My Shorty Is Jealous Because Another Chick Brought Me A Better Gift

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Check this out. I've been dating this girl for a few months and everything was smooth. So my birthday comes and she buys me a pair of foamposites which is cool. Now my homegirl, who I've known for 10+ years (we never had any sexual relations) stops by and gives me a gift for my birthday. She buys me a Movado watch which has to be somewhere around $900. I told her thank you.

My short however was kinda pissed. Later on that night, she asked me "why did she buy you a Movado?" Now I'm not fukkin my friend, but I think my shorty thinks otherwise. It's been causing issues between us lately. My shorty even said to me that if one of her male friends would have brought her a pair of Louboutin shoes for her b'day I would have gotten upset. Now I can't front, I would have definitely thought that if a dude is spending $1000+ plus on a pair of shoes for a friend, she must be a special friend if you feel what I'm saying. I'm starting to think it was a bad idea for me to accept such an expensive gift from my friend (well at least while my shorty was there).

Do you think I fukked up by taking the gift?

How do I clear this situation this?

Or should I just tell her to deal with it and respect the pimpin?
 

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You need to affirm your position in the relationship and let your girl know that YOUR WORD IS YOUR WORD! If you say nothing is going on, she should have faith and respect in you to know that you wouldn't lie to her straight up. If you fully explained the situation to your girl, she should understand, and you should compromise by telling your friend not to being stunting on your girl like that :dead:
 

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break up with ur girl and keep both gifts

I had a side-piece back in the day come to my house with "get-well" gifts and shyt when I was sick, like we was in love or some shyt (well she probably was with me)
and later on when my girl (at the time) came to my house she found all the gifts and I was in a similar situation.

only difference is that I was hooking up with my side piece and my ex just thought she was a friend.

I ain't even care tho :russ:
 

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You won breh now she knows she gotta step her game up...It'll keep her on her toes :myman:

Whatever you do dont give the watch back!
 

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Goddman, homey, you got a Movado and some Foamposites for your birthday. Hell, nobody even CALLED me to wish me a happy birthday this year.

You need to stop looking at how this is/could be a problem and just count your blessings, sucka duck.
 

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Check this out. I've been dating this girl for a few months and everything was smooth. So my birthday comes and she buys me a pair of foamposites which is cool. Now my homegirl, who I've known for 10+ years (we never had any sexual relations) stops by and gives me a gift for my birthday. She buys me a Movado watch which has to be somewhere around $900. I told her thank you.

My short however was kinda pissed. Later on that night, she asked me "why did she buy you a Movado?" Now I'm not fukkin my friend, but I think my shorty thinks otherwise. It's been causing issues between us lately. My shorty even said to me that if one of her male friends would have brought her a pair of Louboutin shoes for her b'day I would have gotten upset. Now I can't front, I would have definitely thought that if a dude is spending $1000+ plus on a pair of shoes for a friend, she must be a special friend if you feel what I'm saying. I'm starting to think it was a bad idea for me to accept such an expensive gift from my friend (well at least while my shorty was there).

Do you think I fukked up by taking the gift?

How do I clear this situation this?

Or should I just tell her to deal with it and respect the pimpin?

Tell her that if she were any kind of real woman she'd be willing to spend more money on gifts for you and that if she did, she wouldn't have to worry about getting shown up by other girls in the first place!

Oh wait, you're not a chick. :steviej:

Seriously, though, you need to tell her to calm the fukk down, because if she keeps that up with no repercussions, you're going to be miserable in your relationship because you never stood up for yourself and now you have to deal with some bytch with a shytty personality.


Serious. Would rather see you like this :whew: than like this :ld:
 
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