My wife and i "temporarily" separated

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i aint gonna lie it shook me up because ive never seen her get that emotional like that...breh my shirt was drench wit tears and emotion :to:...so to answer yo question breh yea i did shed a tear :to:




That's your wife breh. Not some random broad. You supposed to cry with her.

But real talk, don't leave her hanging. She probably needs you more now than ever. Women go through some seriously emotional shyt after a miscarriage, it's sad and the hormones take a while to stabilize. She's outta the house, but she's still your wife. Take care of that woman when she needs you the most.
 

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Becareful out here bro, the separation is when nikkas usually fukk up and start over compenstaing with the jumpoffs:sadcam:......
next thing you know you got a illegitimate seed on the way:demonic:
 

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That's your wife breh. Not some random broad. You supposed to cry with her.

But real talk, don't leave her hanging. She probably needs you more now than ever. Women go through some seriously emotional shyt after a miscarriage, it's sad and the hormones take a while to stabilize. She's outta the house, but she's still your wife. Take care of that woman when she needs you the most.


im about to stop by her mom house now :obama:
 

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i went thru it before with my ex shyt is one of the worst feeling in the world too go thru and i till this day still hurt and remember. we had a reg appt but couldnt hear the heart beat so they got the ultrasound equipment we saw the baby and no heart beat and the doc told us the baby was dead :to: :sadbron: shyt killed me and her

@a murda now i dont know how you and your's wife relationship is whether its good or bad and im not gonna question why she went too her mom's maybe for support but u gotta be their for her she gonna need u more than ever. text her call her daily too check up on her go see her this situation aint no joke its really nerve wrecking
....nikka......





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Did she stick u with the bills? If she moved out and with her moms she might feel she does not have to contribute to the marital residence
 

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the vibe at our crib was very awkward since her miscarriage...she been kinda depressed lately....she said she'll jus feel a lil more relaxed and comfortable at her moms...i jus said....ok :manny:

Don't bring no strange home to the matrimonial crib no matter how bad u need a slab of bacon!

Keep it cordial and friendly with wifey. If she's depressed, the mental problems could escalate into a real shyt-storm. Make sure you send either her or mom-in-law some cash for expenses. She's still your mate and responsibility.
 

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i went thru it before with my ex shyt is one of the worst feeling in the world too go thru and i till this day still hurt and remember. we had a reg appt but couldnt hear the heart beat so they got the ultrasound equipment we saw the baby and no heart beat and the doc told us the baby was dead :to: :sadbron: shyt killed me and her

@a murda now i dont know how you and your's wife relationship is whether its good or bad and im not gonna question why she went too her mom's maybe for support but u gotta be their for her she gonna need u more than ever. text her call her daily too check up on her go see her this situation aint no joke its really nerve wrecking

man, I never understood why people get so upset about a miscarriage. to me, that kid never really existed in the real world, so I just see it as :manny:

my last daughter was originally twins, and one day we went to the hospital cuz something happened, and they said one of the twins vanished. I know someone people would be like :sadbron:, but both me and the wife were really like :whew: instead.
 

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man, I never understood why people get so upset about a miscarriage. to me, that kid never really existed in the real world, so I just see it as :manny:

my last daughter was originally twins, and one day we went to the hospital cuz something happened, and they said one of the twins vanished. I know someone people would be like :sadbron:, but both me and the wife were really like :whew: instead.
A man could never understand this. I am the very least emotional woman ever, sometimes to the point of :ehh:.... but when you have the body to have something live inside of you.... and then it does, and it doesn't work out :sadbron:

I don't have kids, so I can't even imagine, but I applaud the posters in this thread for pointing out the sheer guilt and discouragement involved... :wow:
 

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man, I never understood why people get so upset about a miscarriage. to me, that kid never really existed in the real world, so I just see it as :manny:

my last daughter was originally twins, and one day we went to the hospital cuz something happened, and they said one of the twins vanished. I know someone people would be like :sadbron:, but both me and the wife were really like :whew: instead.


everybody is different but when you create something into this world and you want it and u get prepared for it, when you hear that heart beat or feel the movements in her stomach

that is one of the greatest feeling in the world too know you help brought that child into this world with your partner and excited too see that child come for it too only be taken from you

too see that heart not beat too hear the doctor say im sorry but your child is dead is like the worst feeling you can experience that you never got a chance too hold that child see it grow up tell that child in your arms you love them

na man that shyt hurts too my mother fukking core and that memory will never die in my head or heart too know i didnt get too experience that child for the rest of my life
 
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