never trust a man without his own woman :

[BlackDiBiase]

So do u trust women who don't have their own man??

In the black community as a whole there's 2 million or more black women than men

So what do u say for those women over 30 and up with no man or kids or even the high number of women with no man but has kids..

A lot of people care so much what others think of them but will them same people care when u in the unemployment line or laying in the hospital

women in that boat have it harder than men, they make billions preying on those brigette jones diary type girls.

a lot of black women are using getting degrees and chasing cert as an excuse to avoid social ridcule.

men dont have it that hard compared to women, because also if there in their 30s they got 20 years left of child raring. that is quite sad and i mean it in the way i feel pity for them, the whole world is a cold place.

but everybody i mean everybody (the worlds fattest man had a girlfriend) can get a girl some guys got standards they refuse to drop, you can respect or not but lets be real in your 30s and solo is dangerous.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

I would show up alone. I'm an adult I will live life how I want good thing I don't give af what other people think about me.

i respect that, but you are young i am sure of it.

 

[ThatTruth777]

why I got prove anything to you, you don't put food on my plate, go fukk yourself

 

[Prince Mongo]

women in that boat have it harder than men, they make billions preying on those brigette jones diary type girls.

a lot of black women are using getting degrees and chasing cert as an excuse to avoid social ridcule.

men dont have it that hard compared to women, because also if there in their 30s they got 20 years left of child raring. that is quite sad and i mean it in the way i feel pity for them, the whole world is a cold place.

but everybody i mean everybody (the worlds fattest man had a girlfriend) can get a girl some guys got standards they refuse to drop, you can respect or not but lets be real in your 30s and solo is dangerous.

3 quick questions

How old are you? What do you do? Where are you from?

 

[Gothboi J]

i respect that, but you are young i am sure of it.

I'm 21 but I'm not conforming to anything. Anyone who has something to say about how I live can eat a dikk

 

[panopticon]

Breh...everyone doesn't have it like that.

Some brehs make great friends even if they can't find a woman to save their life.

It's a case by case basis, like a lot of things in life. And the brehs you know are awkward, no game, shy, fat, etc. - you think they don't already judge themselves for their failure?

There's far worse ways for a man to fail in life - ways that deserve harsh judgement of their character and you avoiding them. But some nikkas just unattractive, b.

I know it's the internet and u get a lot of brehs on here posturing about being #HOH, black women having too high of expectations, etc. Humans do all sorts of shyt to salve their emotional pain, it is what it is.

But in the real world, most brehs who can't pull a woman are aware of their lack of ability and are mostly just ashamed. You just won't hear them talk about women, ever. Bad, good, whatever - not a word. They know they fukked up somewhere, you know they fukked up somewhere, and they know that you know they fukked up somewhere.

 

[Supper]

So, do you feel like a loser and a creep when you're single, and thus desperately try to "boo up" as quick as possible when your relationship(s) end just so you can start feeling good about yourself? What's inherently 'creepy' about being single? It would seem that this strange fixation on other men's romantic life is more creepy than anything. So, that might just be some personal projection on your part. But, regardless, I'd hate to live my life where my relationship(s) with the opposite sex is the ultimate benchmark for my self-worth, because then I'd be at a disadvantaged position to them, opened to be exploited by them using my reliance on them for validation to extract things from me that they wouldn't normally be able to in exchange for them simply indulging me in a 'relationship'(that they'd would set the terms for).

Your life theories sound like they'd be a hit over at LSA, though.

I'll never understand the obsession of some dudes with trying to claim, establish, and showcase their supposed social 'rank' among a pool of men(such as myself) that could honestly careless about the whole concept, at least based on the completely meaningless & superficial parameters being set, as if we're still at the high school lunch table. That to me is the hallmark of an immature, insecure, loser much more than simply not being with a woman, on top of being completely counter productive when it's black men who try do it with other black men.

But, to each his own.

 

[panopticon]

So, do you feel like a loser and a creep when you're single, and thus desperately try to "boo up" as quick as possible when your relationship(s) end just so you can start feeling good about yourself? What's inherently 'creepy' about being single? It would seem that this strange fixation on other men's romantic life more creepy than anything. So, that might just be some personal projection on your part. But, regardless, I'd hate to live my life where my relationship(s) with the opposite sex is the ultimate benchmark for my self-worth, because then I'd be at a disadvantaged position to them, opened to be exploited by them using my need of validation from them to extract thing from me that they wouldn't normally be able to. Your life theories sound like they'd be a hit over at LSA, though.

I'll never understand the obsession of some dudes with trying to claim, establish, and showcase their supposed 'rank' among a pool of men(such as myself) that could honestly careless about the whole concept. That to me is the hallmark of an insecure loser much more than simply not being with a woman, on top of being completely counter productive when it's black men who try do it with other black men.

But, to each his own.

Nah, I don't even think it goes that far.

There's just a lot of old-time wisdom out there that's been passed down through the generations regarding relationships (or lack thereof) and what they say about a person.

Times are just different now. It's a lot more competitive for everyone in every aspect of life. There's no longer any population growth in most developed countries (aside from immigration). In past generations, there was - people were having 4 and 5 kids each. Since men tend to marry down in age by 1-5 years, it meant that for every unmarried 35 yo breh, there were even more 30 yo unmarried women.

Even going back to when nikkas were in high school and learning the ropes, for every 18 yo breh, there were more 15, 16, 17 yo women. With that sort of population pyramid, it was pretty fair to expect a breh to have a woman - only truly bottom of the barrel brehs were single for long.

But now, there's no longer much of a population pyramid - its more of a skyscraper - meaning severe competition for mates at every age level. Demographics are really important, and we have to adjust our view of folks in light of the demographic changes over the past 50 years. Developing game, self-confidence, physical fitness etc. weren't necessary to land a woman 50 years ago - but now they are if you want to have any chance of success.

It really is possible now for a decent breh to go without the company of a woman for extended periods of time. Not everyone has people in their family/circle of friends that can teach them how to compete in the new demographic paradigm, and oftentimes, by the time a young man figures these things out on his own, he's already

 

[Shorty K]

This sounds like something a woman would say. Which is really just a projection of what it means to be a single woman. Women are the ones who revolve their self worth and character on a relationship, this a bytch nikka ass thought process OP, no offense.

 

[SheWantTheD]

In middle school and high school I would crush on a specific girl but would be too scared to holla. I could talk to them regularly, but getting the number and going on dates was not something I put on the table. Doesn't matter if a dime was choosing, I would focus on that one chick.

And in the past years jacking off ain't help but I wasn't trying to just smash chicks, I wanted a gf but I wouldn't make a move unless I was really into the girl. So until 2015, you wouldn't see me with women.

And I had plenty of opportunities too, more now though somehow.

 

[ThaRealness]

Dont trust a man period

 

[Phitz]

If man or woman is single after 35 it's a choice. Most poeple can get married or in a relationship in less than a week if they really really really want to.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

If man or woman is single after 35 it's a choice. Most poeple can get married or in a relationship in less than a week if they really really really want to.

there mail order brides, well they will be your woman until the papers at least who knows love could blossom.

ifi went that route, im going shanghai. purchase me a lucy liu.

 

[Mac Brown]

women in that boat have it harder than men, they make billions preying on those brigette jones diary type girls.

a lot of black women are using getting degrees and chasing cert as an excuse to avoid social ridcule.

men dont have it that hard compared to women, because also if there in their 30s they got 20 years left of child raring. that is quite sad and i mean it in the way i feel pity for them, the whole world is a cold place.

but everybody i mean everybody (the worlds fattest man had a girlfriend) can get a girl some guys got standards they refuse to drop, you can respect or not but lets be real in your 30s and solo is dangerous.

This is absolutley NOT true when you do your research on genetics and realize that only a few men in history (17%) (as little as 8K years ago) are responsible for mating with 78% of females to produce the society we have today. Nature is COLD, it is what it is, and its colder to men when it comes to reproduction opportunity. Colder to women when it comes to actual child birth & rearing.

 

[semtex]

What a sad way of thinking. Be needy brehs.