Never be honest with a woman that you care about brehs

[Ohene]

I don't care what the situation is. There is probably no good that can come from it.

Any situation or info short of something that will affect her health/well-being...just lie. If it isnt some sort of biological information like your ethnicity, name etc just lie. Girls can say how they love honesty, and trustworthiness in a man but tell them some shyt that makes them "feel" a way and all that shyt will go out the window. I'm not even talking about cheating, telling her she looks chubby in a dress, that her hairdo is wack or anything like that either. I'm talking the simplest shyt. Anything that will illicit an emotional reaction from your girl...just lie brehs. Take it from me; an honest nikka that gets himself into trouble with the truth.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

 

[acri1]

People only like honesty if the truth happens to be what they want it to be.

But I wouldn't advocate lying about shyt you can't get away with or doing it so much you lose track of which lie you told at the time. You should probably reevaluate whether you're involved with the right person if you have to do that much lying.

 

[Ohene]

I'm telling you breh. This isn't even my girl or anything like that just some girl i am talking to and saw a future with (which is another thing...it could be your moms, a girl youre talking to, your sister, friend whatever). DO NOT BE TRUTHFUL.
They can't handle the truth. I can drop that story later maybe...but im at work.

 

[Ohene]

People only like honesty if the truth happens to be what they want it to be.

But I wouldn't advocate lying about shyt you can't get away with or doing it so much you lose track of which lie you told at the time. You should probably reevaluate whether you're involved with the right person if you have to do that much lying.

My older brother/a friend told me i need to lie to women and i said nah, "i've never found a girl worth lying [and messing up my integrity] for. And if she was really that good i wouldnt do anything worth lying about".
But thats the thing...something may not even be bad or worth lying about and then a girl can interpret it in some catastrophic type of way. You're better off just telling these bytches what they wanna hear. eff it b.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I don't care what the situation is. There is probably no good that can come from it.

Any situation short of one that will affect her health/well-being...just lie. Girls can say how they love honesty, and trustworthiness in a man but tell them some shyt that makes them "feel" a way and all that shyt will go out the window. I'm not even talking about cheating, telling her she looks chubby in a dress, that her hairdo is wack or anything like that either. I'm talking the simplest shyt. Anything that will illicit an emotional reaction from your girl...just lie brehs. Take it from me; an honest nikka that gets himself into trouble with the truth.

Typically when people say theyre being honest they're speaking without concern for the impact of what they're saying. The recipient of your message may respond in an unhealthy way but you have to be accountable for what you said to set them off.

Lol I'd rather have a girl not fukk me for a few days and yell at me than act like nothing affects her and stop talking to me. Men are childish about shyt like that. I've lost a lot of male friends because we can't calm our egos. We're all hard body all the time around each other we avoid discussing issues with each other and fall out of favor with each other. 90% of the men I have beef with I can't even remember why. I just know I don't fukk with them and they don't fukk with me.

 

[Ohene]

Typically when people say theyre being honest they're speaking without concern for the impact of what they're saying. The recipient of your message may respond in an unhealthy way but you have to be accountable for what you said to set them off.

Lol I'd rather have a girl not fukk me for a few days and yell at me than act like nothing affects her and stop talking to me. Men are childish about shyt like that. I've lost a lot of male friends because we can't calm our egos. We're all hard body all the time around each other we avoid discussing issues with each other and fall out of favor with each other. 90% of the men I have beef with I can't even remember why. I just know I don't fukk with them and they don't fukk with me.

That's true...but with women it can go beyond holding sex for ransom and throwing a hissy fit. Some women may get drastic and do some foul shyt that can affect you in more serious ways whether it be your home, work, money etc. That's all fine and dandy when its warranted...but women defy logic so its just too risky. Unless you have them wrapped to the point of no return lie to them brehs

 

[skeetsinternal]

I gets/got p*ssy using the truth.


OP It's some truth to what you said. A weak bytch can't handle the truth. Truth is a powerful thing. You can break a bytch down with the truth, you can also build them back up with the truth. But dropping too much truth you might be left with a deflated bytch with low self esteem so i see what you saying that if you love a bytch then you don't tell her the truth.

 

[2CT]

you just gotta remember that just cause you may be withholding some truth doesn't make it a lie

not even to just females but to all people in general really, what they don't know won't hurt em

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Yup my dad told me years ago

"Wanna know how to keep a woman son"

"With lies and promises".

 

[LEEeveryday]

I can't advocate this...not for a woman you see a future with.

others....blah...play your game...since you just want the draws anyway.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

That's true...but with women it can go beyond holding sex for ransom and throwing a hissy fit. Some women may get drastic and do some foul shyt that can affect you in more serious ways whether it be your home, work, money etc. That's all fine and dandy when its warranted...but women defy logic so its just too risky. Unless you have them wrapped to the point of no return lie to them brehs

Bolded point one: very true, it's tricky. I try to be honest with women about what my intentions are from the beginning of our relationship. I think when a woman expects something she's been lead to believe she's going to give you that work for embarrassing her. I don't think lying prevents feeling a woman's scorn. Real talk I hustled and did a lot of drugs. I was like a young republican pre med student at that time. I kept my two lives separate. My mom asked me one day what I was doing, but it was her telling me she knew exactly what I was doing. I feel like lying to a woman always results in drama. I think honesty is the best policy.

Bolded point two: I don't understand a woman's logic at all. They're off and on and constantly fishing for information. I pretend they're police and don't say anything incriminating and answer questions vaguely.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

Take advice from single people brehs

 

[Gully Bull]

@Canadadry I did the research and you don't actually be letting off the choppa

 

[Ohene]

you just gotta remember that just cause you may be withholding some truth doesn't make it a lie

i'm a master of this. But still...easier to lie