Check this out. I've been dating this girl for a few months and everything was smooth. So my birthday comes and she buys me a pair of foamposites which is cool. Now my homegirl, who I've known for 10+ years (we never had any sexual relations) stops by and gives me a gift for my birthday. She buys me a Movado watch which has to be somewhere around $900. I told her thank you.
My short however was kinda pissed. Later on that night, she asked me "why did she buy you a Movado?" Now I'm not fukkin my friend, but I think my shorty thinks otherwise. It's been causing issues between us lately. My shorty even said to me that if one of her male friends would have brought her a pair of Louboutin shoes for her b'day I would have gotten upset. Now I can't front, I would have definitely thought that if a dude is spending $1000+ plus on a pair of shoes for a friend, she must be a special friend if you feel what I'm saying. I'm starting to think it was a bad idea for me to accept such an expensive gift from my friend (well at least while my shorty was there).
Do you think I fukked up by taking the gift?
How do I clear this situation this?
Or should I just tell her to deal with it and respect the pimpin?
My short however was kinda pissed. Later on that night, she asked me "why did she buy you a Movado?" Now I'm not fukkin my friend, but I think my shorty thinks otherwise. It's been causing issues between us lately. My shorty even said to me that if one of her male friends would have brought her a pair of Louboutin shoes for her b'day I would have gotten upset. Now I can't front, I would have definitely thought that if a dude is spending $1000+ plus on a pair of shoes for a friend, she must be a special friend if you feel what I'm saying. I'm starting to think it was a bad idea for me to accept such an expensive gift from my friend (well at least while my shorty was there).
Do you think I fukked up by taking the gift?
How do I clear this situation this?
Or should I just tell her to deal with it and respect the pimpin?