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Try to find an "in" with someone who clearly says states what she's looking for, brehs.
Small talk gets you further then just saying you want to smash on the first msg.:skip: But yeah networking, only a woman can get away with that. Good luck with that
 

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Small talk gets you further then just saying you want to smash on the first msg.:skip: But yeah networking, only a woman can get away with that. Good luck with that
Kden. Thanks for the good luck wish. Don't know what I'd do without it. :wow:
 

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Small talk gets you further then just saying you want to smash on the first msg.:skip: But yeah networking, only a woman can get away with that. Good luck with that

its the old not here for hookups, so dudes shape shift into some nice gentleman guy, telling jokes, small talk, sitting back like a police detective on the first 48, acting like their your friend and all, then when there ready they make their move
 

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its the old not here for hookups, so dudes shape shift into some nice gentleman guy, telling jokes, small talk, sitting back like a police detective on the first 48, acting like their your friend and all, then when there ready they make their move
Dude was 2 msgs away from asking her out for drinks or something
 

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Dude was 2 msgs away from asking her out for drinks or something
lol I just got asked out on a date on Thursday, in person. Said I have a bf, so no thank you.
Can't be tempted by those 2 msgs away guys though. shyt. That must mean he's really serious & into me if he's asking via msgs. :banderas:
 

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Dude was 2 msgs away from asking her out for drinks or something

"you know what on second thought I'm interested, we should meet up for drinks to discuss"



its the oldest manoeuvre in the book act like you give a damn at first, the "charmer" then slide in asking for her number or kik, or bbm, then ask out for drinks or to hang out, or im new to the city

when i was a demon in the game i ran the script to a tee
 

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lol I just got asked out on a date on Thursday, in person. Said I have a bf, so no thank you.
Can't be tempted by those 2 msgs away guys though. shyt. That must mean he's really serious & into me if he's asking via msgs. :banderas:


he just wanted to network, he probably saw you on tinder and didnt know you had a bf :mjpls:
 

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lol I just got asked out on a date on Thursday, in person. Said I have a bf, so no thank you.
Can't be tempted by those 2 msgs away guys though. shyt. That must mean he's really serious & into me if he's asking via msgs. :banderas:
must be flattering to get asked out despite "making it explicitly very clear" that you're not there to hookup. it's like you're so attractive that they can't help themselves but to try their luck. :sas2:
 

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"you know what on second thought I'm interested, we should meet up for drinks to discuss"



its the oldest manoeuvre in the book act like you give a damn at first, the "charmer" then slide in asking for her number or kik, or bbm, then ask out for drinks or to hang out, or im new to the city

when i was a demon in the game i ran the script to a tee
Its a tired and true tactic:ld:
 

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must be flattering to get asked out despite "making it explicitly very clear" that you're not there to hookup. it's like you're so attractive that they can't help themselves but to try their luck. :sas2:
I said I got asked out in person. I was out with a few of my friends at a Japanese restaurant. I'm not wearing a ring, so how would the guy have known if I'm single or not? Not sure how to make that "explicitly clear" unless I'm out with my bf...
 

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lol I just got asked out on a date on Thursday, in person. Said I have a bf, so no thank you.
Can't be tempted by those 2 msgs away guys though. shyt. That must mean he's really serious & into me if he's asking via msgs. :banderas:
Must be nice having all those options and having someone that you can come home to that knows you exploring all those options.
 

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I said I got asked out in person. I was out with a few of my friends at a Japanese restaurant. I'm not wearing a ring, so how would the guy have known if I'm single or not? Not sure how to make that "explicitly clear" unless I'm out with my bf...
i got that part. i was assuming some guys on tinder also try their luck.
 
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