Professor Mac
Im African not black
So to make a Loooooong story short...these are the list of things that my ex of 8 years on and off did to me
-Cheated on me with a married guy she was seeing for 3 years before she met me .. did it in a way where she would wait until I went to work (7:30pm) and had him come over when I was gone. ..this was going on from the 2nd week we met for about 2 years
-she told me she loved me during this time period. . (but recently I found a Yahoo chat message were she had met some dude and wrote quite "yeah I'm over my ex, I was never in love with that guy to begin with"
- Basically was using me the entire time for a green card I think.. But when the time came for her to go although I loved her I felt something wasn't right and I let her get deported without marrying her (she made me feel HORRIBLE for years about just knowing she had been hoeing around)
-one late night she called married dude up asking for some dikk. . And he was at his friends house smoking some weed... he tells her "look you can come over but I'm telling you me and my friend are going to tag that shyt... She shows up 30 minutes later and gets best down by both dudes..
-we started doing the long distance thing..and she got a tourist visa to come see me.. But the month leading up to seeing me she started picking madd fights with me again on the phone (at this point I still never knew she had been cheating on me when she was here) when she got here, we eneded up fighting and she went to go stay with her "friends" her last week in town...
1)Turns out she had been texting this married dude the whole time leading up to her trip telling him she was coming back in town... and when she left my place went straight I mean STRAIGHT to his place..
2) was pregnant with my child during her stay (never told me) and knowing she was pregnant fukked married dude..
3) went back home and told her parents (who I met b4) that she was preganant by me but couldn't keep the baby because I was too violent (not once have I ever hit this girl).. But I used to yell a lot because I knew "something" was wrong I just never realized it was her cheating on
-never told me she was pregnant but she told the married dude.. and told him she was having an abortion cause she never loved me and quote "his (married dudes)baby was in only one she wanted "
-so she had an abortion but get this... she was preganant with my baby and had a miscarriage back in 2013 .(on the phone she used to yell at the top of her lungs while preganant telling shyt like "she should kill this baby" etc..it was really crazy hearing her in the phone) . But bc she had a miscarriage this time the doctors wanted to make sure the baby was ok so she had earlier sonogram and check up then normal.. they used to let her hear the baby's heartbeat...and a week later she still decided she wanted an abortion even after hearing it
-we break up for a year still keepin in contact and we talking on the phone everyday she's telling me she's single .. so one day I decide to fly overseas and pay her a suprise visit. .and I learn all of the truths I'm writing today not to mention she's not single and hasn't been for about 7 months...
So I also search through her shyt some moreand I see she's been talking to that same married dude she told me she was done with basically true entire time.. now she's been caught and she starts acting like some victim and telling be how sorry she is.. and she wants to fix everything etc..
Fast fowrd
So I told/showed married dudes wife everything now he wants notthing to do with her. And after dating her for like 4 more months I left all of a sudden and she called me on some her life is crumbling bullshyt and how she's depressed without me yada yada yada...
So I go back over to get country after about 5 months just to kinda see how fukked up her life is and year.. she looks like she aged 5 years in 5 months and is skinny as a crackhead....
So we hook up but I'm planning on leaving in a few weeks not really entertaining no real relationship with her this time.. like I said I just came here to see with me own eyes is this chick was really suffering like she said....and while here she looks at my paasorts while I'm taking a shower and sees I want to Brazil (while we were broken up) and tells me to pack my shyt and get out and how I played her etc...
-Also when we argue here she opens he aparment door and starts talking MADD shyt .. like fukk you. . Your not shyt.. and the second I get up in her face like who the fukk you think you talking to
and grab her arm she starts SCREAMING AT THE TOP OF HER LUNGS in the highest pitch possible and acts like a victim. She's done this like 5 times to me when I get aggressive with her AFTER she starts talking shyt.. and never in my life has a woman taked to me like this cursing at me etc.. trying hard to make me react...( again I've never even so much as slapped this woman.) But it's becomig clear to me she just wants to see me get in trouble..
So I'm staying in an apartment down the street from her... she doesn't know but I have an extra key to her pad...
And when she goes to work in thinking about literraly ripping and breaking everything I can get my hands on in her apartment and then catching the next flight out of town....
Only real reason in thinking this is cause ever since handing back her key. .she's been talking MADD shyt to me on whatapp cussing at me and when I ask her to stop she does it like 10 more times on some
"What the fukk you going to do about it type shyt"
Anyways Yay or Nay on this apartment gig?
-Cheated on me with a married guy she was seeing for 3 years before she met me .. did it in a way where she would wait until I went to work (7:30pm) and had him come over when I was gone. ..this was going on from the 2nd week we met for about 2 years
-she told me she loved me during this time period. . (but recently I found a Yahoo chat message were she had met some dude and wrote quite "yeah I'm over my ex, I was never in love with that guy to begin with"
- Basically was using me the entire time for a green card I think.. But when the time came for her to go although I loved her I felt something wasn't right and I let her get deported without marrying her (she made me feel HORRIBLE for years about just knowing she had been hoeing around)
-one late night she called married dude up asking for some dikk. . And he was at his friends house smoking some weed... he tells her "look you can come over but I'm telling you me and my friend are going to tag that shyt... She shows up 30 minutes later and gets best down by both dudes..
-we started doing the long distance thing..and she got a tourist visa to come see me.. But the month leading up to seeing me she started picking madd fights with me again on the phone (at this point I still never knew she had been cheating on me when she was here) when she got here, we eneded up fighting and she went to go stay with her "friends" her last week in town...
1)Turns out she had been texting this married dude the whole time leading up to her trip telling him she was coming back in town... and when she left my place went straight I mean STRAIGHT to his place..
2) was pregnant with my child during her stay (never told me) and knowing she was pregnant fukked married dude..
3) went back home and told her parents (who I met b4) that she was preganant by me but couldn't keep the baby because I was too violent (not once have I ever hit this girl).. But I used to yell a lot because I knew "something" was wrong I just never realized it was her cheating on
-never told me she was pregnant but she told the married dude.. and told him she was having an abortion cause she never loved me and quote "his (married dudes)baby was in only one she wanted "
-so she had an abortion but get this... she was preganant with my baby and had a miscarriage back in 2013 .(on the phone she used to yell at the top of her lungs while preganant telling shyt like "she should kill this baby" etc..it was really crazy hearing her in the phone) . But bc she had a miscarriage this time the doctors wanted to make sure the baby was ok so she had earlier sonogram and check up then normal.. they used to let her hear the baby's heartbeat...and a week later she still decided she wanted an abortion even after hearing it
-we break up for a year still keepin in contact and we talking on the phone everyday she's telling me she's single .. so one day I decide to fly overseas and pay her a suprise visit. .and I learn all of the truths I'm writing today not to mention she's not single and hasn't been for about 7 months...
So I also search through her shyt some moreand I see she's been talking to that same married dude she told me she was done with basically true entire time.. now she's been caught and she starts acting like some victim and telling be how sorry she is.. and she wants to fix everything etc..
Fast fowrd
So I told/showed married dudes wife everything now he wants notthing to do with her. And after dating her for like 4 more months I left all of a sudden and she called me on some her life is crumbling bullshyt and how she's depressed without me yada yada yada...
So I go back over to get country after about 5 months just to kinda see how fukked up her life is and year.. she looks like she aged 5 years in 5 months and is skinny as a crackhead....
So we hook up but I'm planning on leaving in a few weeks not really entertaining no real relationship with her this time.. like I said I just came here to see with me own eyes is this chick was really suffering like she said....and while here she looks at my paasorts while I'm taking a shower and sees I want to Brazil (while we were broken up) and tells me to pack my shyt and get out and how I played her etc...
-Also when we argue here she opens he aparment door and starts talking MADD shyt .. like fukk you. . Your not shyt.. and the second I get up in her face like who the fukk you think you talking to
and grab her arm she starts SCREAMING AT THE TOP OF HER LUNGS in the highest pitch possible and acts like a victim. She's done this like 5 times to me when I get aggressive with her AFTER she starts talking shyt.. and never in my life has a woman taked to me like this cursing at me etc.. trying hard to make me react...( again I've never even so much as slapped this woman.) But it's becomig clear to me she just wants to see me get in trouble..So I'm staying in an apartment down the street from her... she doesn't know but I have an extra key to her pad...
And when she goes to work in thinking about literraly ripping and breaking everything I can get my hands on in her apartment and then catching the next flight out of town....
Only real reason in thinking this is cause ever since handing back her key. .she's been talking MADD shyt to me on whatapp cussing at me and when I ask her to stop she does it like 10 more times on some
"What the fukk you going to do about it type shyt"
Anyways Yay or Nay on this apartment gig?
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You should have ceased all contact after that.
