Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
yea pay attention to red flags and dont rush into something ur not 105% sure on.......and to not get married during the prime of your youth
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yea pay attention to red flags and dont rush into something ur not 105% sure on.......and to not get married during the prime of your youth
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@MAKAVELI25lol, from the way i understood it, i thought he paid for all that shyt after she raped him financially. if he did it while they were still cool...i mean he still kinda fukked up but the mistake was to put more effort into upgrading his wife while maybe not putting as much effort into upgrading himself (don't know his exact situation). and to be fair, it could happen to the best of us but still...
shiiit. I see them lil nikkas all the time.. I'll never see that money again.. worked so hard for it.

i respectfully disagree, You said in an earlier post that kids shouldn't see their mom struggling and but at the same time, i think it also sets a bad example for them to see their dad getting done like this and then he still pays for her shyt (no disrespect is meant). for a daughter, it teaches her that she can act crazy and there will be no consequences. for a son, it teaches him to not implement consequences when he gets fukked over. while they shouldn't see their mom struggling, they shouldn't see their dad getting "punked" either.@MAKAVELI25
I did that some of the upgrading after we broke up. For the same reasons I did while we were together.
I had to rebuild my money n everything else... but this is a sexist nation, I would never not upgrade a former wife/BM.. have her out there struggling... venerable to smut shyt even.
Plus I'm Muslim, supporting the kids women n shyt, not really an option there.
And naw, we aren't still cool.. we only speak about the kids. My son is in private school n all sorts of programs... he's happy and healthy.
Basically, if all men took care of and supported women, women would be better and then children in our communities will be better.
It's shouldn't all be on the men - but I think the last 50 years shows what happens when we leave it up to the women to do the right thing.