Nelly's Ex Shantel Jackson Left Him To See If "Space" Would Bring Them Closer... He Nutted In Ashanti..

[Gloxina]

Or it could be "I been trying to force myself to be around this nikka for the status but it doesn't feel good/right, let's see what happens if I remove myself"

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It doesn’t have to be bigger than this.
If she was holding on for his money, she wouldn’t have left.

Just seems like a waste of time because they both probably didn’t see it lasting.

 

[In The Zone '98]

You were not a wife to him

He found one

 

[lowkey0z]

be your own worst enemy brehettes

 

["It Was Always Jerry"]

This. ^


Nelly circled back to who he wanted. He wasn’t putting in work with some new chick.

If he and Chantal were meant to be, they would’ve worked out. It’s that simple.

He was with Ashanti for years before though. He didn't marry her then. Imo seems like he saw her glow up and wanted that old thing back. Which happens, I get it.

 

[SunZoo]

lol at anyone thinking taking a break will make a relationship stronger

it means you single

Taking a break can bring clarity.

Am I just attached this person for the comfort or do we have a shared vision? Are they going where I want to go? If we aren't necessrily going to the same destination can we still walk together without straying from the paths we should be on?

Sometimes you can't answer those questions with complete clarity while you're all up under somebody. You need the space to look at what you're doing and who you're doing it with, with some objectivity.

 

[UpAndComing]

She wasn't supposed to be with him and she's not. Doesn't seem too heartbroken about it either despite people trying to logic their way around the scenario because of his status.

If she indeed initiate the break up, she was following her intuition and umpteen million dollars is not enough to decide against your spirit telling you to get out of the way.

Or it could be "I been trying to force myself to be around this nikka for the status but it doesn't feel good/right, let's see what happens if I remove myself"

Taking a break can bring clarity.

Am I just attached this person for the comfort or do we have a shared vision? Is they going where I want to go? If we aren't necessrily going to the same destination can we still walk together without straying from the paths we should be on?

Sometimes you can't answer those questions with completely clarity while you're all up under somebody. You need the space to look at what you're doing and who you're doing it with, with some objectivity.

Please write another book Steve Harvey, you'll make millions

 

[bobbiewishbone]

Ashanti was his great white buffalo.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

You’ll be surprised how many regular chicks do this dumb ass shyt….

Either suggest a mutual break up, or just straight up tell you they’re done with you or that they need space….. when in the back of their mind, they think you’ll be left in shambles. Prompting you to miss them for a few weeks/months…

By their ideology, after some time, you should be BEGGING to get back with them and be willing to “clean up your act” and bend to their rules….

Foolish female thinking

If that man has a backbone, he’s not even gonna want you back after that… I know this from experience

Ladies, take notes… this ain’t what you want…

 

[Luke Cage]

Taking a break can bring clarity.

Am I just attached this person for the comfort or do we have a shared vision? Is they going where I want to go? If we aren't necessrily going to the same destination can we still walk together without straying from the paths we should be on?

Sometimes you can't answer those questions with completely clarity while you're all up under somebody. You need the space to look at what you're doing and who you're doing it with, with some objectivity.

Takes a lot of arrogance to presume it will bring your partner clarity. A relationship is not a one person show.
A relationship is a bond between two people. Doesn't matter if its your girlfriend, or your siblings or your kids. You just up and leave perhap it brings you clarity but the other person might feel some type of way. Technically deadbeat dads employ this relationship strategy on the regular. But they don't often get good reviews for it.

 

[Canon]

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It doesn’t have to be bigger than this.
If she was holding on for his money, she wouldn’t have left.

Just seems like a waste of time because they both probably didn’t see it lasting.

orrrrrrrrr

like most women nowadays her ego was outta control and she thought he would chase. she lost.

 

[CoryMack]

the train don't stop

 

[Ahadi]

Give him space for Ashanti brehettes

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

She was better off saying she left him because he's a Trump supporter

 

[Ahadi]

You’ll be surprised how many regular chicks do this dumb ass shyt….

Either suggest a mutual break up, or just straight up tell you they’re done with you or that they need space….. when in the back of their mind, they think you’ll be left in shambles. Prompting you to miss them for a few weeks/months…

By their ideology, after some time, you should be BEGGING to get back with them and be willing to “clean up your act” and bend to their rules….

Foolish female thinking

If that man has a backbone, he’s not even gonna want you back after that… I know this from experience

Ladies, take notes… this ain’t what you want…

& fellas if you continue with life and don’t let it phase you, she’ll come crawling back. When you beg, she’ll be disinterested.

 

["It Was Always Jerry"]

Taking a break can bring clarity.

Am I just attached this person for the comfort or do we have a shared vision? Is they going where I want to go? If we aren't necessrily going to the same destination can we still walk together without straying from the paths we should be on?

Sometimes you can't answer those questions with completel clarity while you're all up under somebody. You need the space to look at what you're doing and who you're doing it with, with some objectivity.

Time waits for no one. You can take a "break"with someone but don't expect them to wait around.