like,"..you mad because we stopped? .... because you must've enjoyed listening all damn night enjoying the show since you waited til 15mins after we'd long stopped, to tell me that we were "disturbing" you."

She scrunched her eye brows angry-like in preparation of dropping f-bombs and such and I cut her off again by continuing,"I got enough in me if that's what you want. I'll take her for another round, if you'd like. "

She just let out this tired half-chuckle type sound and walked away looking up to the sky, with one hand in the air , shaking her head saying "lord I can't deal please dont let me catch a charge lawd."

My problem is two fold. Not only do I want to stop her from thinking she has any right to regulate how loud my sex gets, but, I also now feel like every time I have sex she's listening, and that sh!t is fukking awkward and uncomfortable.

She's young, should have a life of her own. But all she ever does is sit over there with her girlfriends and talk reality TV until they leave..then sits by the wall and listens to me have sex

Let me get this straight.

You don't give one single fukk if noise you make bothers your neighbors.

Then, if someone asks you to keep it down, you tell them to fukk right off, and imply that the only reason they are mad is because they aren't having sex.

I mean what's next you blare a police siren directly into her window at night and then punch her in the mouth if she comes to ask you to turn it off?

 

[Tunez]

I think she wanted to fukk