Name something you once did that you’ll NEVER do again when it comes to dating

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I really felt this one. :mjcry:

Damaged women don’t deserve us good brehs.

Its amazing how a damaged woman can damage a good man which then influences how he sees the next girl who might really be good, all the way through. Thing is you can't get innocence back once its been abused like that because even if the bet is a sure thing you'll never go all in again because of the once bitten voice of experience in your head.

You know who suffers the most in this? The kids because they pick up on this unexpressed contraction of affection as they feel it and then often go on to emulate it which leads to, you guessed it, more damaged people damaging people. Repetition of patterns.

Being able to see the world as it truly is isn't something for everybody but then the irony is if everybody knew this then it would be a better world to be in.
 

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Its amazing how a damaged woman can damage a good man which then influences how he sees the next girl who might really be good, all the way through. Thing is you can't get innocence back once its been abused like that because even if the bet is a sure thing you'll never go all in again because of the once bitten voice of experience in your head.

You know who suffers the most in this? The kids because they pick up on this unexpressed contraction of affection as they feel it and then often go on to emulate it which leads to, you guessed it, more damaged people damaging people. Repetition of patterns.

Being able to see the world as it truly is isn't something for everybody but then the irony is if everybody knew this then it would be a better world to be in.
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Not meet/analyze her mom and their dynamic as early as possible.


you’ll find out a LOT of what you need to know going forward via that relationship

(moms with all kinds of unresolved trauma passing on limiting beliefs, attitudes, negative viewpoints, and all kinds of shyt onto their daughter only for you to discover it / be dealing with it after already catching feelings)

I used to delay meeting parents as long as possible, now looking back while I’m thankful for the lessons I learned along the way, I coulda dodged a lotta headaches and hassles had I been quicker about observing that mother daughter relationship

Listen to this man. I always want to meet the mom. You can learn everything about your girl from the mom.
 
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