Never text a girl and ask what she's up to

[Jhoon]

Yea I love a talkative girl...shyt more interesting than a boring ass bytch. Then she get mad when u dnt respond to her dry shyt

All women are talkative. We are a social species. If she doesn’t want to be social with you it probably means she believes you are of a different species than herself.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Just reading this let's me know the caliber of women you deal with

he spitting real shyt. my success rate went way up when i just started hitting women up with "yo friday night we goin to _______ to do ______. okay? okay. if you aint down you missing the fukk out"

all that so whatchu wanna do? shyt gets you nowhere fast

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Women like guys who MAKE DECISIONS without asking

Like call up a broad and just say...

"Hey I got some meat on thr grill today why don't u bring yo sexy self over to this cookout"

Or

"Shyt this is some good drinking weather come on over to the crib and get fukked up with a nikka"

Or

"Hey stop by the store and pick up some blunts i got this loud pack here ..bring your homegirl too...and let's get a smoke session started"

Women expect Men to take charge when a man is indecisive it shows he is insecure and makes bad decisions..and that turns them off....

An ex of mine taught me well...she said don't ASK or BEG just TELL ME WHAT TO DO

cause if you keep asking off the rip im a SAY NO just to piss u off cause I find you weak

Truth.

I learned years ago that you should have your own thing popping, n invite them along, but make it clear that whether they show or not, YOU got things moving.

Don't make ANYONE else the focal point of YOUR day, cuz that's kinda sad.

 

[Don'tCallMeLuckyB]

It’s simple, if you can’t get a convo started with a broad no matter how many times you tried to spark it, then breh bush her, she’s not feeling you. She just thrives off the attention, knowing she could play games with you.

Stop texting or hitting her up for a good week or so and if she decides to text you back, then you know you got her, because in her mind she thinks that you’re busy with another girl. Then reverse the role and let her know she’s on your time. Make the plans after that ie “ let’s link “ and keep it like that if you’re serious, bare minimal. fukk all that texting/messaging back and forth.

 

[DoomzdayzV]

You dudes are legit socially awkward. You make all us dudes that frequent forums look bad.

this is real right here.

 

[Coco Loco]

Some of us are just introverted without a lot of drama or she's not feeling you. When the conversation or person is interesting, I become a chatty patty.

 

[FLATOP]

My homie just got tore up in the groupchat for pretty much saying this and that women are boring or at least pressured by society to appear boring.

I dont like that shyt either. But honestly sometimes someone really is doing 'Nothing'

 

[UpAndComing]

Never ask general, vague or open ended questions over text. Small talk is for small minds. That “what’s up” “what you doing” or “how are you feeling” is repetitive and boring af- shows that you lack insight or nothing to say for yourself; lack originality or creativity which shows lack of confidence. The basis of a lot of y’all problems is with interaction. Being assertive and confident is key, along with a sense of humor. Nothing of substance can be gained over the phone or text - use that as a preview or set up- could be the wrong/bad time, bad mood, schedule etc.

Yeah I deff agree with that. I have no problem just being straightforward when I want to hang out and get things rolling. Whether my text, calling, inviting them to what I'm doing, etc. But I don't like feeling like I'm giving 80% of the effort in getting to know the woman. I like a woman who's a go getter, has her on shyt going on, talkative. Make it feel fun when their joining me in my activities, not like I'm dragging my little sister around


I blame the SIMPs for making ok for women to be sitting wallflowers waiting to be entertained while the dude is racking his brain there tryna be the Einstein of event planning

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

nikkas is hustling backwards. Only thing you really supposed to be texting these chicks is are you trying to get up. fukk all that other shyt

 

[Rockstar Mom]

So every time y’all talk to women, it’s to set up a meeting to have sex? Y’all don’t just TALK to each other?

None of this is surprising tho. Majority of the Coli is clearly socially awkward. How you going to get on a woman for not having anything to talk about, when YOU don’t have anything to talk about if it’s not sex

 

[UpAndComing]

So every time y’all talk to women, it’s to set up a meeting to have sex? Y’all don’t just TALK to each other?

None of this is surprising tho. Majority of the Coli is clearly socially awkward. How you going to get on a woman for not having anything to talk about, when YOU don’t have anything to talk about if it’s not sex

Exactly. The lack of communication I'm seeing on this site is alarming yet hilarious

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Yeah I deff agree with that. I have no problem just being straightforward when I want to hang out and get things rolling. Whether my text, calling, inviting them to what I'm doing, etc. But I don't like feeling like I'm giving 80% of the effort in getting to know the woman. I like a woman who's a go getter, has her on shyt going on, talkative. Make it feel fun when their joining me in my activities, not like I'm dragging my little sister around


I blame the SIMPs for making ok for women to be sitting wallflowers waiting to be entertained while the dude is racking his brain there tryna be the Einstein of event planning

Facts. I understand where you’re coming from - you don’t want the feeling like you’re carrying dead weight, always the one putting the effort, If that’s the case, after a few dates and you’re not getting feedback at the level that you want - bush status. Don’t waste your time. You know what you want and have confidence in your abilities. You want more than just an accessory. If she’s worth interacting with, then she will put forth the effort to know your interests and provide you with ideas or suggestions, not just expectations.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

So every time y’all talk to women, it’s to set up a meeting to have sex? Y’all don’t just TALK to each other?

None of this is surprising tho. Majority of the Coli is clearly socially awkward. How you going to get on a woman for not having anything to talk about, when YOU don’t have anything to talk about if it’s not sex

Or them certs, gotta discuss how to get them certs

 

[ThaBronxBully]

I Remember I Called This Dominican Chick I Was Dating And Said

“Hey What You Up To?”


She Was Like “Why You Think I’m Up To Something!?”



Red Flag Right There

 

[You Win Perfect]

Y’all want everything handed to you

dudes wanna sit up on the phone with a bytch and waste her time. meanwhile I'm tellin the chick lets meet up for food and drinks and this lame is askin her WYD all day