how old are you

i've found that the people who dont have a lot of friends have a harder time getting laid, at least what i see where i'm from this is certainly the case
example: when you know a lot of ppl, you get invited to shyt like cookouts or house parties etc.. then theres usually ppl there u dont know, who u get introduced to. some of those people are women, some of those women may find u attractive enough to taste you and let you taste them
clubs are

for picking up bytches, number one for the reason u stated number 2 a lot of bytches are on guard cuz every dude tryna get at them.
with online dating, your personality doesnt come across as well as it would in person, so if a bytch doesnt find u attractive to begin with they aint gona fukk with u.
another point- a lot of the bytches in my circle of friends rarely if ever date dudes who they weren't introduced to from within that circle of acquaintances. meaning, let's say you see one of these bytches at a store and u approach her. she will probably shoot u down. but if u were introduced to her by someone she knows, u may have a higher chance of having her give you an orgasm.
it's weird, bytches are fukkin weird.. u should just try to get introduced to bytches man it's way easier than clubs, online dating, cold approaches in the street etc.