Nelly's Ex Shantel Jackson Left Him To See If "Space" Would Bring Them Closer... He Nutted In Ashanti..

[High Art]

Clarity that you’re better off without her

THIS. We have a saying where I am from that "giving a man a chance to think is the worst thing a woman can do if she wants to keep him". Even if it is meant to be, that "clarity" will make him think it is not. That is when doubt and such will take hold. It's better to work things out mutually and with directed purpose instead of hoping for things to merely resolve themselves somehow. If one has no say in the process then they can complain little about the result.

 

[SunZoo]

Takes a lot of arrogance to presume it will bring your partner clarity. A relationship is not a one person show.
A relationship is a bond between two people. Doesn't matter if its your girlfriend, or your siblings or your kids. You just up and leave perhap it brings you clarity but the other person might feel some type of way. Technically deadbeat dads employ this relationship strategy on the regular. But they don't often get good reviews for it.

Lol @ equating a grown ass woman and man of no blood relation to dead beat dads leaving their kids behind. This is exactly why so many "relationships" are so distorted and doomed. People just want to be 'in' relationships for the sake of being in them.

If this woman was with Nelly for damn near a decade and despite his status felt the need to take a step back and gain clarity about how they connect there was probably a good reason for it. Whether she felt like she was taken for granted, rape allegations or just feeling stagnant. She made her choice, he made his. There have been plenty of succcessful couples that had take some time to individually evaluate the shared vision.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

seems like her intuition was right

 

[SunZoo]

Clarity that you’re better off without her

Or better off without each other.

She fumbled Nelly AND Floyd Mayweather…

She FUMBLED a well documented domesic abuser and an accused rapist?



I mean, it sounds like people are saying that regardless of how either of these men treated her, especially Mayweather she made some kind of grave mistake by not latching onto them either for marriage, child support or anything besides the wellbeing of her mind body and soul.

Ya'll don't know these nikkas like that to assess if she 'fumbled' anything by deciding to detach from them.

 

[Amo Husserl]

If I was Nelly, I'd send her a care package to say thanks.

 

[TEKBEATZ]

 

[Savvir]

Or better off without each other.



She FUMBLED a well documented domesic abuser and an accused rapist?



I mean, it sounds like people are saying that regardless of how either of these men treated her, especially Mayweather she made some kind of grave mistake by not latching onto them either for love, child support or anything besides the wellbeing of her mind body and soul.

Ya'll don't know these nikkas like that to asssess if she 'fumbled' anything deciding to detach from them.

i guess we just have to wait and see the type of guy who will make her a wife then…,



From mayweather to Nelly…

Her intuition gonna eventually lead her to a wonderful relationship right?

 

[SunZoo]

i guess we just have to wait and see the type of guy who will make her a wife then…,



From mayweather to Nelly…

Her intuition gonna eventually lead her to a wonderful relationship right?

I won't be waiting to see shyt.

And as to the bold, maybe it already has? Either way, the more you listen, the stronger that signal gets.

 

[Silkk]

Retarded…

 

[General Mills]

She got the space she wanted

Literally a self inflicted L

 

[Gloxina]

He was with Ashanti for years before though. He didn't marry her then. Imo seems like he saw her glow up and wanted that old thing back. Which happens, I get it.

No, we’re on the same page.
That’s kinda where I was going. Lol

My ultimate point was he was with Ashanti forever, no marriage, and then was with Chantal forever as well. He was repeating the same pattern with her. She should’ve cut it off sooner because if he was going to marry her, he wouldn’t keep her hanging on like he did Ashanti.

His ex was single, still fine, making money, getting attention from the media and other men, and then Chantal broke up with him— of course he was going to double back!

 

[Ashyneezz]

lol at anyone thinking taking a break will make a relationship stronger

it means you single

It’s just practicing a break up. Never made sense to me