Never be honest with a woman that you care about brehs

[old_timer]

i'm in favor of basic honesty but not full disclosures
also,, i see some men try to use gfs/wives as therapists or confessionals
THAT"S not a good idea
you've got to keep some shyt to yourself

Spoiler: and personally,

i remember cosmo or some shyt had a list of 100 potential red flags
12-13 of them clearly applied to me
and a man was supposed to go in the dumpster if he had more than 5
so...
yeah, i'll admit 2-3 of my flaws but the rest are getting buried
she might be able to play investigator..
and deduce 2-3 more for a grand total of 5

i mean, you can't pull a @World War Z and pretend to be flawless
but no way am i willingly disclosing that i have a dozen plus red flags

 

[Won Won]

 

[Solano707]

It really is a game of poker. You gotta know when to hold them and know when to fold them; never show your true face (poker face).

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

then how can you, how will you ever be true to yourself? trust me, i realize your logic but at the same time, if you got to lie to others then

 

[Dolla$]

Lie to the ones you love, tell the truth to the ones you don't

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I don't care what the situation is. There is probably no good that can come from it.

Any situation or info short of something that will affect her health/well-being...just lie. If it isnt some sort of biological information like your ethnicity, name etc just lie. Girls can say how they love honesty, and trustworthiness in a man but tell them some shyt that makes them "feel" a way and all that shyt will go out the window. I'm not even talking about cheating, telling her she looks chubby in a dress, that her hairdo is wack or anything like that either. I'm talking the simplest shyt. Anything that will illicit an emotional reaction from your girl...just lie brehs. Take it from me; an honest nikka that gets himself into trouble with the truth.

Truth.
This was the first thing I learned the hard way after marriage.
All that corny bullshyt you see in movies...that's the shyt you say to your wife.
Honesty is for your friends.
Spouses are spouses...keep that shyt separated or suffering will follow.

 

[Nemesis]

its not what you say, but how you say it ..... in saying that little white lies help smooth the rocky road of life

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

"Question for you. Do you find my sister attractive?"
"You want the honest truth or some bullshyt?"
"Honest, I won't get mad"
"She looks damn good"

Yelling, screaming and cussing the fukk out. Just lie and tell her ass that she looks like a gargoyle and you won't have to deal with that crap.

Exactly!
That right there is EXACTLY why it's better to lie.
These females aren't our boys...they're females...and females will always act stupid if they're not the sole focus of your attention.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Horrible advice. Terrible, weak-nicca advice.

I gets/got p*ssy using the truth.


OP It's some truth to what you said. A weak bytch can't handle the truth. Truth is a powerful thing. You can break a bytch down with the truth, you can also build them back up with the truth. But dropping too much truth you might be left with a deflated bytch with low self esteem so i see what you saying that if you love a bytch then you don't tell her the truth.

This. There is a great deal of power in truth. Being a nicca who is honest even when the truth is ugly will make you one in a million to these hoes.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

"Question for you. Do you find my sister attractive?"
"You want the honest truth or some bullshyt?"
"Honest, I won't get mad"
"She looks damn good"

Yelling, screaming and cussing the fukk out. Just lie and tell her ass that she looks like a gargoyle and you won't have to deal with that crap.

Man fukk all that. If a girl wants to get her feelings hurt by asking me a question she already knows the answer to, imma let her have those tears.

 

[OfTheCross]

....waits patiently for a female's opinion on this

 

[OfTheCross]

Man fukk all that. If a girl wants to get her feelings hurt by asking me a question she already knows the answer to, imma let her have those tears.

I concur. My girl knows when to stop asking me questions. She also knows when to stop swiping when i let her see the pictures on my phone.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I concur. My girl knows when to stop asking me questions. She also knows when to stop swiping when i let her see the pictures on my phone.

Dapped and repped for real niccaness.

 

[Dad]

breh, i got ghost on this youngin a couple of weeks ago. while i know its foul and my karma is probably right around the corner, i don't see myself being honest and telling her why i dipped (couldn't stay faithful). i miss he but i had to chuck the deuces

 

[Paisley Darts]

I disagree wholeheartedly with the OP. How do you expect to build something real and lasting with somebody you love if you are walking around lying about everything?

You can't build a strong house with a bad foundation.