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Sunshine said:
yeah. If you don't know if you want to marry someone after being in a relationship for 1-2 years, then I think it's safe to say you don't want to marry them. Especially if you knew them for a while before you started dating. This is one of the few things my dad says that I agree with. :ehh:
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Diondon said:
:shaq2: So your'e saying the guy has to propose after 2 years even if he isn't ready, and if he doesn't you'll leave, even though if he did you may or may not say no cause you may not be ready as well? Am I correct?
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:what: I said he doesn't have to do anything he doesn't want to do. If he's not ready then he's not ready. That doesn't mean I have to stick around until he makes up his mind.

If I'm with a guy for 2 years, then that means I really like/love him, I wouldn't say no. Doesn't matter if I'm ready or not. I wouldn't take up 2 years of someone's life and then not do what they want.
 
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KenyaDoll said:
I'm willing to throw a relationship that isn't going anywhere away. I know the people I date more than you do. If I had to propose to any of the men I've seriously dated in the past, there is a good chance that they didn't want to marry me in the first place.
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Why is it always "Either Or" with yall women?

Just because a guy doesn't propose to you in the time frame you would like. Does not mean he does not want to marry you.

I hate that women think just because a guy is taking X amount of time, that means he doesn't want to marry you.

There are so many variables such as maybe he (or he believes the relationship) is not ready yet.

Then you're going to say you're going to leave? LOL women kill me man seriously.

So instead of doing things and showing him that you are wifey material and/or that yall's relationship is ready for marriage, you just walk away.

Women need to kill the entitled b.s and understand that maybe you have to put in work and/or convince you mate that the relationship is ready for marriage.
 
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Sunshine said:
:what: I said he doesn't have to do anything he doesn't want to do. If he's not ready then he's not ready. That doesn't mean I have to stick around until he makes up his mind.

If I'm with a guy for 2 years, then that means I really like/love him, I wouldn't say no. Doesn't matter if I'm ready or not. I wouldn't take up 2 years of someone's life and then not do what they want.
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:pachaha: Good luck sista
 
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y2flyy said:
Why is it always "Either Or" with yall women?

Just because a guy doesn't propose to you in the time frame you would like. Does not mean he does not want to marry you.

I hate that women think just because a guy is taking X amount of time, that means he doesn't want to marry you.

There are so many variables such as maybe he (or he believes the relationship) is not ready yet.

Then you're going to say you're going to leave? LOL women kill me man seriously.

So instead of doing things and showing him that you are wifey material and/or that yall's relationship is ready for marriage, you just walk away.

Women need to kill the entitled b.s and understand that maybe you have to put in work and/or convince you mate that the relationship is ready for marriage.
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Please show me where I mentioned any timeframe that a man has to marry me or propose to me! That's right! I didn't.

I specifically said that I would throw away a relationship that isn't going anywhere. In case you didn't know, not all relationships lead to marriage (for various reasons). If I find out that I'm in one of those types of relationships, I'm ending it. Idgaf whether you disapprove or not. I'm not staying in a dead end relationship because a no-name on the coli said I should wait it out.

You just wanted to go on a rant. Sweetie, you did not need to quote my post to do so because you are talking a bunch of bs that I never said and that you know nothing about (esp in regard to how I am in a relationship).
 
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Sunshine said:
:what: I said he doesn't have to do anything he doesn't want to do. If he's not ready then he's not ready. That doesn't mean I have to stick around until he makes up his mind.

If I'm with a guy for 2 years, then that means I really like/love him, I wouldn't say no. Doesn't matter if I'm ready or not. I wouldn't take up 2 years of someone's life and then not do what they want.
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2 years is nothing compared to a lifetime commitment

Don't blame a dude who wants to make sure she is the right one...cause if we fukk up then court system will take Us to the cleaners

But if u wanna leave after 2years go right ahead
Cause the next guy u run into you gonna wait another 2 yrs
 
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