Nah fr how is paying a shorty STRAIGHT UP to smash worse than tryna game/finesse some p*ssy?

[Black Excellence]

I think some dudes need an emotional connection to nut, others don't

You get it, bingo.

Also, I didn’t realize so many men were judgmental holy fukk lmao

 

[Tryna Makit]

@OnlyOneBoss the fact that you yet another nikka trying to make this shyt acceptable is proof that it's not.

It's shameful shyt

It's not cool and it never will be no matter how yall lames try and spin the narrative.

You not leading any horses to any water.... So Just pay for your p*ssy have your fun and shut the fukk up about it, jeez....

 

[Yzak]

You get it, bingo.

Also, I didn’t realize so many men were judgmental holy fukk lmao

It's because p*ssy is placed on a pedestal in their lives from the moment they're born. A woman's validation (letting them fukk) is the only thing they care about. It stems from the fukked up gender dynamics in our community

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

most of these dudes are running game on strippers and pros anyway

 

[Scaaar]

Other nikkas hittin that too guaranteed.



You guaranteed to share them chicks.

But he still hitting. So why should he care what she's doing? Especially if they're not in a relationship? Brehs gotta stop that checking a chic's business. That's corny

 

[Balla]

But he still hitting. So why should he care what she's doing? Especially if they're not in a relationship? Brehs gotta stop that checking a chic's business. That's corny

You’re sleeping with known whores!! We’re not talking about relationship shyt.

You can do that, but don’t act like these chicks are not getting paid to fukk on the regular compared to normal women.

 

[RhodyRum]

You only pay when it involves sexual acts so deviant, so depraved, so wicked that you know wifey is leaving you the minute you ask for it

I don't even know how I know this

 

[Scaaar]

There’s 7 billion people in this world. Y’all met how many women on dates to come to this “but I don’t like any of them and they don’t like me” theory?

Again. You let a few women and some internet weirdo hoes make you give up on all the women on earth.

Lame shyt

Breh I honestly think a lot of these brehs that think like that watch too much porn. They truly think that women are just supposed to get naked and be ready to bust it open after a few words. That's not how it works in the real world.

 

[Scaaar]

You’re sleeping with known whores!! We’re not talking about relationship shyt.

You can do that, but don’t act like these chicks are not getting paid to fukk on the regular compared to normal women.

What makes her a whore though?! Because she's actively dating just like me? Again if you're not in a committed relationship with the chic why are you clocking what she does away from you? You gotta stop with that mindset breh. You're missing out thinking that way. If you want a chic that a virgin go get a nun and even then that's a gamble

 

[Koli_Kat]

I’ve said this time and time again to the “you gonna pay anyway” type nikkas.

You paying the chick every time to smash.

If you wanna wife up a regular chick, even if you pay for dates non stop, it still won’t add up to paying an escort unless you wanna fukk once a month.

Then it’s gonna cost even more because you gotta pay for quality p*ssy at least.

Well what you nikkas don't understand is when cats says the cost of an escort is cheaper than fukking with regular women their factoring in EVERYTHING

Headache/Stress/Nagging from a women

Potential divorce/child support/alimony

Christmas/Valentine's day gifts/Birthday presents etc.

Let's not act like men have not put wives/girlfriends through school, brought cars, iPhones etc. A wedding alone is a hefty price.

 

[Macallik86]

I think some dudes need an emotional connection to nut, others don't

That's not the point I'm making.

The people paying prostitutes to get a nut likely don't have a wife or a girlfriend or close female friends. They likely don't have any healthy relationships with women outside of (maybe?) their mother/sister/cousins. Their only interaction with women is talking about them online or purely transactional sex. That is the part that's unhealthy and sad. I'd be bitter and jaded as well if I formed an opinion on an entire gender based on TLR and prostitutes that are only w/ me because I pay them.

Is it sus tho?

Why look at it from only one perspective instead of a different one?

What if you realize most women don’t have the same common interests as you, are kinda boring if we being honest however you still find them attractive so instead of bullshytting with convos that you don’t care about you either pay for it or just find someone who’s down to fukk.

No offense but this sounds like the same insecure hoe-babble I see from some black woman who don't date black men because <insert 'black men' stereotype here to deflect a lack of effort>. I have unique interests and I get laid all the time.

If the women you know are boring, find new women. If the club aint it, hit up a meetup or convention or a bookstore or something. This idea that you are gonna just throw your hands up and pay for p*ssy is some lowkey defeatist shyt.

The concept that I keep seeing of “someone who wants to be with you” would have to result in actually caring to converse with this person. Why would men do that if they just don’t care for said person?

This is the part that is subtly sus AF and you aren't grasping it... You have convinced yourself that half the world population is boring and you don't care to converse with them, and that the solution is to pay for them to get you off. The ironic thing is, the person that is mostly interacting w/ women via prostitution is actually the least qualified to talk about 'most women are xyz' because they have the least actual experience. It's like when Nick Fuentes talks all that cash shyt about women/feminism, and then come to find out he's a virgin

It brings back the topic of this thread which was asking if buying is better than finessing/lying for p*ssy and honestly it is. Finessing a chick out some draws lowkey is rapey shyt. I’ve never paid a chick for p*ssy (as far as literally transactional purchasing the pums) but I’d rather do that then finesse a chick out of it.

This is a different convo. I'd also rather pay for p*ssy rather than finesse someone out of it, but those aren't the only two choices. I am not someone who wants to be in a relationship, but I'm eating just fine out here. You need to expand your mind on what is possible because your limiting beliefs got you out here paying for p*ssy and thinking that's some baller shyt.

 

[Balla]

What makes her a whore though?! Because she's actively dating just like me? Again if you're not in a committed relationship with the chic why are you clocking what she does away from you? You gotta stop with that mindset breh. You're missing out thinking that way. If you want a chic that a virgin go get a nun and even then that's a gamble

I’m not saying that breh. I’m saying that these chicks make money off fukkin nikkas, which means she gonna keep fukkin nikkas to make her money.

Paying for chicks like that is a gamble too.

I didn’t say anything about a chick being a virgin lmao.

She’s not dating, she’s sellin p*ssy.

Are we talking about the same thing?

 

[Balla]

Well what you nikkas don't understand is when cats says the cost of an escort is cheaper than fukking with regular women their factoring in EVERYTHING

Headache/Stress/Nagging from a women

Potential divorce/child support/alimony

Christmas/Valentine's day gifts/Birthday presents etc.

Let's not act like men have not put wives/girlfriends through school, brought cars, iPhones etc. A wedding alone is a hefty price.

That’s on them if they wanna spend all that bread on their girl.

But if you’re not a trick, it’s always cheaper to just date and keep spending low.

If you’re really getting a good escort, she’s gotta be charging bread, plus you gotta pay each time to hit.

I’m not saying it’s wrong. Sure if you haven’t been getting p*ssy and want some, just pay for it, but to commit to it? I can’t see anyone having the bread to continuously pay for escorts unless you are rich or like sex infrequently.

 

[Yzak]

That's not the point I'm making.

The people paying prostitutes to get a nut likely don't have a wife or a girlfriend or close female friends. They likely don't have any healthy relationships with women outside of (maybe?) their mother/sister/cousins. Their only interaction with women is talking about them online or purely transactional sex. That is the part that's unhealthy and sad. I'd be bitter and jaded as well if I formed an opinion on an entire gender based on TLR and prostitutes that are only w/ me because I pay them.

Eh. I think you're looking too much into it. Just like asexuals or demisexuals, there are those that don't form emotional connections. They still want sex. It's easier to just pay for it than try to force yourself through the motions of making a connection. That doesn't make them bitter or jaded.

 

[Macallik86]

If people were more honest about what drove their interactions with others they'd be much better for it.

Some men look at a woman and just want to fukk. They probably shouldn't speak to that woman and try and get to know her if all they wanna do is fukk. Leave that woman alone.

Aint nothing wrong w/ fukking for the sake of fukking if it's mutual.

My thing is fukking when only one person is actually 'into it' is really just an expensive way to masturbate