Need some advice (Preferably from females)

[Professor Mac]

so what abt from yr 7-8 and all this stuff after abt having a key to her crib and still keeping contact? Why haven't u deaded her as soon as u found out?

Tried to explain in the OP...

But basically after working towards a relationship and possible children with one person for 7 years it was really earth shattering to hear that the person you been with has been playing games and cheating literally THE ENTIRE time.. so just leaving in her terms would have been an L... so I finished her relationship with dude by sending his wife all the emails. .. fukked the shyt outta her and then bounced couple months later on my own terms.


. then she hit me back on some depression shyt and how she's a changed women.. and I came back just to see how depressed she really was...

Unnecessary yeah.. but you have no idea what it feels like to have been manipulated for almost 7 years by someone you thought was your partner.. I wanted to see this bytch suffers with my own eyes so I came back here just for that

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

About a year went by between then... and I was just wondering what she was up to ..and we started talking by email agsin . Like I said in the OP.I was legit in love..and didn't learn about any of this until recently. ... she's a REALLY good liar and knows exactly what to say to get me to feel sorry for her ... but is clearer now then ever that shes just plays the victim card no matter whats going on

I feel you on the love part, it's easy to be blinded by love. Now you know better and any energy you spend on her now is energy you could be spending finding a woman who loves you. If you're sure you can get away with fukking her apartment up go for it (), but that should be the last time you spend your precious energy on her.

 

[KingBeez]

Again I did not learn ANY of this until like year 7

Ok that may be the case, but what was your reasoning for staying that additional year plus? And from the things you listed, it looks like you were possibly ignoring some obvious signs

 

[Professor Mac]

Ok that may be the case, but what was your reasoning for staying that additional year plus? And from the things you listed, it looks like you were possibly ignoring some obvious signs

1 ) never been cheated on

2) obviouos signs yes but I PROMISE you... everytime something came up I thought was weird she would deny it and then flip it back on me ...

Me-are you still talking to your ex

Her- H3ll no wtf I wrong with you!!


Me- you haven't been coming around recently what's wrong(haven't seen her for a week)

Her- you're just crowding me when you know I'm busy with school and work..I need you to relax and stop pressuring me


I loved her and her arguments seemed somewhat reasonable .Even though there were stretches when I felt unsatisfied . and I would have felt bad if I was wrong and she really was just busy and that's why she neglicated me at times. . Like I said she looks exactly like a librarian.. I (and Nobody on here )would have never in a million years guessed she was this dirty

 

[Music Fiend]

Tried to explain in the OP...

But basically after working towards a relationship and possible children with one person for 7 years it was really earth shattering to hear that the person you been with has been playing games and cheating literally THE ENTIRE time.. so just leaving in her terms would have been an L... so I finished her relationship with dude by sending his wife all the emails. .. fukked the shyt outta her and then bounced couple months later on my own terms.


. then she hit me back on some depression shyt and how she's a changed women.. and I came back just to see how depressed she really was...

Unnecessary yeah.. but you have no idea what it feels like to have been manipulated for almost 7 years by someone you thought was your partner.. I wanted to see this bytch suffers with my own eyes so I came back here just for that

Another thing it's not true. You tryna convince us and we're all unbiased here. U love the girl man. No shame in saying u loved a hoe that played u.

I've been there, many of us been there. U get your heart shattered. But u keep her around because you still think about her and rationalize it.

You'll never forgive her and you'll never get over it. But you can move on and accept it

 

[Professor Mac]

Ok that may be the case, but what was your reasoning for staying that additional year plus?

I explained it in another post on here

Spoiler

Tried to explain in the OP...

But basically after working towards a relationship and possible children with one person for 7 years it was really earth shattering to hear that the person you been with has been playing games and cheating literally THE ENTIRE time.. so just leaving in her terms would have been an L... so I finished her relationship with dude by sending his wife all the emails. .. fukked the shyt outta her and then bounced couple months later on my own terms.


. then she hit me back on some depression shyt and how she's a changed women.. and I came back just to see how depressed she really was...

Unnecessary yeah.. but you have no idea what it feels like to have been manipulated for almost 7 years by someone you thought was your partner.. I wanted to see this bytch suffers with my own eyes so I came back here just for that

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Anger.

Yelling.


Cheating.


Depression.



She sounds clinically bipolar breh


You need to catch the first flight out of town and never look back. By sticking with her You're basically signing up to go crazy your damn self.

You definitely can't save crazy

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Oh and I'd like to say "yay" for fukking her apartment up


But only if you legitimately think you can get away with it.

And if you can hop on a plane in be in another country before she gets home to see it you should leave a note saying "professor mac was here"




Or if you're feeling extra the note should say "you broke my heart so I broke your shyt"

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Actually the note should say


"hey pumpkin, I was just thinking about you"

 

[MaxBundles]

blah blah blah pathetic loser shyt

Reading shyt like this literally makes me upset lol. I CANT understand how men like you exist. I'm straight disgusted at how weak and pathetic you are.....got damn

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

You need to let that burn..
Sheesh
No one man should take all those L's

 

[SheWantTheD]

I don't even have to read this entire shyt. This chick started cheating on you two weeks after y'all started messing with each other with her boyfriend.. in YOUR place when you went to WORK!

Has coming on thecoli taught you anything? She doesn't deserve you breh. Get that simpness out of you with the quickness

 

[Animal House]

Didn't read everything and im high as fukk right now, breh you were cheated on for 8 years


Sharing isn't caring when it involves a female, if there is no respect then drop the girl.


I really hope your trolling

 

[WaveGang]

She got a 2man train ran on her too?

Instant bushes

 

[International Playa]

Breh didnt you have any options???? Men need options to destruct us from going back to women that are not good for us breh. You deserve better than this breh, delete this chicks numbers and everything. Focus your energy on getting money hitting the gym and starting going for younger women in their 20s bruh. Soooo many girls out here who will treat you like a king. Every man deserves a woman who treats them like a king.