“Man” in their terms vs “man” in my terms don’t align right. I think a lot of their criteria is stupid. And I refuse to do shyt that I think is totally stupid. That’s the 1 personality trait that I can’t get rid of.
My view of being a man is probably different than most peoples here because I was raised very traditionally.
And going by what i've read on thecoli... well most of ya'll were not.
If you criteria doesn't match hers, no problem just move on.
There will be someone it does match.

i agree with you but reread my post 
Upon later probing, the father of said thots child was a dumb hood nikka that she couldn’t be with long term even though she was going on and on earlier about how she preferred real nikkas and that her new guy was a lame. Even though that real nikka left her a single mother 
There’s just something about that feeling that the gun can go off at anytime and shoot you on the foot