My Son's Mother is a bytch

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Rosenbreg's, Rosenberg's...1825, Tulane
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You leading brehs down the same path of unwanted baby mamas

Gotta find a pic with the Lifestyles cropped out



CO-MAfukkING SIGN


Lifestyle and Durex are straight babymakers

them lil ass condoms pop like gum
 

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Have some compassion for the breh y'all :stopitslime:

Fam just needed to vent and rant, he know knocking her up was the worse thing he did, no need to remind him, he's reminded everyday. Yo breh, I truly feel for you man, but I feel for your son more because he missed out on having a dad because of his mother and he obvious self hating behavior. Hold your head....pause.
 

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I felt the need to share this. My youngest son's mother has cutoff contact with
me for his entire life but has collected child support without any complaints
from me where she probably never informed him. True enough it's been time where
it wasn't there to collect but if she didn't chose to be selective with the
contact then she still could have been on. Now he is a teenager and she CAN'T
control him at all so she chose the open the lines of communication. Me being a
MAN I took an opportunity to see what was going on and offer additional
assistance. She took EVERY monetary option available even cutting into anything
offered to him. She NOW says that he is telling everyone that I'm not his
father and she started acting like a bytch even though she has EVERY agency
available involved in their business and I have NEVER known her to have a job.
It's not her kids it's HER. Stop blaming your baby daddies, baby mommas, kids,
your parents, the system, the neighborhood etc...BEFORE your ass looks in the
mirror. I have nothing to hide in my life and I'm comfortable with the person I
see in the mirror. The way you raise them is the way they come back to your
ass! I have no problems with the way I was parented and would have no problem
with mine being raised in the same manner and my mother didn't take any shyt!
Of course she has now deleted me from facebook even though this is the manner
of which she chose to inform me that she could no longer control our child.
Karma is a bytch! I WILL inform all of you all once she comes back via FACEBOOK
asking for assistance cause the bytch will NEVER get a chance to call my phone
again! But you know what, I will probably do it again because I KNOW God will
continue to bless me. Sorry for the rant :beli:
fukk that hoe :pacspit:
sir... you do know you can take HER to court correct??

demand she produce evidence of how she is spending your child support

demand you have legal orders as to when you see your child and how much...

demand a whole bunch of shyt, while throwing accusations that she'll have to speak on, and you get to prove or at least demand they look into



i don't know if you have done these... but if you haven't... please stop

dudes spend so much time bytching and self pitying on issues with their bm... they look over the fact that the court system can work in your favor just as much if she truly is that low down and shytty to you and the kid
 

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you and bruhmayne are teaching valuable lessons in the thread.....a few yrs ago i heard bout hats made in china and india not holding up to the test

Sheeeeit my nicca...China and India got the most people in this WORLD, I wouldn't barr a damn thang they had to say about contraception...
 

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dudes spend so much time bytching and self pitying on issues with their bm... they look over the fact that the court system can work in your favor just as much if she truly is that low down and shytty to you and the kid
Dudes overlook that when a court order for child support is put in, so is a visitation order. No such thing as a judge ordering a father to pay but not see his child.

But, its easier to sit back and complain that get up and take action.
 

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I have three bms. One is what u would call a bytch but I don't call her that because im a man.

I know its not fair n shyt.... but even when they are immature, childish, using the kids, etc... you still have to be a man and control the situation.

Now this lil nikka is a teen and saying ur not the dad. Now this bytch got u for all that money and cut off ur communication. Not gonna get into details... but when one of mine tried this I played hard ball. Plus you need to be the type of man that they Want u in the kids life despite their feelings. Plus you BM is in Detroit... lol, that means she knows how to work the system against you..... and if the situation ever called for it she could easily get a nikka to Murk u.
 

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Dudes overlook that when a court order for child support is put in, so is a visitation order. No such thing as a judge ordering a father to pay but not see his child.

But, its easier to sit back and complain that get up and take action.

I'm glad you and some other posters mentioned this because I was about worry about the character of some of these posters. Some of them were really glossing over the fact that this man has no real relationship with his child. I just knew it didn't make sense...you are paying child support, but you can not see your son, really :what:?
 

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Never really was sour...she has always made it damn near impossible to reach her or him. Always been at her discretion. Word of wisdom for you brehs...just cause you pay child support it does NOT grant you visitation. Separate situations. I learned this MUCH later.

Verse written :myman:

Dudes overlook that when a court order for child support is put in, so is a visitation order. No such thing as a judge ordering a father to pay but not see his child.

But, its easier to sit back and complain that get up and take action.

I'm glad you and some other posters mentioned this because I was about worry about the character of some of these posters. Some of them were really glossing over the fact that this man has no real relationship with his child. I just knew it didn't make sense...you are paying child support, but you can not see your son, really :what:?
:beli:
do you nikkas read threads or just skim through 'em
act like you know the child support guidelines in every state brehs :comeon:
and even so this is a teenager so the order was set a LONG time ago. at a very high rate :to:
AND I petitioned the court 2 different times and got subpoenas to get her back in court and they came with the address from 15 years ago!
She probably lived in 15 different places in that timeframe :wtb:
She didn't WANT to be caught up with until now.
but guess what...I know have her address, a external drive full of HER pictures with various naked shots, and she let me hit while I was over there AND I been contracting for the last year so my pay isn't traceable.
I'm ready for War
:birdman:
 
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