Need some basic advice. How do you ask a woman about her body count, without looking bad?

[Anerdyblackguy]

before you guys say it, I know females lie about their body count. So I don't need that speech.

But there's a female I've been texting with for a while ( we met at a stationary store in Flushing QS) , I have a little crush on her, but I created a list of eleven non-negotiables that I want in a wife and one of them is a low-body count (between 1-4).

I want to ask her about her sexual past, but I don't know the best way to do it.

Do I say " hey, how many guys have slept with"?

Bring up my body count and see if she's stunned or elated by it.

I just want some generic advice on this.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Act like ur the least non-judgemental person on the face of the planet and ur totally open to "free love" and stuff.
Start talking about ur exes and embellish their sex lives to get her comfortable with the idea that u were with women slept around.
Then you can ease ur way into the conversation about both of ur sex pasts

 

[Ol’Otis]

You don't


But if you really know ask

Just remember to multiply that Number by 3

 

[Black Steph Curry]

Just let her talk. hoes love 2 talk. Also make it clear tht u aint tha type of nikka to judge hoes on they body count. shell show her hand soon enough.

 

[King of Creampies]

Dont ask. Seriously. It's not your business just be glad you are getting some p*ssy and that is that.

I don't care about females body count nor did i ever ask but if she had to have a body count it needs to be high because i have deviant sexual behavior she has to encourage.

Seriously.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Eh, you don't really wanna know, breh.

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

Act like ur the least non-judgemental person on the face of the planet and ur totally open to "free love" and stuff.
Start talking about ur exes and embellish their sex lives to get her comfortable with the idea that u were with women slept around.
Then you can ease ur way into the conversation about both of ur sex pasts

This.

But do it over the phone via talking NOT texting because if you text this shyt, she's gonna sense that something's off and lie to you.

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

Dont ask. Seriously. It's not your business just be glad you are getting some p*ssy and that is that.

I don't care about females body count nor did i ever ask but if she had to have a body count it needs to be high because i have deviant sexual behavior she has to encourage.

Seriously.

And ignore this fukkin nikka

 

[Tombstone]

If you like her just ask her fukk the sugar coating shyt.

"Im feelin you but I only take women who have slept with less than (5-10-15 whatever your standard is) dudes serious relationship wise, I dont want to waste my time"

But ima very straight forward a$$hole so dont take my advice if you not bout it.

In my experience its either "I've made mistakes blah blah" or its the answer you want/being honest. Most women will be offended by this so the honesty comes out since you bein an a$$hole and they mad about it, especially if you have a high body count.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

"How many gurbs you got?"

 

[ndthentherewasx]

You don't

 

[Don'tCallMeLuckyB]

Spark up a good random convo that eventually lead into intimate questions ( fav position, wildest thing you done etc etc .... ) try to steer the convo into sexual topics.

Don't go ask some bullshyt like " did you vote for trump " then followed by " ahy you ever got a train ran on you? "

 

[Dwolf]

Act like ur the least non-judgemental person on the face of the planet and ur totally open to "free love" and stuff.
Start talking about ur exes and embellish their sex lives to get her comfortable with the idea that u were with women slept around.
Then you can ease ur way into the conversation about both of ur sex pasts

This is a trap.
@SJUGrad13 dont do it

 

[BlackDynamite310]

You don't. its very insecure. By the way the magic number woman say now days especially if they went to college is 7. Realistically in this day and age under 10 and it's ok in my book cuz I know mine dumb high.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This.

But do it over the phone via talking NOT texting because if you text this shyt, she's gonna sense that something's off and lie to you.

Right also seamlessly integrate the topic into another conversation. There's gotta be communication foreplay.
You can't be lazy about it either on some
"Maaan it's hot out here"
"So about them dykks u used to take..."

Flow with the conversation and have a scenario prepared where body count is a thing. Maybe a reference of one of ur homegirls having a wild night in college or something. Then u can slide a casual "what about u" in there or "I bet u was off the chain back then" or something like that.

Or he could be honest and let her know that promiscuity is a red flag for him and start a more interesting conversation. If she's put off by it then she ain't the one. But if she's receptive or open and comfortable u might learn some interesting perspective and that's probably an indication of her being more conservative b/c she has nothing to hide.

In for fukkery either way!