Need a little advice ... for a very small dilemma.

[Chesirecatdaddy]

Alright my ex, whom I had a decent relationship with, but now lost respect for (long story)just texted me this:

" Planning a Birthday weekend in Miami, please let me know if I can add you."



... Brehs... wtf... add me for what?


...some type of club...so all her friends and etc can be there...so she can try to stunt on me in some lame attempt to make me jealous ??

So far I haven't answered the text at all and I'm thinking of just ignoring it.

Am I trippin?


I broke her sisters phone by accident so I owe this bytch 500 bucks.... I really just wanted to give her money and wash my hands with her completely... and then this happened.

So eventually I gotta speak to her... had a weird thought in my mind like yo what if I go and all on the dance floor and bag something early in the night and slide... on some reverse stunt counter-attack shyt and be like

on the way out like a real catdaddy.

I might be overthinking it.. she didn't give much details....and I feel like silence could be a very powerful weapon in this case.... and not aknowledging her bday (which she is very sensitive about) would really hurt... I just feel like she's tryna take a shot at the kid.... or I could dead the immature shyt and not stoop to her level... tell her happy bday on that day or the day before... give her the money and tell her no thank you I'm not interested/I'm busy/I'm not comfortable with that/ I'm going to the bahamas.


Brehs and Brehettes what do yall think?

 

[MAKAVELI25]

You're overthinking it.

1. Think Back: What was your first instinct when you got the text?


2. Follow that Instinct

3. Go on with your day

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

You're overthinking it.

1. Think Back: What was your first instinct when you got the text?


2. Follow that Instinct

3. Go on with your day

First thought was beat the bytch up

nah jp... it was to ignore.... thank you breh



I'm still open to hear other suggestions

 

[MAKAVELI25]

First thought was beat the bytch up

nah jp... it was to ignore.... thank you breh



I'm still open to hear other suggestions

And there you have it. No coli poster is going to give you better advice than that first instinct because we don't know how you relate to her or how she makes you feel. How could we possibly understand that better than you? Best of luck, breh

 

[sanityovar8ted]

ignore the invite, pay her what u owe , text her happy bday and drop it. just my opinion she might just be gathering info on when she might be able to get her money back, but thats just the ratchet in me talking.

 

[Falcon]

Sounds like you're getting a free vacation

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

ignore the invite, pay her what u owe , text her happy bday and drop it. just my opinion she might just be gathering info on when she might be able to get her money back, but thats just the ratchet in me talking.

nah she's not gathering info.... this bytch is actually doing this brehette... she wants to go thru w this.... she can go w her new guy.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

Sounds like you're getting a free vacation

to where? I live in miami.

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

ignore it and move on with your life, nothing good is coming from this, if you want to text her happy birthday, do that but dont bother with anything more

 

[BlvdBrawler]

How long ago was the breakup? And what does she look like?

 

[l3lackstarr]

ignore the invite, pay her what u owe , text her happy bday and drop it. just my opinion she might just be gathering info on when she might be able to get her money back, but thats just the ratchet in me talking.

This right here.. Just repay the debt and keep it moving. I wouldn't even say anything either... just keep it swift and silent with the money, delete her number and forget about it... or at least thats what I would do.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

How long ago was the breakup? And what does she look like?

4 months ago she tried to hang on and get back but I just wanted to cut all ties she didn't.. she wanted to keep it amicable... I lost respect for her tho during that time so I deaded that completely.

She's cute, 5'6", real hair that's long...wears hair hats sometimes but she kinda cut thatout cuz she's a tommy sotomayor fan LOL, brown skinned/copper toned, slim, big titties, a nice round small bubble, very feminine/girly girl. I know I can do better because you can always do better.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

This right here.. Just repay the debt and keep it moving. I wouldn't even say anything either... just keep it swift and silent with the money, delete her number and forget about it... or at least thats what I would do.

yeah her number been deleted .. thinking of adding her to the blocked number list.

 

[Raava]

Ignore it if you don't want to deal with her. It does seem like you are overthinking it but who knows.

I went to an ex's bday, I was wondering wth he invited me. I was expecting, a new girlfriend, a fiance' or maybe even a wife, no telling with that dude. I was on point, had fun, and politely rejected his advances. Felt like a boss

 

[IronFist]

Dont even waste you time brodee. Even though upon reading your post, it seem youre overthinking a bit much. Something is up though.