I think the creepy dudes (who probably approach high #of women every day) really ruin it for the normal, respectful dudes, so if you want to be mad at someone, be mad at the creepers.
"Damn that looks good, how do I order that?" is how I approach the cake I want to eat at the grocery store.
If the first words out the guy's mouth is about my body or is sexually natured, that is uncomfortable for me if I'm not in a party setting. If it was one or two statements every now and then from guys, or is short and respectful, it doesn't weigh on the mind- but the collective impact of getting sexual comments consistently and sometimes aggressively for years feels bothersome. I shouldn't be delayed or interrupted several times while trying to get groceries (and wearing a fake ring), getting gas, walking my dogs, or commuting to work. Each time, I have to stop what I'm doing to make sure that I politely respond to the remarks (you never know who has a few strings loose and I'm also southern) and then feel awkward knowing that they were looking at my body like its cake.
I think you may be looking at trying to define committing harassment based on a single comment (your experience with that woman) and I'm looking at it like it is part of a mass of comments (my experiences with unknown men approaching me in public places ).
the issue with all of this is,...
night game speak has become regular every hour of the day speak.
where, females actually pop for night game speak as regular square dressed woman.
night game speak is being the clown and women do not like great guy game anymore.
they want clown game,...
so, men are only responding to what works with women.
of woman wanted great guy game to return.
then, that is on them to institute a response to great guy game.
good guy game does not work anymore.
that is not men's fault.
that is on females.
the issue in all of this, is females are not accepting or completely truthful about what it is they are really about.
while, trying to give a good hard head fake on having fake virtue.
when, women institute good man game as relevant again.
you will see better more respectful approaches and it is as simple as that.
females created the need for the disrespectful approach.
now, they have it and want to complain.
when, you are a victim to your own creation.
you, bytch and moaned about having as part of what you saw value in as a man.
now, granted I still use the good man approach because I am.
yet, I am an extreme exception to the dating pool as a guy.
other guys, readily have bought and entain great stock in clown game and females really only in general only pop for clown game, especially on the steer.
if you don't want the court jester don't give value to the court jester.
females are tryin to make it like they reward Lancelot game.
when, in reality the court jester fukking Guinevere and the lady in the lake.
a man, is going to choose fukking king arthur's bytch and Lancelot mama. Over rejection, and no p*ssy, everyday, in general.
so, don't get mad at what you created females.
as, even square bytches want the court jester and if you don't believe me. The first quality woman of this day and age ask for is a comedy routine from every male.
not just any comedy tohtine, either.
A chappelle, meets martin Lawrence level of comedy 24 seven most nikkaz do not have.
Yet, most nikkaz and any nikka will try to ramp up their comedic skills.
if women are giving out cooch for being funny.
or in the case of game rude, disguised as a joke.
right now, females pop for the:
damn you as bad as a toddler of some age range in a daycare setting joke.
whose fault is that,..
the females for saying every man must crack a joke of this level of comedy to get with me.