i was going to say being faithful
Name something you once did that you’ll NEVER do again when it comes to dating
- Thread starter Henny and_ HotWings
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Secure Da Bag
Veteran
Not listening to my gut instinct..
Seeing red flags and not fleeing..
Seeing only one woman..
You must be really low class and have really low self esteem to deal with low class cheaters. And then to risk your life for it. How patheticboth times
The first one she made up some story that she says he believed.
he went to the bedroom (which was behind the living room) so with the way her couch was set up my back was to the room door. I swore he was gonna come out blasting. She kept asking me to stay because if I left suddenly it would look suspicious but I wasn’t gonna be a sitting duck.
Second time was a crazy dude, apparently he had people watching her because he called her and I heard him say
“I know that nikka over there, if he there when WE get there ima kill him”
On top of that dude blew up my phone for weeks after.
he was a real killer too…..like convicted smh. I wouldn’t be surprised if I have on sight status for him.
Laidbackman
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I said not to sleep where you eat, which mean the same thing. Some probably didn't catch it. But that's the way this senior brother put it to me on my old job, which did sound a little smoother than the other way of putting it. I couldn't listen too him though, because the advice came after I was already on fourth base with this girl. Most won't listen if the girl's fine, and they already got their foot in the door. Speaking of fine girls, they never last too long on one job.
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KeysT
Playa from the Himalayas #ByrdGang
Truth
buzzkill
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Never trust what a bish says until I've vetted her for months and even then I'm still skeptical
Date a sociopath
Date a single mother
Date a narcissist
Actually care about a woman until she proves herself worthy
Think she is going to be anything other than temporary
Date a sociopath
Date a single mother
Date a narcissist
Actually care about a woman until she proves herself worthy
Think she is going to be anything other than temporary
fifth column
Superstar
Clingy bishes
The "throw the VCR in my p*ssy" type?
I've never done it and never plan on it, unless I'm over 50 with my own kid also, and her kid(s) are grown and out her house.
charge/ignore red flags; thinking I can change how somebody sees/treats me if I "love them enough"
I blame how I was raised.
I blame how I was raised.
Laidbackman
All Star
This reminds me of a girl who til this day, still pops up to my mind sometimes out of nowhere, even after several years without thinking about her, even after I looked her up on facebook several years ago, and saw she loss her slim curvy little ballerina/gymnastic shape. I mean this girl had washboard abs that you'd only find on those sisters in the Olympics. She was about the same weight as one of those gymnast as well. When I saw on facebook that she lost all that, and was twice her size, my physical attraction vanished. When I was seeing her, she was only around 5 or 5'1", and had this innocent childlike personality, but she would not tell me her age. With her short height, along with the other things I said about her, I sometimes thought she was only around 20, or not too long out of high school. But she was a little too bold and mean sometimes unnecessarily. That was the only way I thought she may have been older than I thought, perhaps even older than me. Anyway, like you said, I began to realize her unrealistic ideas about life matched her personality. Btw, when I found her on facebook a few years back, I also found out she actually was older than me, two years at that. That would have blew my mind finding that out late when I was dating her, because I was thinking I had a young girl I could mold. Nonetheless, there's only a few girls I was ever able to laugh that hard with about our life experiences, although that youthful and fun thing about her would have probably dissolved later.
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