Needs advice: I'm at the crossroads of my life. Finally leaving DC (F*ck the IT field & these certs)

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Finally! I'm leaving DC, heading back to Louisiana for a few months. My house is set to close (selling$$$) in a few weeks. I'm taking the rest of the year off to live free, travel, visit anyone, trick off a little, plot and research business opportunities. Preparing and planning to move away from DC has been the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. Prepping my house to sell, setting up places to stay, saving, a lot of pre-thinking and trying to cover many bases. Leaving the high paying IT field, getting my bills down to car insurance and cell bill, (debt free). It's really been over a 2 year process. So stressful, i'm absolutely burnt out. I hate work, I can't see myself worker for anyone at this moment. None of my coworkers or friends can fathom quitting and taking time off. I plan to work up until my last few days in the area. I've been since 07, I never liked it here. I lived here from 04 to 06 too. I left broke and had to come back after only 6 months. I've sacrificed a lot chasing this money. Thank God I'm leaving with something this time. I'm heading back home for a few months, spend time with my family that I miss so much. At least until Xmas. After that, if there's no real business opportunities I might make that move to TX or ATL. I can really go anywhere, but those are the easiest being i have family and friends there.

First question, how to get fired and get unemployment benefits? I don't really need it, but it would be a bonus being that i wouldn't have to use my savings at all.

Second question, any of you have experience moving 1000+ miles using PODS or Uhaul/trailer or whatever? I 've sold a lot of stuff and don't plan to move with a lot of baggage. I do have a dinette set I love and want to keep, a lot of shoes clothes, small items and 2 tvs. A 60" I can't transport in my car along with my other things.

I've looked at getting a Uhual truck 10' + trailer to car my car in. 2400$ + gas in that guzzler. I don't think that's a good idea. I'm looking at some pods. And getting a carrying rack for the top of my car.

I'm nervous and excited by this adventure of uncertainty in my near future.

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I don't have much useful practical advice/answers to the questions you asked but :salute:on being debt free and closing on your house. Strong moves breh in the face of a job you hated. Many don't have the chops to pull that off.
 

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Hope you know what you're doing breh :lupe:

Good luck
 

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Hope you know what you're doing breh :lupe:

Good luck

Pursuing happiness and spending time with my family which is happiness for me. Money isn't top priority anymore. I want a family if possible. At least a kid, I never wanted to have kids this far from my family. Im done talking, it's making moves time. If things don't work out great, at least I tried.
 
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Is your company downsizing at all? If you're close with management you can try to make it seem like you're being let go because you weren't needed anymore or some cost savings measure. Aside from that I'm not sure what else you can do.
 

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Is your company downsizing at all? If you're close with management you can try to make it seem like you're being let go because you weren't needed anymore or some cost savings measure. Aside from that I'm not sure what else you can do.


My company gave me 90 days to get this new cert, but that's too far out. I also just moved me to a place I hate. I wonder if I can tell them that I don't fit well and get them to let me go. I know if I use too much leave without pay they'll let me go. I'm think I'll just start taking a bunch of leave when my house closes. I have about 7 hours right now.
 

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My company gave me 90 days to get this new cert, but that's too far out. I also just moved me to a place I hate. I wonder if I can tell them that I don't fit well and get them to let me go. I know if I use too much leave without pay they'll let me go. I'm think I'll just start taking a bunch of leave when my house closes. I have about 7 hours right now.

Yeah then I'd just start calling out. How many times do you have to call out before you get fired?

Also when you go to apply for unemployment and if you get a case worker assigned, just say you missed days because you had to travel to Louisiana to look after sick fam or something. Just make sure you have a legit reason to be missing work so it can't go through. The company many not even fight it.
 

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I'm at a crossroads too....only difference is...I'm not making six figures
 

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My company gave me 90 days to get this new cert, but that's too far out. I also just moved me to a place I hate. I wonder if I can tell them that I don't fit well and get them to let me go. I know if I use too much leave without pay they'll let me go. I'm think I'll just start taking a bunch of leave when my house closes. I have about 7 hours right now.

Tell ya boss to lay u off or ur going to file sexual harassment charges on them
 

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What did you do in IT? Are you familiar with HTML, CSS, WordPress or Joomla?
 

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What did you do in IT? Are you familiar with HTML, CSS, WordPress or Joomla?

I'm a System Administrator mostly. My current job is all Unix, I had some Linux experience. I use HTML in high school, but never in a real job. Honestly bruh, I haven't really learned anything new in IT in 10years. I have a few certs, but I forget all that shyt. I've dodged all that new shyt, hopefully I'm done with this IT shyt.
 

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I'm a System Administrator mostly. My current job is all Unix, I had some Linux experience. I use HTML in high school, but never in a real job. Honestly bruh, I haven't really learned anything new in IT in 10years. I have a few certs, but I forget all that shyt. I've dodged all that new shyt, hopefully I'm done with this IT shyt.

I feel ya on that burnt out shyt. I was asking because I got some shyt about to pop off with a website Im building, peeped your situation on some talent scout shyt. Anyway, good luck breh :salute:
 
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