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Heafcliffe

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I used to have a group of friends that would roast people the wrong way. Bringing up private or personal shyt, go too far, talk about your girlfriend or some shyt; general mean shyt. Then, when you'd say something back, they hide it behind "i was just playing bro y u being sensitive" type shyt.

When people are just joking or playing around now, I always have to tell myself not to take it personal. It sucks a bit because I'm always on edge, ready to completely destroy someone (I'm a nice person in general) or questioning if they're being disrespectful.

Breh, thought I was only one. I take jokes as personal insults and, therefore, go straight to 100. Have to quell myself into a "they just playing" mindset.

Mental chess.:wow:
 

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I'm like that too. 20 but look 17-18. It sucks forreal because my game is trash too (Girls would hang out with me but I would psych myself out and fukk it up). I tried changing up haircuts and clothing and it helps a bit but when I see dudes my age who look more mature and get all the women, it really depresses me. On the bright side, I read that dudes with baby faces get more attractive with time.

It helps when u get older. Dudes like u and me may need to get with women a 2-5 years younger cuz we look younger than our age. Also, can u grow facial hair? That would help if it is becoming on u. Working out could also help but make sure u have the right haircut to bring u out.
 

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Hairline is fukked up.
I'm hairier than the average man.

Kinda like both switched places.

I'm shorter than average...5'8, but I've learned to accept it.

Other than that, I'm a pretty confident mothafukka.
 
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