Nice Guys just kill yourselves right now :scust:

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“Man” in their terms vs “man” in my terms don’t align right. I think a lot of their criteria is stupid. And I refuse to do shyt that I think is totally stupid. That’s the 1 personality trait that I can’t get rid of.

My view of being a man is probably different than most peoples here because I was raised very traditionally.
And going by what i've read on thecoli... well most of ya'll were not.

If you criteria doesn't match hers, no problem just move on.
There will be someone it does match.
 

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My view of being man is probably different than most peoples here because I was raised very traditionally.
And going by what i've read on thecoli... well most of ya'll were not.

If you criteria doesn't match hers, no problem just move on.
There will be someone it does match.
Yeah I wasn’t. I don’t know what traditional means but my parents were big into teaching me to think and act for myself which is...honestly, better, to me. But I do sometimes wish I knew wtf “real man” is. That term does not carry any meaning to me and never has.
 

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Yeah I wasn’t. I don’t know what traditional means but my parents were big into teaching me to think and act for myself which is...honestly, better, to me. But I do sometimes wish I knew wtf “real man” is. That term does not carry any meaning to me and never has.

Well i'm not going to say being traditional is the only way to be a "real man" because that's a very myopic view.

But i'll tell you what it isn't... following what a woman says she wants just to get some p*ssy.
 

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Its not hardwired to like dusty nikkas and hoodlums....

Its hardwired to like masculinity , which u can do without breaking the law and ruining ur life and destroying ur neighborhood/community.....

White men do it EVERY single day...

It just so happens to be that alott street cats have masculine traits albeit its overcompensation and misplaced.....

Quit confusing weak minded hypermasculinity with being a real man.....

If street dudes were “real men” they wouldnt be gettin gentrified out their hoods as we speak...

This just shows the social engineering american women of all races have, this culture turned women into trash thats why they like trash....
:dahell: i agree with you but reread my post
i said its hardwired that bytches look at good guys as a come up.
 

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it's my theory that many women from disenfranchised & impoverished communities have hybristophilia, they are attracted to black men who murder other black men in the communities they live in, women are hypergamous by nature & who reigns supreme in the black community? who is exalted in the black community? who is apotheosized? ( God like lol ) that's right thugs & street nikkaz, it's the trajectory of the culture that has to change, women are biologically hardwired to seek power & resources, & street nikkaz have that in the black community, now ask yourself who dictates & controls the culture in the black community
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As a reformed street nikka myself I've gotten so much p*ssy just for having a suspected penchant for violence & hanging around known shooters etc...again it's glorified in the culture
 

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My female coworker last year was talking about how this new nikka she was dating was a lame and that she was used to street nikkas. The girl she was talking to told her that she had a kid now :mjgrin: so she needed to think about stability and finding someone reliable for her and her son. It was a Coli thread in the making but I ain’t care to make it :wow: Upon later probing, the father of said thots child was a dumb hood nikka that she couldn’t be with long term even though she was going on and on earlier about how she preferred real nikkas and that her new guy was a lame. Even though that real nikka left her a single mother :wow: I swear these hoes really do look at good guys as bytches and suckers. And they really do be on that roughneck steeze until they get pregnant and then find a nice guy to help raise the b*stard baby afterward. I’ll never understand it. Her father was in upper management at the company too so she had no reason to be such a dumb thot.

Don't date single mothers
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My view of being a man is probably different than most peoples here because I was raised very traditionally.
And going by what i've read on thecoli... well most of ya'll were not.

If you criteria doesn't match hers, no problem just move on.
There will be someone it does match.

Igbo conceptions of manhood are very interesting. It's unheard of in our culture to think that a weapon = manhood. Being able to provide for your wife and your children is manhood. Being very successful in terms of earning money is manhood. Being respected in your community as a pillar is manhood.
 
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