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Mandarin Duck

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Some of us men are way too preoccupied with sex. If I had a girlfriend I'd want her to be my best friend. I'd want to play xbox/ps3 with her, watch a movie, travel, share hobbies with her, etc. Some of you guys see women as purely sex objects and nothing more which, obviously, is a very problematic view to have.
Well it actually comes from doing all those things with women, but them never seeing you as sexually attractive.
Aka getting friendzoned too much.

Girls want the bullshyt (talking and hanging out)cuz guys just wanna fukk em and guys just wanna fukk because girls just want the bullshyt from them.
 

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What's hilarious is that most people here are in the same situation as OP but they have to pretend to be 'playas' who make 100k and have IT certs and get alot of p*ssy. Can't you guys drop the act for 5 seconds and be real?
More projection of your own insecurities.... who is in here pretending to be a six figure IT playa? @ them
 

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sounds like something i thought about Angela Watkins when i was 11 years old :usure:
Well it actually comes from doing all those things with women, but them never seeing you as sexually attractive.
Aka getting friendzoned too much.

Girls want the bullshyt (talking and hanging out)cuz guys just wanna fukk em and guys just wanna fukk because girls just want the bullshyt from them.

I'm not talking about a strictly platonic relationship. I'm talking about sex in addition to all of those other things I mentioned. Many guys here seem to view a healthy relationship as being 99% sex and barely any room for nothing else. Immediately after having sex with a girl you'd just kick her out and go back to playing NBA 2k or some shyt. It's weird to me.

What's wrong with treating her like a *GASP* human being?
 

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I'm not talking about a strictly platonic relationship. I'm talking about sex in addition to all of those other things I mentioned. Many guys here seem to view a healthy relationship as being 99% sex and barely any room for nothing else. Immediately after having sex with a girl you'd just kick her out and go back to playing NBA 2k or some shyt. It's weird to me.

What's wrong with treating her like a *GASP* human being?
Well those are 2 completely different topics.
You think OP is in relationship?
Obviously not or he wouldn't have made this thread
 

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THIS

The whole "get ya money up" crap is just as much bullshyt-ish as "be yourself". Both will make you more attractive but wont do anything toward getting you women. Yall think just cause a chick is attracted to you at hello, she'll just hop in your bed? You'll never be the only dude with muscles, money, looks etc....you'll never be the only attractive guy. Socializing is a skill, use it or lose it. You scared to talk to strangers Sunday-friday, yet expect to chat up a bar chick long enough to take her home saturday night? :mjlol:

Lemme just say this now. The ROI (rate of investment) as a dude holla-ing at women isn't high now, probably never was and probably never will be. Get over it. If you want high ROI get plastic surgery or become famous. otherwise stop being a fukkin baby, you'll have to submit yourself to the process of rejection/learning game. Besides it isn't nowhere near as hard as some make it seem. If rejections hurt still you aren't ready. If you still look at socializing as work, you aren't ready.

True :leon:
how old are you :usure:
i've found that the people who dont have a lot of friends have a harder time getting laid, at least what i see where i'm from this is certainly the case
example: when you know a lot of ppl, you get invited to shyt like cookouts or house parties etc.. then theres usually ppl there u dont know, who u get introduced to. some of those people are women, some of those women may find u attractive enough to taste you and let you taste them
clubs are :camby: for picking up bytches, number one for the reason u stated number 2 a lot of bytches are on guard cuz every dude tryna get at them.
with online dating, your personality doesnt come across as well as it would in person, so if a bytch doesnt find u attractive to begin with they aint gona fukk with u. :camby:

another point- a lot of the bytches in my circle of friends rarely if ever date dudes who they weren't introduced to from within that circle of acquaintances. meaning, let's say you see one of these bytches at a store and u approach her. she will probably shoot u down. but if u were introduced to her by someone she knows, u may have a higher chance of having her give you an orgasm.

it's weird, bytches are fukkin weird.. u should just try to get introduced to bytches man it's way easier than clubs, online dating, cold approaches in the street etc.

Yep. Especially when those group of people have connections to all kinds of places.
 

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Well escorts certainly serve an, ahem, untapped market.
 

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What's hilarious is that most people here are in the same situation as OP but they have to pretend to be 'playas' who make 100k and have IT certs and get alot of p*ssy. Can't you guys drop the act for 5 seconds and be real?

Meeting quality women or just getting sex doesn't take having those credentials and you don't have to be Casanova Rico Suave Jr.

I don't know why it's so hard to believe that a lot of regular, average men aren't resorting to tricking off for the company of women
 

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Hell no. I agree on working on yourself, but never aim low. NEVER. Better to get show down confidently than to aim low and score.

for some nikkas cash money will be the only area they can improve in

women will never be physically naturally attracted to some motherfukkers


getting shot down doesn't get you p*ssy
know what the price is before you come to the table

women do know what they want
and if you don't have what she's looking for why waste your time

ya dig:myman:


:sas1::sas2:don't set nikkas up
you can agree ain't nothing worse than an ugly gassed up bytch
well the same thing for overconfident unrealistic ain't shyt nikkas

:manny:game+

 

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some people GET PAID to work out and stay fit
everyone else has got to buy a monthly gym membership
some people GET PAID to go to restaurants
everyone else puts a credit card in that faux-leather guest check folder
some people GET PAID to go to university
other people will be taking out loans
some people GET PAID to get on stage and rap/sing/perform
other people?? yep, gotta pay if they want that 20 minute spot

see where i'm going with this??
you're either a producer or a consumer:mjcry:
if you can't produce a desired commodity
...then get that wallet ready:francis:

it's not about status, looks, style, whatever
a lot of you guys just aren't desirable commodities
all this bitterness, jealousy, paranoia, impotent rage
basically you aren't very pleasant people to be around
so you gotta get in where you fit in with the opposite sex
i'm not even trying to blast anyone:shaq2:
but let's stop beating around the bush with all this talking here
 

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for some nikkas cash money will be the only area they can improve in

women will never be physically naturally attracted to some motherfukkers


getting shot down doesn't get you p*ssy
know what the price is before you come to the table

women do know what they want
and if you don't have what she's looking for why waste your time

ya dig:myman:


:sas1::sas2:don't set nikkas up
you can agree ain't nothing worse than an ugly gassed up bytch
well the same thing for overconfident unrealistic ain't shyt nikkas

:manny:game+

fukk that, I aimed high and learned a lot. If I aimed low, then life itself would be shyt.
 

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Man you gotta put yourself around women to get women. They can sniff the feminine energy off you in a split second. If you're in a dry spell you might consider just dealing with an average chick to get back on your A game (If you ever were at that point :sas2:).

Problem is dudes have been in the friend zone so long they consider that winning. You should know where you stand with a female by the first or second encounter. None of this waiting around for months just to get a date that ends up going nowhere.

One of the most sexy things to a women is when you show through actions that you can be happy without her being around. That means you have hobbies and shyt to do. If you're sitting around playing Xbox 24/7, how can you expect to smash anything? This isn't about being a player, it's about becoming a man.
 
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