Forget about the app for a moment...but people make advances everyday...that's on them and if you're with someone, it's very easy to decline and say that you're not interested in them like that. You've never had a girl make advances while you're in a relationship? Or at work? If someone is off-side you just unmatch, unfollow, ignore and move on.
don't tell me she tried to pull a fast one on me and take advantage of my simple country boy mentality to accept a lady's word at face value![]()
I'm not tempted though. I'm happy with my situation. I don't need to cut people off or avoid people in order to be faithful. Too many rules. If you're going to cheat, you will find a way.Is this the new spin?
I did post in the other thread that yes when in a relationship I could have smashed another chick but i declined and removed myself from the waters of temptation.
See the difference I removed myself, while your still swimming in the waters of tinder(tempt)ation.
This is like saying sign up for pof, okcupid, eharmony, match, go clubbing, go to bars, go to hedonism in jamaica, talk to exes and past lovers, hell go out to dinner with them because it doesn't matter im with someone ill just decline their advances
i love the new spin and rationalization
Netraping?Yall aint shyt for that Kobe one tho
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I'm not tempted though. I'm happy with my situation. I don't need to cut people off or avoid people in order to be faithful. Too many rules. If you're going to cheat, you will find a way.
that's one thing. but you go at work to work. you go to the gym to workout, you go to the supermarket to shop, and so on. if people approach you while at these places, that,s one thing. you on the other hand, go at a place specifically designed to hookup. if you put in your description that you're not there to hook up and people still try to hook up with you, it's their fault if they lose their time with you, i actually agree with you on that (i don't believe in wasting time playing silly games hoping for an outcome). but let's forget the dudes trying to hook up with you and playing themselves for a minute. going to a website designed to hookup, to where even the interface makes it clear what it's about and yet going there to meet like-minded people not trying to hookup makes ZERO sense. not saying it's impossible to meet someone not trying to hook up on there. not even saying it hasn't happen for you. but the logic itself makes no sense. can we at least agree on that?Forget about the app for a moment...but people make advances everyday...that's on them and if you're with someone, it's very easy to decline and say that you're not interested in them like that. You've never had a girl make advances while you're in a relationship? Or at work? If someone is off-side you just unmatch, unfollow, ignore and move on.
I'm in tears
A guy making small talk trying to find a "in" is networking
I already said I understand. I never disputed that. I'm just saying what I do, not what it's designed for or how other people use it.that's one thing. but you go at work to work. you go to the gym to workout, you go to the supermarket to shop, and so on. if people approach you while at these places, that,s one thing. you on the other hand, go at a place specifically designed to hookup. if you put in your description that you're not there to hook up and people still try to hook up with you, it's their fault if they lose their time with you, i actually agree with you on that (i don't believe in wasting time playing silly games hoping for an outcome). but let's forget the dudes trying to hook up with you and playing themselves for a minute. going to a website designed to hookup, to where even the interface makes it clear what it's about and yet going there to meet like-minded people not trying to hookup makes ZERO sense. not saying it's impossible to meet someone not trying to hook up on there. not even saying it hasn't happen for you. but the logic itself makes no sense. can we at least agree on that?
Try to find an "in" with someone who clearly says states what she's looking for, brehs.A guy making small talk trying to find a "in" is networking![]()
Try to find an "in" with someone who clearly says states what she's looking for, brehs.