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[the bossman]

I read the threadstarter's opening post, and paying for sex is his scapegoat to not being able to deal with the rejection.
that is when, I have to say you are doing it wrong.
I only advocate paying for sex on two occasions.
one is a lockdown environment, and the other is for gaining some type of liberation from pedestal placing of cooch.
with females you are gonna have to always face rejection.
you, just need to find a place where females are in abundance that fit your physical requirements for what you find to be suitable in bulk attraction wise.
so, you don't feel like finding enough attractive females to pursue is so bleak.
from, his writing it feels like he is having a letdown to lack of numbers in relation to college and irl, after college.



Art Barr

once you strip away all the bullshyt excuses this is what the real problem usually is.

 

[BodeineBrazy]

Now I already know this thread is gonna have all the usual suspects. The guys that say "nah you just ugly and lame" and all that other shyt. If y'all disagree with the thread, just don't reply and ignore it.

Now to my realistic brehs out here, it seems like it's getting hard to find something out here. If you go out to the clubs/parties, these chicks ain't trying to talk to no dudes. They cling on to their homegirls the entire time and ignore and shun any advances nikkas make toward them. Women hardly ever dance with men and only dance with their friends. And women will turn you down just so they can brag to their homegirls and say "oh he tried to talk to me." It's like why even go out if you not trying to socialize? I see it happen to even the most tallest Trey Songz/Chris Brown looking nikkas (minus the money) so it definitely don't matter what a dude looks like.

You try internet dating sites and all these chicks got some crazy stipulations and hardly ever reply to your messages even when you come correct. I always thought that paying date sites would have better results but it's pretty much the same shyt on there. You can have a very full profile, answer all the questions, have plenty pics and have basically 0 preferences and your outcome is just the same as if you were on a free site. And 95% of these girls all say "not looking for a fukk buddy" "no fwb" etc...You try the sex sites and 90% of the profiles are fake, the other percent are gross bbw women or trannies.

Outside of college/high school, it seems to get harder and harder to meet women that want to have sex. Not that it's not impossible, but it's certainly is taking A LOT more effort for just the basics. As men we NEED sex. There's nothing worse than a sexually frustrated man. With women outnumbering us you would think it'd be in our favor, but it seems like backpage, eros, underground strip clubs are the only way these days. You college dudes better enjoy what y'all got now, cuz the real world ain't nothing fun. If you not working at a job where you get to meet/work with plenty women it's almost a fight to get laid.

not sure if this was mentioned but... just fukk young bytches man.

 

[010101]

You can be a horny dog and still be a responsible father. It's plenty of millionaires/billionaires/executives out here SLAYING hoes left and right and still being the loving and providing father that you desire. Let's not try to emasculate men here. With respect to human existence, monogamy is a relatively BRAND NEW concept. If man is being an irresponsible father, it is because he is just that, irresponsible. Its not because he loves myriad p*ssy.

thank you for understanding+

 

[mr. smoke weed]

find some bustdowns---->run through them-------->get your confidence up------>take your refined game from spitting at BD'S------>holla at more attractive women and proceed to stop paying for p*ssy

If you can't find sex from bustdowns (ugly/fat/slutty chicks) start going to the gym twice a week and make sure you shower everyday. Join POF or Tinder and just say hey you're pretty to tons of chicks around you. Practice talking with females you know you don't want to fukk (family/co-workers/friends). Repeat until success.

 

[Paper Boi]

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

@AllEyez Do you find black women attractive at all or have you lost your attraction to them completely?

 

[johntheblackjew]

naaaah

 

[Docaveli]

The game has changed my man. You not doing anything wrong. For every real nikka that won't take shyt from a bytch, it's 10 suckas that will.

So a woman don't really have to know how to converse, have shyt going for herself , etc. If she wants to, she can always have a sucka to entertain her.

You have to have what women want. Fake it till you make it, your car, your clothes, your appearance got to look like u got it going on.

Then put urself in positions to be chose and go from there.

 

[FlyRy]

I'll say in this thread what I always say in threads like this. Looks, Money, etc helps but ultimately it's all about your mind.

Every woman you claim that isn't talking to you, is talking to someone. So you have to ask yourself what is it about your mind that is negatively effecting your chances to get a girl...not a particular girl, but any girl.

I'm sorry if I come on harsh (I really don't mean to) and I know you're likely to disagree and be hostile to what I'm about to say...but if you struggle to get a girl, especially in this era of women's sexual liberation where women frequently have multiple partners, something is wrong with your mind.

Maybe its an anxiety. Maybe its your expectations and you're going at girls out of your league. Maybe you're shy. But it's ultimately you. Not them. Because I promise you, they are getting fukked. By somebody. For free.

I can say this because I've struggled with this personally.

You have to be accountable...because accountability is a big part of manhood. And women like men.

Work on whatever issues plague your mind ASAP.

this.. its 110% state of mind

it's not clothes or car or even money.. i've pulled in a bullshyt t shirt and basketball shorts while barefoot

i always laugh when dudes on here say they gotta travel to get p*ssy

it's mentality. op lacks confidence. if you're always thinking i need to get this , i dont have that.. etc then you're not gonna get laid

once you get your confidence up and stop putting p*ssy on a pedestal the p*ssy will come.

as said on entourage p*ssy will smell other p*ssy and want to trample it..once you get one the floodgates will open and more p*ssy will follow

 

[BlackonBlackCrime]

I dont why you paying for p*ssy. But I worked with excons and hood nikkaz last summer making $8.25 hr and them dudes had wives, girlfriends & chicks on the side. You are doing something wrong

 

[Lil Wango]

OP, I feel u, ALMOST. One thing you gotta remember this shyt is a GAME. My boy used to tell me getting at chicks is like basketball, and you the star shooting guard. You think Jordan, A.I., Kobe gonna quit shooting if they start the game 0-3, 0-5? Hell naw, they keep putting up shots. You gotta treat hollering at women like you Russel Westbrook. Who by the way went 14-32 last night. Chop that in half 7-16, chop that in half 3-8.

Don't bow out the game until you put up enough shots.

And work on yo game, put bass in yo voice when you talk to these chicks. A lot of these broads looking for the same thing you are.

 

[Brandsdale]

OP, I feel u, ALMOST. One thing you gotta remember this shyt is a GAME. My boy used to tell me getting at chicks is like basketball, and you the star shooting guard. You think Jordan, A.I., Kobe gonna quit shooting if they start the game 0-3, 0-5? Hell naw, they keep putting up shots. You gotta treat hollering at women like you Russel Westbrook. Who by the way went 14-32 last night. Chop that in half 7-16, chop that in half 3-8.

Don't bow out the game until you put up enough shots.

And work on yo game, put bass in yo voice when you talk to these chicks. A lot of these broads looking for the same thing you are.

problem is what if you put up them numbers and lose the game?

just like Russ did last night

 

[Wild self]

I dont why you paying for p*ssy. But I worked with excons and hood nikkaz last summer making $8.25 hr and them dudes had wives, girlfriends & chicks on the side. You are doing something wrong

Ex cons and thugs are still are more attractive in the mating scale to women cause of their rep.

 

[sfgiants]

OP, I feel u, ALMOST. One thing you gotta remember this shyt is a GAME. My boy used to tell me getting at chicks is like basketball, and you the star shooting guard. You think Jordan, A.I., Kobe gonna quit shooting if they start the game 0-3, 0-5? Hell naw, they keep putting up shots. You gotta treat hollering at women like you Russel Westbrook. Who by the way went 14-32 last night. Chop that in half 7-16, chop that in half 3-8.

Don't bow out the game until you put up enough shots.

And work on yo game, put bass in yo voice when you talk to these chicks. A lot of these broads looking for the same thing you are.

My baseball analogy is better.
Good Nba players averaging close to 50% fg average dudes like op can't think they're Gona be 50% when approaching bytches. But in baseball if you're batting .250 you're doing alright meaning if you get somewhere with 2 out of 10 bytches you're doing great

Op gota start in the minor leagues (ugly women. not actual minors ) then u move up to triple A which are women who aren't fat and ghoulish, as he powers through these phases he can begin to focus on the type of women he won't be ashamed to be seen with in public. Realistically most women will reject him because it's no longer a hitters league. But once in a while he will hit something into play and if he's smart he won't get caught stealing his way around second or third base or find his way home into a well deserved orgasm

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Thing is I'm a handsome guy, I hit the gym regularly and I make good money which makes it even more frustrating. At this point, I'm lost breh. I get lucky once in a blue moon but not as frequent as I'd like. These backpage hoes meet me and wonder why the hell I don't have a girl and why am I even paying for p*ssy. I look at them like it's hard out here

Women seem to be under this impression that if you're a handsome man who stays in shape you can get it just like that, when it actually doesn't do anything most of the time. Idk man, it just makes no sense at this point.

But I know all you Coli brehs are pulling dimes left and right so maybe I'm talking to the wrong dudes. So that's why I'm asking the ones who are "realistic"

Sorry to hear about your problems. I have the same ones as you, as so do many Coli brehs. A lot of nikkas in here are frontin' they ass off.

Don't go crazy thinking about why women do what they do bruh

Because women don't give a fukk about your feelings

Just be YOURSELF

And If they don't like you for that

fukk EM

Create something

There is so much more to life than p*ssy

p*ssy will eventually COME TO YOU

This nikka be saying some weird shyt, but I feel him 100% on this one.

Are there men out here really expecting the average women to be looking for no strings sex?

By nature women screen men because they are looking for a suitable long-term partner, not because they are trying to be difficult.

Do you present yourself in a way that makes you attractive TO WOMEN?

Women who 'love' sex the way men do are selling you a dream.

It's harder to build friendships with the opposite sex after high school/college. Get a hobby, meet people and put yourself out there.

Yeah, OP kind of narrowing his interactions with women by just wanting sex

I agree with you OP but unfortunately you are saying it at the wrong forum. Very few here will admit that. We're all too busy choosing which one of our pawgs to smash tonite.

agreed

I'm in that top tier, however I can still agree with some of the points the O.P. has made. Even though it may be simple for some of us men to get p*ssy from females, let's not act or pretend like the dynamic for men hasn't changed in many cases for the worse due to the advancements of feminism, technology & bottom feeding simps altering the game.

yup

Its tougher than many would have you believe. Once you finish school, if you're not out there like that clubbing every other weekend or going to plenty of social events your p*ssy getting rate drops. I even have homegirls that will ask me how the girls are doing when we catchup. When I tell them its a mega drought it's either theyre surprised (which proves it aint like a dude ugly or nothing) or they already know that with us graduating its harder to meet folks.

You literally have to just stumble upon p*ssy

Man it is so so so hard to meet women after college. Most of my hobbies are hobbies for introverts (drawing/art, writing, concerts, etc)

a spot and/or a car are KEY.

I need to move back out of mom dukes house. I think having your own place is 100% key, though I do have friends who get laid that live at their parents house.

Damn I'm sorry breh. A lot of these "club" chicks you talk about are not meeting their ideal mate at clubs. Best believe these women are being approached in other non club social situations. This is why they aren't socializing in the clubs. The clubs are for "turning up" and being seeing with their friends and maybe even partying and using some Simp's bottle service.

I'm serious. I've been fukking with this Filipino/white broad that has the typical mc-insta-Thot look and you know where I met her? At the goddamn trader joes.

Damn, how'd you pull that? Pulling girls while sober I can do it but man th eanxiety is on one hundred thousand trillion.

Don't spend so much of your energy on getting puzzy. The average single guy gets laid, maybe once or twice a month if that. You sound young, put more energy into your career etc. And don't try to pick up women at the club. Also, what type of women are you talking to are you maybe aiming to high?

Perhaps he is aiming to high right now. I go after 8's and 9s. I can't help it I don't exclude the average looking girls either-- I legitimately am open to talking and dating anyone--but I notice that the girls im not really attracted to (no matter if they're hot or average) aren't attracted to me, so I usually aim for what I really like.

Breh. If you have a car and a crib, you can get p*ssy.
Go to clubs, bars, gyms, rec centers, bookstores, parties, concerts, malls, if you're desperate hit up strip clubs, be cool and flirt a little.
Use Tinder, POF, any dating site you can find, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr.
Use all your damn resources, make your online profiles a "Best of You..." that's what everyone else is doing.
Gain more visible hobbies, that you can construct a circle of people around, volunteer.
Fill your time, and be social, and women will come. I don't know what else to tell you.

Damn, dude, preach

See, the OP's problem is that he has no real interests. Of course you're not going to meet a bytch at that bar who you would still want in the morning. Even a little bit of alcohol fukks up people's perceptions. Women at the bar think you are only hollering because you're drinking. People go to bars and parties to relax and unwind, not meet new people. The bar is one of the worst places to meet anyone. You have a better chance of getting stomped out for stepping on some nikkas fresh J's or looking at another frustrated angry nikka too long than actually pulling a quality dime bytch at any bar or club. Be glad you're getting curved at the bar. Beer goggles are no joke. Any female who's easy to get at the bar is probably not worth having. Real shyt. You think you're talking to Tamia the R&B singer at the bar at 2 in the morning end up waking up next to a lightskinned version of Precious the next morning. shyt, you have a better chance of drinking so much and becoming an alcoholic and going to AA meetings to bag a quality broad than going to bars every damn weekend.

Develop some real interests and find other people who have those interests. The radio and TV make it seem like the club is some magical place where dime bytches will fukk you the first night just for showing up. It's a mindfukk because if you a good looking, well dressed tall dude like me, it seems like it's gone work out at the bar/club, but it never does. And when it does, it's regrettable beer goggles. And you gotta watch out for random bytches who are willing to fukk on the first night. They might be trying to set you up at worst. shyt happens all the time where I'm from. bytch might be burning like California wild fires, might have the package. bytch might have a psychotic homicidal boyfriend that will kill your ass. bytch might be crazy herself and stalk you. You might get some random crazy hoe with no life ambition pregnant and be fukked for life.


All of this would be common sense, but I can't knock it because I wasted years trying to pull dimes in the bar and by in large, that shyt doesn't work unless you're a celebrity or some shyt. The bar scene is about looks and money, period. Mom gave me that game back in the day and I didn't listen. You're better off playing the day game going to malls, universities, art galleries, museums, libraries, coffee shops etc. anywhere that is not a bar. Get the confidence to holler at bytches when you're stone cold sober in a laidback regular life scenario. Women know it's real when you holler 100% sober. Folks don't realize how repulsive they look, smell and act even off a little bit of the ac right.

Damn, I think about them the same way, though. I usually feel like if I can pull a bytch at a bar who's drunk then they're not really interested in me. So many times I've gotten numbers at the bar, only to have the bytch say she's not interested later or not wanting to date or what have u