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I'll be 41-41 and be able to give my kids my 100% undivided attention and the type of hands-on parenting that my hardworking father couldn't give me.

That's important to me as a Black man.

You're not African American, so you wouldn't understand.

Your kids won't need your 100% attention in their first years. When they are young, kids are mostly with their mother. It starts to shift around 7 or 8.

When your first kid will be 15 (very sensitive age) you'll be late 50's, pushing 60's.

I understand your motivation but I still think that having your first kid after 40 is late, and it might have bad effects on your kids.

But good luck.
 

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Some dudes leave their kids while they in they 20s.

I think kids with older parents will be iight



Your kids won't need your 100% attention in their first years. When they are young, kids are mostly with their mother. It starts to shift around 7 or 8.

When your first kid will be 15 (very sensitive age) you'll be late 50's, pushing 60's.

I understand your motivation but I still think that having your first kid after 40 is late, and it might have bad effects on your kids.

But good luck.
 

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Some dudes leave their kids while they in they 20s.

I think kids with older parents will be iight


Some do it in their 40's.

We are not talking about irresponsible parents. That's another topic.

We are talking about the youth and energy dedicated to your kids.
 

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We might be from different worlds cuz I know many young fathers who don't dedicate shyt to their kids. They either ain't have money or they said they too young fukk that shyt.




There's nothing wrong with your thinking. I just see things different.

Can you explain what you mean by youth and energy dedicated to kids?

How young are you referring? Because you can only be so young and have a family.

Some do it in their 40's.

We are not talking about irresponsible parents. That's another topic.

We are talking about the youth and energy dedicated to your kids.
 

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If you're over 35, you don't have a wife/kids, I'll look at you funny.
:gucci: so you looked at Jay-Z funny? You know what, if you're under 30 and you're married or had kids you really lost. Who the fukk really wants to work 8 hours then come home and work another 8 hours with kids? You guys got the game fukked up.
 

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:gucci: so you looked at Jay-Z funny? You know what, if you're under 30 and you're married or had kids you really lost. Who the fukk really wants to work 8 hours then come home and work another 8 hours with kids? You guys got the game fukked up.

Yeah. :yeshrug:

When his twins will be teens, he'll probably be like their grandpa. :yeshrug:
 

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Thats what I'm saying. nikkas wanna settle down right after college and enjoy their money and life at 40, but but.... if you do fun things at 40 and buy nice cars and clothes you're having a midlife crisis. If you're young doing that you're selfish.

Do you know what I gotta say to people who would ever try to judge me? Are you gonna pay my bills ? To women, you gonna give me some p*ssy to settle down with?

People really gotta stop judging people.


:gucci: so you looked at Jay-Z funny? You know what, if you're under 30 and you're married or had kids you really lost. Who the fukk really wants to work 8 hours then come home and work another 8 hours with kids? You guys got the game fukked up.
 
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