Well top three places are as follows: 1. Natural Hair events- sistahs with beautiful souls and appreciation of their essence are a man's Treasure, find the nearest event closest to your city and stop by to support the movement and meet some beautiful people. The fact that she doesn't perm and wears her hair natural is a big psychological improvement from the average sistahs with entitlement issues and selfish viewpoints. 2. Jazz shows/concerts- I can't fully explain it yet but every sistah i've ever met who was about something and live by structure and classic male female gender roles Loved Jazz music. My girlfriend is a big esperanza spalding fan(even wears her hair similar). You deserve a woman who will appreciate your role as a man and not try to be kissing all up on other women on some Nicki Minaj Bull-ish. 3. any place where a certain trait is being instructed such as cooking or music. A woman willing to learn how to cook or play an instrument is a woman who is about nourishment and spiritual growth and not neck rolling and challenging authority. She knows the way the world works so instead of rebelling foolishly she searches for a much deeper understanding and keeps to herself with class and grace. She'll also be more intuitive to other's needs and won't be all me me me like some sistahs... Now I only date women i meet from these places and i can't say i have had a negative experience since this knowledge was dropped on me. Go Get em Kev!
Yeah I need me a woman I can take to a jazz club. I'm not really into the whole 'slam poetry' thing or poetry in general, but I went to one of those events and the people there had a ton of talent... great experience. Esperanza Spalding definitely has a nice vibe to her and mad talented too.
