Need some basic advice. How do you ask a woman about her body count, without looking bad?

[The Devil's Advocate]

Y'all are seriously the weirdest, no experience having mofo's. Who asks this seriously? I have never been asked this outside of my doctor nor have I asked. Find out about disease, yea. If it's a serious relationship pregnancies is acceptable research too. Body count - does it matter if those other two are satisfactory?

would you care if your partner slept with 150 women?


it goes to character... i don't want to wife up some woman who was so free and easy with her p*ssy that anybody could have it... and did. also she ain't really used to being wifed up or being faithful if she had time to rack up those high ass numbers.. and she probably a lot more likely to go fukk something else vs a woman who may have been with 5 men.


so nah... i don't know what's wrong with you that you don't give a fukk where somebody dikk/p*ssy been before you open yourself up to exchanging fluids

 

[chowism]

But seriously...

I advise all men to get with a pretty chick that got around 40 to 100 bodies within a 5 year time span since they been fukking...


Cause see...pretty chicks with high dikk counts fukk with high quality dudes...and they learn shyt from dudes if they got any type of game about them...

You will come to appreciate the grace and wisdom high dikk counts bytches be having...


And then them bytches get with you and teach you the game...if you willing to be open...


But yall nikkas be worried about where a bytch been and shyt...

I care about where I am going and can she help me get there...

I ain't one of these dudes worried about a female's sexual past but WTF are you on breh

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

would you care if your partner slept with 150 women?


it goes to character... i don't want to wife up some woman who was so free and easy with her p*ssy that anybody could have it... and did. also she ain't really used to being wifed up or being faithful if she had time to rack up those high ass numbers.. and she probably a lot more likely to go fukk something else vs a woman who may have been with 5 men.


so nah... i don't know what's wrong with you that you don't give a fukk where somebody dikk/p*ssy been before you open yourself up to exchanging fluids

Lol @ picking a number like 150, that's so outside the norm it's not even worth counter arguing...secondly, I'm pretty sure anything in double digits y'all prudes ain't gonna approve of so why even ask? And as I said, if the medical is clean then it's good.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

would you care if your partner slept with 150 women?


it goes to character... i don't want to wife up some woman who was so free and easy with her p*ssy that anybody could have it... and did. also she ain't really used to being wifed up or being faithful if she had time to rack up those high ass numbers.. and she probably a lot more likely to go fukk something else vs a woman who may have been with 5 men.


so nah... i don't know what's wrong with you that you don't give a fukk where somebody dikk/p*ssy been before you open yourself up to exchanging fluids

Thank you. That's all I'm trying to say. If you give it up so easily, what does that say on how much you value yourself?

 

[Easy-E]

#GMB

 

[chief_keef_stan]

this aint gonna end well for OP bet

majority of chicks on here and irl got bodies

just assume shorty got like 20 put yourself at ease

gonna be stressin yourself out

fukk it get shorty drunk n you'll find out maybe by im telling you it wont end well

I do understand at the end of the day aint no nikka tryna wife a ho but there is a chance she gucci

 

[JahFocus CS]

Does it really matter as long as it's not like 25+ or something like that and she is no STDs?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Lol @ picking a number like 150, that's so outside the norm it's not even worth counter arguing...secondly, I'm pretty sure anything in double digits y'all prudes ain't gonna approve of so why even ask? And as I said, if the medical is clean then it's good.

because you said it doesn't matter... had you of said it only matters if the number is high... well then i'd have said 50 or something

it's 2017.. dudes is out here wifing porn stars and ex hookers.. i got friends who i've seen smashing off 3 different women in a day. my best female friend has been going to swinger clubs for 10 years.. and i'm sure a quick google search in your city will find you at least 10-20 off top. i went out on a date recently and this girl starts telling me about random threesomes her and her roommate was getting into.. lets not even go into the trains i seen go down in high school and in the military.. the facebook groups with people popping it open everyday and meeting up.. and 100 dating apps all for meeting and fukking

so high ass numbers are not some weird thing these days. and i'm sorry, yes i'm going to need to know if you were bed hopping all your life until you met me, or you actually have some damn sense and morals

i'm far from prude. my numbers ain't nothing to sneeze at either. but no.. if you're in your 30s, i'm not trying to put a ring on your finger when 50 nikkas already ran through you. maybe not even 40.. 30 you better have a good explanation cause i'm still wondering if you ever took 1-5 years off for a serious relationship before

just like your credit history, criminal history, job history, etc matters in life... your sexual history does too. i need to know if you was killing people 5 years ago and i also need to know if you was an easy slide all your life too

Does it really matter as long as it's not like 25+ or something like that and she is no STDs?

how do you know if it's 25 plus if you don't ask


25 bodies at 40 is one thing... what if she's 25 and she fukked first at 18... and racked up 20 nikkas already. you wifing that?

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

because you said it doesn't matter... had you of said it only matters if the number is high... well then i'd have said 50 or something

it's 2017.. dudes is out here wifing porn stars and ex hookers.. i got friends who i've seen smashing off 3 different women in a day. my best female friend has been going to swinger clubs for 10 years.. and i'm sure a quick google search in your city will find you at least 10-20 off top. i went out on a date recently and this girl starts telling me about random threesomes her and her roommate was getting into.. lets not even go into the trains i seen go down in high school and in the military.. the facebook groups with people popping it open everyday and meeting up.. and 100 dating apps all for meeting and fukking

so high ass numbers are not some weird thing these days. and i'm sorry, yes i'm going to need to know if you were bed hopping all your life until you met me, or you actually have some damn sense and morals

i'm far from prude. my numbers ain't nothing to sneeze at either. but no.. if you're in your 30s, i'm not trying to put a ring on your finger when 50 nikkas already ran through you. maybe not even 40.. 30 you better have a good explanation cause i'm still wondering if you ever took 1-5 years off for a serious relationship before

just like your credit history, criminal history, job history, etc matters in life... your sexual history does too. i need to know if you was killing people 5 years ago and i also need to know if you was an easy slide all your life too




how do you know if it's 25 plus if you don't ask


25 bodies at 40 is one thing... what if she's 25 and she fukked first at 18... and racked up 20 nikkas already. you wifing that?

Thank you. Hold this rep.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

If she didn't wanna catch a disease you both would go get tested.

Wtf is asking a person a body count gonna solve? Get them results

True, I don't slum it when I choose sexual partners. I get tested regularly so do my partners. Seriously practicing monogamy has it's advantages.

 

[Kex]

You will never know. Honestly, ya'll just got to get over it. EVERY woman will lie. I told my friend this not too long ago

Him: She so innocent. She a good girl
Me: Good girls don't exist
Him: Nah I can tell
Me: You just told me you came on her face a week after meeting her
Him:

Unless she was raised on a farm in the middle of nowhere/young / or a actual virgin count your blessing and worry more about both you getting tested.

 

[MalikX]

ITT, hoes talmbout "it's in the past, it shouldn't matter, it's none of your business"

Fine.

That logic cuts both ways. If you have ANY questions whatsoever about your boyfriends past (ANYTHING...not just sexual...just ANYTHING) he could run that same bullshyt back at you. Stop asking me shyt about my past, it shouldn't matter, it's none of your business the only thing you need to know about me is what I'm doing right now with you


THAT'S HOW DUMB YALL SOUND.

 

[MalikX]

nikkas trying to turn it into an insecurity thing are just projecting their own insecurities. If you were secure in your sexual history, you wouldn't run from the question. Partners grill each other about their backgrounds all the time to see if their values coincide but, somehow sex is off limits? fukk outta here. Wanna know why you nikkas are insecure? If we're talking about really building a lifelong relationship/marriage here, WOULDN'T IT MAKE SENSE for you to be equally yoked sexually speaking with the person you're pursuing a long term situation with? If you're a manwhore and she's a prude, or she's a whorebag and he's a virgin...why present a false version of yourself to that person and have to constantly lie to keep up appearances when you can just be honest and either have that person accept you flaws and all and love this true version of yourself or find someone with similar life experiences who won't trip because they did the same things. That's sounds more mature to me than someone lying or saying their pasts arent anyone's business. If you can't even be honest about who you fukked, god knows what other kinda perverse shyt you hiding. nikkas/bytches so ashamed of their past they would rather spend 10 years with a partner they gotta hide things from, instead of finding someone they can be all the way 100 and honest with......and got a nerve to say we're insecure

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

ITT, hoes talmbout "it's in the past, it shouldn't matter, it's none of your business"

Fine.

That logic cuts both ways. If you have ANY questions whatsoever about your boyfriends past (ANYTHING...not just sexual...just ANYTHING) he could run that same bullshyt back at you. Stop asking me shyt about my past, it shouldn't matter, it's none of your business the only thing you need to know about me is what I'm doing right now with you


THAT'S HOW DUMB YALL SOUND.

"you ever beat any of your exes"

"what does that matter? i'm not beating you, right?"



"have you ever cheated in the past"

"maybe i never cheated... maybe i cheated on every woman i've ever been with multiple times. either way you don't know if i'm lying now so it has no bearing on our future"

nikkas trying to turn it into an insecurity thing are just projecting their own insecurities. If you were secure in your sexual history, you wouldn't run from the question. Partners grill each other about their backgrounds all the time to see if their values coincide but, somehow sex is off limits? fukk outta here. Wanna know why you nikkas are insecure? If we're talking about really building a lifelong relationship/marriage here, WOULDN'T IT MAKE SENSE for you to be equally yoked sexually speaking with the person you're pursuing a long term situation with? If you're a manwhore and she's a prude, or she's a whorebag and he's a virgin...why present a false version of yourself to that person and have to constantly lie to keep up appearances when you can just be honest and either have that person accept you flaws and all and love this true version of yourself or find someone with similar life experiences who won't trip because they did the same things. That's sounds more mature to me than someone lying or saying their pasts arent anyone's business. If you can't even be honest about who you fukked, god knows what other kinda perverse shyt you hiding. nikkas/bytches so ashamed of their past they would rather spend 10 years with a partner they gotta hide things from, instead of finding someone they can be all the way 100 and honest with......and got a nerve to say we're insecure

my mother always said if you can't tell someone something, then you probably shouldn't be doing it


you in love with this person. you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. but you can't and refuse to tell them the truth about something as important as your sexual history. why?

cause deep down you are ashamed of that answer or you wouldn't feel the need to lower it or hide it. if you thought fukking 40 people was perfectly fine and had no bearing on what your partner thought of you, you'd say so just as easily as if the number was 5.

and you notice it's always women doing the lying. they claim it's 2017 and they can be like men and do whatever they want.. then when it comes time to be open with a man they want to be with, they gotta hide their actions in shame. but i bet their homegirl knows every single detail of it all.

 

[HopeKillCure]

Act like ur the least non-judgemental person on the face of the planet and ur totally open to "free love" and stuff.
Start talking about ur exes and embellish their sex lives to get her comfortable with the idea that u were with women slept around.
Then you can ease ur way into the conversation about both of ur sex pasts

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