Nas breaks silence & goes in on Kelis on IG

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Its is very frustrating to know there is a child you care for but the mother just won't let or she will let but on her own accord and their is no telling if or when she pulls the plug from that.

I finally got her on the same page when it comes to seeing education the way I see it for my daughter.

I probably should not be blaming 24 million women on the flaws of some but it kills me to see Black women defend Kelis. Completely kills me. Even worse when nikkas do it because I want to beat their asses because they should know better or just say nothing.

I understand. Look, coparenting is difficult. I consider my sons father a friend at this point—we get along great. But we don’t see eye to eye on everything. I can only imagine what it’s like when you don’t get along and don’t see eye to eye on everything. It’s good that you guys have managed to get on the same page with education, at least.

As for the bolded, do you have a custody arrangement and visitation rights?

I admit I have no clue what’s going on with the Kelis and Nas situation. I legit had no idea they even had a child together :snoop: yes that’s how horrible i am at keeping track of these celebs.

But I do kind of believe him... idk why. I know that pain though from losing a mom, and know for myself that it caused me to make a lot of decisions that were based off my grieving and pain.

Yeah, don’t write off all DOS women, breh. Just avoid the type of women that remind you of all the issues you’ve experienced with your bm.
 

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I understand. Look, coparenting is difficult. I consider my sons father a friend at this point—we get along great. But we don’t see eye to eye on everything. I can only imagine what it’s like when you don’t get along and don’t see eye to eye on everything. It’s good that you guys have managed to get on the same page with education, at least.

As for the bolded, do you have a custody arrangement and visitation rights?

I admit I have no clue what’s going on with the Kelis and Nas situation. I legit had no idea they even had a child together :snoop: yes that’s how horrible i am at keeping track of these celebs.

But I do kind of believe him... idk why. I know that pain though from losing a mom, and know for myself that it caused me to make a lot of decisions that were based off my grieving and pain.

Yeah, don’t write off all DOS women, breh. Just avoid the type of women that remind you of all the issues you’ve experienced with your bm.
I remember you had depression issue like I did. You are prone to mistakes you would otherwise make in a million years. Most people just don't understand. Everyone is so stuck in their reality.

People don't get it, when you are most vulnerable, you are usually the most along. That opens the door to seek anything to heal even if it only harms. I feel you. I had a cousin, she had the same issue. Got with a dude she wouldn't date otherwise in a million years and now has a kid by him and that kid got a mentality of his dad. :mjcry: it breaks my heart.

I am married now to an amazing woman who is everything I dreamed of as a person but it pains me that I cant just have a normal coparent situation where my daughter can freely move without no thoughts of this can go south anyday.
 

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I knew it :mjlol:

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These nas cocksuckers are the worst:hhh:They’re the one’s in love with nas. Half of them are embarrassed and the other half are defending’s dude’s honor tooth and nail.
 

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I remember you had depression issue like I did. You are prone to mistakes you would otherwise make in a million years. Most people just don't understand. Everyone is so stuck in their reality.

People don't get it, when you are most vulnerable, you are usually the most along. That opens the door to seek anything to heal even if it only harms. I feel you. I had a cousin, she had the same issue. Got with a dude she wouldn't date otherwise in a million years and now has a kid by him and that kid got a mentality of his dad. :mjcry: it breaks my heart.

Yeah that does suck. So did you get with your daughters mother when you were depressed and in pain?

I had my son before my mom died. The relationship with my sons father ended before my mom died too.

But my moms death definitely caused me to make a lot of poor decisions in other areas. i jumped from relationship to relationship. Just trying to find the love that I couldn’t get from my mom anymore. The sad thing was that my son was really young. I shouldn’t have even been thinking about dating, but I just wanted to escape from that pain and void I was feeling.

In any case I hope everything works out for you, breh.
 

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Yeah that does suck. So did you get with your sons mother when you were depressed and in pain?

I had my son before my mom died. The relationship with my sons father ended before my mom died too.

But my moms death definitely caused me to make a lot of poor decisions in other areas. i jumped from relationship to relationship. Just trying to find the love that I couldn’t get from my mom anymore. The sad thing was that my son was really young. I shouldn’t have even been thinking about dating, but I just wanted to escape from that pain and void I was feeling.

In any case I hope everything works out for you, breh.
Daughter. Yes, it happen during the deep depression part. I still had a great deal of sense for the most part when I was asking for help for anyone that would listen. Being open, I would tell family and friends I am depressed. I was so down on myself for the first time in life. Once I got into deep depression, i was honestly done. She wasn't the only bad decision i made. Honestly, the child kinda snapped me out of it but it also made me Bush her as well.
 

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but what were you thinking marrying Kelis though.
Like NAS said all you had to do was watch the video of caught out there
Dope milkshake or not WHY PUT A RING ON CRAZY! You gotta pay for the consequences. Life is like that.
I refuse to absolve Nas of all the blame. There is enough to go around.
 

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Daughter. Yes, it happen during the deep depression part. I still had a great deal of sense for the most part when I was asking for help for anyone that would listen. Being open, I would tell family and friends I am depressed. I was so down on myself for the first time in life. Once I got into deep depression, i was honestly done. She wasn't the only bad decision i made. Honestly, the child kinda snapped me out of it but it also made me Bush her as well.

When you told people you were depressed they didn’t offer you support? I hope you’ve been able to get help breh.

A lot of people are walking around with untreated mental health issues. Its not good to be in a dark place for too long. It definitely leads you to make awful decisions, because your at such a low point, where you feel you have nothing to lose by making shytty choices.
 

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When you told people you were depressed they didn’t offer you support? I hope you’ve been able to get help breh.

A lot of people are walking around with untreated mental health issues. Its not good to be in a dark place for too long. It definitely leads you to make awful decisions, because your at such a low point, where you feel you have nothing to lose by making shytty choices.
Africans dont care about depression. You know how that go. My mom was mad at me at the time so good luck. Friends are usually terrible when you are depressed. They don't want to be around someone who fukks up the vibe. Just facts.
 

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but what were you thinking marrying Kelis though.
Like NAS said all you had to do was watch the video of caught out there
Dope milkshake or not WHY PUT A RING ON CRAZY! You gotta pay for the consequences. Life is like that.
I refuse to absolve Nas of all the blame. There is enough to go around.
He got a tattoo as well.

With that said, it didn't work out and should be no bearing on him being a father. It sucks to be a mother when you hate the nikka you made a baby with, but if he's WILLING to do his part, don't fight him. Kelis' issue seems to stem from how she was treated as a wife and they remedied that via divorce :manny:
 
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Once again, it’s another thread where so called men are on a high horse and judging another man that’s in a situation that most of y’all know nothing about and have never walked in the shoes.

Dudes with limited life experiences judging another man as usual.
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Africans dont care about depression. You know how that go. My mom was mad at me at the time so good luck. Friends are usually terrible when you are depressed. They don't want to be around someone who fukks up the vibe. Just facts.


I’m sorry breh. That’s tough. To be fair some AA’s are like that too. I hope you were able to get help though. If your still depressed make sure you take care of yourself.
 

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I’m sorry breh. That’s tough. To be fair some AA’s are like that too. I hope you were able to get help though. If your still depressed make sure you take care of yourself.
The kid did that. The minute it became real that she was having a baby, it changes you. All your energy goes to the child.
 

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Should we feel sorry for this man?he talks all of that knowledge of self,intelligent king shyt,yet continously enters relationships with ho's or women who don't share the same values. Doesn't seem to have learned his lesson with the latest Nicki relationship either:snoop:

Can't say I blame him for fukking her,but he is not a good role model and setting a good example. So since he refuses,its only right that he be the example of how horrible things will go for you if you wife the type of women he does. If you don't want to be an example of godliness and teach,god will teach the people himself,using you as an example:wow:

Especially when you know better like Nas does,you will pay everytime. He is paying right now for his unrighteous nature. This is the first step to him being released from his duty as a teaching tool.
 
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