Nice guys finish last they say.

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I used think I'm a "nice guy", until I realized I had some a$$hole traits.

Just because I'm not a blatant womanizer and can speak respectful in certain situations doesn't make me a nice dude....

Over time I recognized I was manipulative in other ways. :yeshrug:

Just be yourself, and you'll attract women accordingly.

Mos def even though being myself makes women crazy lol. They assume I’m one of those guys that will change and be a savage in the long run

:mjlol:

I’m like nah I’m being myself and I let em know there’s is no woman beautiful enough to make me change my character to please them lol.​
 

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Mos def even though being myself makes women crazy lol. They assume I’m one of those guys that will change and be a savage in the long run

:mjlol:

I’m like nah I’m being myself and I let em know there’s is no woman beautiful enough to make me change my character to please them lol.​
I run into the same dilemma.
The truth is, they're not wrong for their coming to that conclusion.
The truth is, I dont have time or energy to juggle more than one person.

But hypothetically if their was more time in the day, and I could get away with it. :yeshrug:
 

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Nice guys are just average brehs who treat woman well in hopes of keeping her.

Players are just men with options who fully utilize these options.

Women are going to eventually settle for A because they get tired of a chasing and being used just for sex or they have baggage or kids n looking for a sucka to help support.

As women get older they usually will settle because their types aren't taking them seriously. This girl I know her type is tall, muscular...lol can't get that her bf is fat nerdy dude who would be glad to have her.
 

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It's not about being a nice guy or not. It's about being able to think for yourself and having your own personality. Being a boring nerd that caters to women and makes excuses for them is what I consider nice guy traits.

Nice guys that complain about women not choosing them are boring nerds that lack personality most of the time.
 

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It's not about being a nice guy or not. It's about being able to think for yourself and having your own personality. Being a boring nerd that caters to women and makes excuses for them is what I consider nice guy traits.

Nice guys that complain about women not choosing them are boring nerds that lack personality most of the time.
You’re describing a fake nice guy, if he’s catering to women to get what he wants
 

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"Nice guys" are just people pleasers tbh. The types that bend over backward to make sure that people like them, even at the cost of their own self-interest, women included. Some of them either have a low self-image or a sense of entitlement where they were raised thinking that women like guys who do nice things for them, which isn't necessarily the case. These dudes blow up b/c what they were taught didn't work and they realize that they've been lied to.

Being friendly is fine, just be about your purpose above all else and set proper boundaries so that you aren't walked over.
 

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An authentic genuine nice guy doesn't go around telling women in particular that they're "nice guys", their actions speak louder than words. This is why when dudes go around telling women how much of "nice guy" they are more often than not they go home empty handed :manny:.
That ether to fake nice guys
 

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This one dude I know who got a lot of cat was the absolute scum of the earth, take that how’ve you will
 

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nice=boring and predictible,being nice all the time.

Women know their faults and know what other people have corrected them on that they still haven't changed. And they don't respect you as a man when you don't try to correct those faults or check them. You must treat your woman like a child,and what happens if you are always nice to your child?they don't respect you either.
 

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Men can't be nice to women they really don't know for no reason, gratitude isn't out here sucking dikks. Niceness can only be sincerely given if a woman is your relative/wife already. If a woman is already into you, niceness is a formality, if she's halfway sure, it's a necessity, if she is not, it is all in vain.
 
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