Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
Brehs, I'm not going to lie: I suck at reading women. Don't know how I got this bad over years, but i just have. I can read other peoples situations somewhat, but my own I just suck at. Unfortunately this has lead to a lot of disappointment and confusion. I need the coli's help with analyzing wtf was happening in these social situations and whether I lost out or not. This is a somewhat long read, so bare with me; I just need help figuring these women (and my responses to them) out.
Case A:
There was this fine ass Saudi Arabian girl in one of my graduate courses in school. I was always attracted to the chick, but I thought she was out of my league (Yeah, yeah, I know no girl is out of a dude's league, no matter how fine she is
). 2nd to last class of the semester I notice her staring a hole through my head while she stands in the back of the room, after the class has ended. I look away a few times and look back and she is still staring. She ends it with a smile and then walks past me to her seat 
So last day of class comes and I know if given the chance I'll talk to her. At the end of class I get up to leave and there she is again, in the back of the class, staring a hole in my head. I go to talk to her. She's twisting her hair into her finger and smiling (obvious signs of attraction). I complement her on her presentation and shake her hand. Just as I'm about to game her her friend comes and asks her if she is ready to leave. They turn around and leave, and that's the last I saw of her. I emailed her a week later, asking how she was doing and said that I hope we stay in touch. Didn't hear shyt back. So 2 weeks later I find her on facebook and say hello. Didn't hear shyt back again. Was this chick just mildly attracted to me but not interested like that? Or is she just too shy to respond (which is bullshyt, I believe)?
Case B:
Was at the bar/club last night. I walk in the bar and that Whitney Houston song is playing "I wanna dance with somebody". This really attractive dark skin girl grabs my shoulders from behind and starts dancing behind me/with me. I'm like...
and keep going to the bar (
). I get my drink and post up next to her and I start a casual convo about how her night was going and who her friends who were with her were. Shorty keeps giving me these nonchalant, frank 1-liners, and then returning to face her friends after she answers, so I take that as meaning shorty isn't interested, and so I go back to the bar. After standing around and trying not to look in her direction, I look to my right for a second and we catch eyes. I look away. A few minutes pass and she slaps me on the hand, while I'm not looking, to get my attention. I turn around and she says "hey 
" and waves. So I go back over to her again and make conversation. This time I'm talking to her friends too (some gay dude and some girl). She then tries dancing with me again and puts her plump, onion booty on me right. So I dance a little and smile (I was acting shy as fukk. It happens 
). So out of the blue some friends of mine show up at the bar unexpectedly, and they come in and dap me up. Shorty girl goes to dap them up too and then toasts me. My friends are all pointing at the chick and asking me what was up with us, and I 
So I talk to her a little bit more, but she goes back to that gay shyt of answering my question and then turning her back to me to face her friends (which were in a closed hurdled circle). Anyways one of my friends tries to talk to her and buy her and drink and she says no. Some time passes and I start feeling like she isn't interested again, so I turn my back and talk to my friends. After awhile I see that they're leaving. Girl goes to the bathroom, comes back. I looked at her but I couldn't tell if she was looking back or not. Kinda felt like we both were trying to avoid eye contact. Afterwards, she leaves with her friends.
WTF was that all about? Was shorty girl shy or just out there playing games and didn't want me to holla or get attached?
Case A:
There was this fine ass Saudi Arabian girl in one of my graduate courses in school. I was always attracted to the chick, but I thought she was out of my league (Yeah, yeah, I know no girl is out of a dude's league, no matter how fine she is
). 2nd to last class of the semester I notice her staring a hole through my head while she stands in the back of the room, after the class has ended. I look away a few times and look back and she is still staring. She ends it with a smile and then walks past me to her seat So last day of class comes and I know if given the chance I'll talk to her. At the end of class I get up to leave and there she is again, in the back of the class, staring a hole in my head. I go to talk to her. She's twisting her hair into her finger and smiling (obvious signs of attraction). I complement her on her presentation and shake her hand. Just as I'm about to game her her friend comes and asks her if she is ready to leave. They turn around and leave, and that's the last I saw of her. I emailed her a week later, asking how she was doing and said that I hope we stay in touch. Didn't hear shyt back. So 2 weeks later I find her on facebook and say hello. Didn't hear shyt back again. Was this chick just mildly attracted to me but not interested like that? Or is she just too shy to respond (which is bullshyt, I believe)?Case B:
Was at the bar/club last night. I walk in the bar and that Whitney Houston song is playing "I wanna dance with somebody". This really attractive dark skin girl grabs my shoulders from behind and starts dancing behind me/with me. I'm like...
and keep going to the bar (). I get my drink and post up next to her and I start a casual convo about how her night was going and who her friends who were with her were. Shorty keeps giving me these nonchalant, frank 1-liners, and then returning to face her friends after she answers, so I take that as meaning shorty isn't interested, and so I go back to the bar. After standing around and trying not to look in her direction, I look to my right for a second and we catch eyes. I look away. A few minutes pass and she slaps me on the hand, while I'm not looking, to get my attention. I turn around and she says "hey " and waves. So I go back over to her again and make conversation. This time I'm talking to her friends too (some gay dude and some girl). She then tries dancing with me again and puts her plump, onion booty on me right. So I dance a little and smile (I was acting shy as fukk. It happens ). So out of the blue some friends of mine show up at the bar unexpectedly, and they come in and dap me up. Shorty girl goes to dap them up too and then toasts me. My friends are all pointing at the chick and asking me what was up with us, and I So I talk to her a little bit more, but she goes back to that gay shyt of answering my question and then turning her back to me to face her friends (which were in a closed hurdled circle). Anyways one of my friends tries to talk to her and buy her and drink and she says no. Some time passes and I start feeling like she isn't interested again, so I turn my back and talk to my friends. After awhile I see that they're leaving. Girl goes to the bathroom, comes back. I looked at her but I couldn't tell if she was looking back or not. Kinda felt like we both were trying to avoid eye contact. Afterwards, she leaves with her friends.WTF was that all about? Was shorty girl shy or just out there playing games and didn't want me to holla or get attached?
at you.