All of that sounds like Street Harassment to me!
Need help with my social skills (especially with females)
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Retired troll
just straight up hander her my phone and don't say a word? ight then.
i am happy with myself, but what does having hobby have to do with this?
do not listen tot that advice. its trash.
That may get you a # out of pure pity or becuase a lot of girls give out #s like nothing.
So even if u do get the number she wont reply or will flake on u. you gotta build some rapport u can't just ask for the number without at least some some smalltalk.
"oh yup... you seem cool we should hang out sometime" then pull out your phone and THEN give give it to her
"yup ill hit u up later today katie"
i think that's what he was insinuating, to hand her my phone after making small talk. no way in hell would i just randomly hand some chick my phone like that
Dont stress it man. In the end its about confidence. If you seem unsure about yourself she's gonna read that and probably will be unsure as well.
Couple things that work for me. Pay attention to the woman you're interested in and take the time to notice something unique or interesting about her that may not be noticeable at first glance. Do this before you interact with her. Comment or ask about it when the opportunity presents itself. For example: Same situation as you...I was getting some coffee. When I got to the cash I noticed the locket around the cashier's neck. I placed my order and while she was ringing it up I just commented "That's a really nice locket." She said "Thanks". It was small and had some kinda glass and gold design so I asked "Can I see it?" She leaned over with it in her hand. I took it from her and looked at it. It was a small glass heart wrapped in a gold spiral. I said "it's beautiful." She smiled and said thanks. Her face told me that it meant something to her. Her friend behind the counter jumped in like "Oh, I never noticed that before. It's pretty. What is it?" She told her "It's a glass heart with a key in it. I'm the only one with the key to my heart." lol Women are about details. I paid for my coffee and left soon after. It would have been easy to engage her in more conversation if that was my goal. It wasn't. She looked beautiful and I was naturally curious about the charm she had around her neck. You just have to pay attention.
Most of the dudes who do the hollering at women on the street are just about contact volume. Hit on 100 women, even a dummy is bound to get a take rate of at least 3-4 who will to talk to them. The more volume the more chances of a contact. Its like fishing. See a fish, throw a hook. Get a nibble, try and reel her in. If you want to get quality tho you have to be about quality moments without pressing for them. Be yourself and feel confident enough to just flow how you normally would. Be curious. Ask questions.
You can also say "Hi... So, how's your day going?" Just off that you can tell what's up...she's flustered...reserved...she's bored....excited... she's tired or pre-occupied. You should be able to read that. And if there's a natural question that comes to mind out of her reply just follow that path into a conversation. If she's in a pissed off mood or reserved don't take it to heart. Maybe her supervisor just chewed her out about being late for the 4th day in two weeks. Stay positive, keep it formal and say "have a nice evening/day" and keep it moving. Over extending yourself when its not flowing wreaks of desperation. You see her the next time say the same thing...maybe her mood will be different or she recognizes you as a regular who didnt press up the first time.
Good luck with it breh
Couple things that work for me. Pay attention to the woman you're interested in and take the time to notice something unique or interesting about her that may not be noticeable at first glance. Do this before you interact with her. Comment or ask about it when the opportunity presents itself. For example: Same situation as you...I was getting some coffee. When I got to the cash I noticed the locket around the cashier's neck. I placed my order and while she was ringing it up I just commented "That's a really nice locket." She said "Thanks". It was small and had some kinda glass and gold design so I asked "Can I see it?" She leaned over with it in her hand. I took it from her and looked at it. It was a small glass heart wrapped in a gold spiral. I said "it's beautiful." She smiled and said thanks. Her face told me that it meant something to her. Her friend behind the counter jumped in like "Oh, I never noticed that before. It's pretty. What is it?" She told her "It's a glass heart with a key in it. I'm the only one with the key to my heart." lol Women are about details. I paid for my coffee and left soon after. It would have been easy to engage her in more conversation if that was my goal. It wasn't. She looked beautiful and I was naturally curious about the charm she had around her neck. You just have to pay attention.
Most of the dudes who do the hollering at women on the street are just about contact volume. Hit on 100 women, even a dummy is bound to get a take rate of at least 3-4 who will to talk to them. The more volume the more chances of a contact. Its like fishing. See a fish, throw a hook. Get a nibble, try and reel her in. If you want to get quality tho you have to be about quality moments without pressing for them. Be yourself and feel confident enough to just flow how you normally would. Be curious. Ask questions.
You can also say "Hi... So, how's your day going?" Just off that you can tell what's up...she's flustered...reserved...she's bored....excited... she's tired or pre-occupied. You should be able to read that. And if there's a natural question that comes to mind out of her reply just follow that path into a conversation. If she's in a pissed off mood or reserved don't take it to heart. Maybe her supervisor just chewed her out about being late for the 4th day in two weeks. Stay positive, keep it formal and say "have a nice evening/day" and keep it moving. Over extending yourself when its not flowing wreaks of desperation. You see her the next time say the same thing...maybe her mood will be different or she recognizes you as a regular who didnt press up the first time.
Good luck with it breh
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Man some of ya'll really came through in this thread.
Non Sequitur
Creep.
They do if they like you
Just do what u gotta do.
Whatever you do... get those nuts out! Break some hoes heart before u graduate.
Do not wait til senior year cuz you'll end up a victim.... making money with a undercover hoe.
All my exes are married , house wives n shyt... its very disgusting actually .. and I feel bad for nikkas.
Whatever you do... get those nuts out! Break some hoes heart before u graduate.
Do not wait til senior year cuz you'll end up a victim.... making money with a undercover hoe.
All my exes are married , house wives n shyt... its very disgusting actually .. and I feel bad for nikkas.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
It's all about approach and vibe.You have a small window to work with before she gets bored etc...be yourself and add humor.See some of you cats ain't getting anywhere became women can sense your corniess "uh uh excuse me miss you are so pretty' and you cats say it in a lame Urkle voice.Project your voice and make your hygiene game is on point.Every little detail matters.
