Need help with my social skills (especially with females)

[SubLyminalz]

"Hey, how you doin?"
"Hey, I like your style."
"What are you reading?"
"Are you from around here?"
"Hey, I know you, right?" "Do you go to such-and-such school?"/"Do you know so-and-so?" You look familiar, like I've seen you somewhere..."

"Mmm... That smells delicious/Thats making me hungry. Where'd you get that?"
"Hey, are you (Jamaican, Nigerian, an exotical, a model)? You look beautiful, I mean you really stand out."

this line = guaranteed high success rate if she is feeling you.

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Son:

The main idea of this is - QUIT BEING A BEEYIYOTCH. Sack the fucc up.

- What good is being "jacked and ight in the face" if you ain't gonna use it?
You know who else does that? Women. The baddest broads be like "nobody ever approaches me..."
Don't be a broad.

- @CinnaSlim gave you some good game. Start small talk about what's going on RIGHT THERE
AT THAT MOMENT. That way, it dosn't sound rehearsed. Broads don't wanna hear some chit that
sounds like you said it to every other chick at the spot. They wanna feel special in the moment.

example: I was at the store the other day, and there was this chick working the register who was aight.
Janet Jackson - "Come Back To Me" comes on over the intercom elevator music. Ol' gurl says "I love this song..."
I say "Yeah - this a top 5 Janet song..." and we start talmbat Janet Jackson music...which gets us into DeBarge...
which gets us into the fact (she brings up) that DeBarge is coming to town in a few weeks. She's thinking of going,
but she won't go unless her brothers go because she doesn't want to go to the venue alone. Boom.

That's how you have a good conversation with someone - they say something, and you say something back based
on what they said. Women are humans, too.

sidebar: nicca - if a brizzoad is letting you touch all on her tizznitties and her man ain't trippin', keep doin' it!

Hell - keep doing it even if he is trippin'! Tell him he needs to check his broad, not you...

 

[Medicate]

If they ain't checkin for you, a scholar, then they ain't the right females. She probably like thugs or bad boys anyway. Pass on these one's breh. Its better to quench the thirst with the one's that won't give you lifelong drama.

 

[Grizzly]

people dropped some good game in here but the only thing you need to bag the average thot nowadays is a sense of humor.. get a chick laughin and she's yours my nikka

 

[Art Barr]

shyt like this is why im hesitant on leaving my girl. My social skills aint the best. Hate the thought of going through a drought

WELCOME TO BETA-MAX!!


Art Barr

 

[Raava]

Just say hello, ask her how she is and gage her reaction to you, if she is being friendly keep speaking ask different questions then one day ask of you can call/text her. You could also just say hello and ask. Its simple if she has an attitude move to the next, if she says no move to the next, if she is playing games move to the next.

It really does take practice, I hear just start speaking to females until it's not a big deal. Its harder when you put people on a pedestal or over think things. Don't put pressure one yourself for this.

 

[Versa]

"Hey, how you doin?"
"Hey, I like your style."
"What are you reading?"
"Are you from around here?"
"Hey, I know you, right?" "Do you go to such-and-such school?"/"Do you know so-and-so?" You look familiar, like I've seen you somewhere..."

"Mmm... That smells delicious/Thats making me hungry. Where'd you get that?"
"Hey, are you (Jamaican, Nigerian, an exotical, a model)? You look beautiful, I mean you really stand out."

All of these are good.

 

[ryshy]

i went to an edm concert and middle of the set i pulled of my shirt, i saw alot of females eyes widen

when i went to go get a drink there was this PAAG with her man, i seen her around before but when she saw me she started to swag her hips in an exaggerated manner right in front of me and gave me a coy smile

when i went back down to the floor a hispanic left her man and came and danced with me, but my conscious was nagging me and i pushed her ways

a new dj comes out and switches set and i'm there standing by myself, next thing i know a white girl comes up to me and starts holding my hand while her man was right there hugging and feeling her t*ts. i looked at this nikka and gave him you not gonna say shyt look and he was like nah it's cool

i see another chick just chilling walk up and we started dancing and next thing i know we start making out, 20mins in this manly dyke ass lesbian comes out of nowhere and tells me stay away from my girl you punk. i was just like throught the entire time

that night pissed me off so much, i have never had my emotions play with me in such a way

Lmao i woulda left an never gone back out for the rest of my life

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

It's not hard asking out chicks

Just go up to her
Ask if she has a boyfriend
If she says no then ask for her number


I do this every time and never choke

 

[Taadow]

The only reason i find it harder to talk to females than homies is cuz females nowdays literally have jacc shyt to talk about. seriously, this generation succs ass(20 years old)

I dapped this, and it's 95% true.

...the other 5% is, females NEVER had anything to talk about. lol

Nah, but dig - that's why what I said earlier is so important. Women keep they chit on the cool.
So when they actually do open their mouth and say something worth discussing, then do it.

Case in point - I don't know how many of y'all seen Office Space.
But Peter was just talking about whatever when he was at the table with Joanna.
She looked like she wasn't feelin' him at all until he said he watches Kung Fu reruns.
What happened? Her face lit up because she LOVES Kung Fu. Next thing you know,
they over at his spot watching Kung Fu reruns. Boom, niccas.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

A lot of girls don't know how to keep a conversation flowing as well

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

U have to use every avenue. Network in person, talk to non-engineering girls in your electives, do the online dating thing, get some friends and activities to do outside of school etc

Unless u are at an ugly school there is no reason not to absolutely feast in college. U just have to improve your odds and play the numbers game. Every shot not taken is missed etc.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

U have to use every avenue. Network in person, talk to non-engineering girls in your electives, do the online dating thing, get some friends and activities to do outside of school etc

Unless u are at an ugly school there is no reason not to absolutely feast in college. U just have to improve your odds and play the numbers game. Every shot not taken is missed etc.

ya my schools pretty bad ratio wise 60% guys and 40% girls

 

[Swirv]

I don't know what the fukk i am doing wrong i can't attract a female for the life of me. This engineering undergrad lifestyle is fukking up my social skills

- i'm jacked and ight in the face but i can't pull single females, a majority of the females i catch looking at me already have a man.
-i have problems making or starting small talking with strangers like i can hold a conversation but only if the other person starts it, i have no idea how to start small talk with a completely random person (especially females)
-there's this cute barista at starbucks and i have no idea how to approach her

any help would be greatly appreciated

Keep it simple. Tell her she looks good and ask her if she has a man. Then continue from there. Don't waste too much convo time since she is working. If you don't exude confidence you will come off awkward. If she declines your advances kim.

 

[Adidacs]

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